Shloshim

Bereavement in Judaism () is a combination of ''minhag'' and ''mitzvah'' derived from the Torah and Judaism's classical rabbinic texts. The details of observance and practice vary according to each Jewish community.

Mourners

In Judaism, the principal mourners are the first-degree relatives: parent, child, sibling, and spouse. There are some customs that are unique to an individual mourning a parent.

Halachot concerning mourning do not apply to those under thirteen years of age, nor do they apply when the deceased is aged 30 days or less.

Upon receiving news of the death

Upon receiving the news of the death, the following blessing is recited:

:
:Transliteration:
:Translation: "Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the universe, the Judge of Truth lt., the Just Judge"

There is also a custom of rending one's clothes at the moment one hears news of a death. Another prevalent custom is to tear at the funeral.Klein, Isaac, A Guide to Jewish Religious Practice, Ktav Publishing House, 1979, page 278.

Terminology and timing

* Aveil (plural ''Aveilim'') – mourner(s).
* Aveilut – mourning (there are different levels, based on who & timing):
** Aninut – generally the day when the news is heard; before burial. A mourner in this period is known as an ''onen''.
** Shiva – seven days, from the Hebrew word for seven. Begins day of burial.
** Shloshim – 30 days, starting from the day of burial.
** Yud Bais Chodesh – 12 months, for a parent. Yud Bais (Yiddish), or Yud Bet (Hebrew), means 12. Chodesh means month.
* Chevra kadisha – burial society.
* Hesped – Eulogy.
* Kaddish – said by a mourner (or by someone else, on behalf of ...)
* Keriah – tearing. Timing varies by custom. At times deferred to funeral chapel or at the cemetery.
* Kvura – burial.
* Levaya – The funeral service. The word means escort(ing).
* L'Illui Nishmat - Hebrew for Elevation of the soul, sometimes abbreviated LI"N.
* Matzevah – means monument or tombstone. See Unveiling of the tombstone
* Petira – passing
* Shemira – watching or guarding of the body until burial, to ensure it is not left unaccompanied
* Tahara – purification (by water) of the body
* Yahrtzeit – is Yiddish for anniversary of the (Hebrew/Jewish) date of passing.

Chevra kadisha

The ''chevra kadisha'' ( he, חברה קדישא "sacred society") is a Jewish burial society usually consisting of volunteers, men and women, who prepare the deceased for proper Jewish burial. Their job is to ensure that the body of the deceased is shown proper respect, ritually cleansed, and shrouded.

Many local ''chevra kadishas'' in urban areas are affiliated with local synagogues, and they often own their own burial plots in various local cemeteries. Some Jews pay an annual token membership fee to the ''chevra kadisha'' of their choice, so that when the time comes, the society will not only attend to the body of the deceased as befits Jewish law, but will also ensure burial in a plot that it controls at an appropriate nearby Jewish cemetery.

If no gravediggers are available, then it is additionally the function of the male society members to ensure that graves are dug. In Israel, members of ''chevra kadishas'' consider it an honor to not only prepare the body for burial but also to dig the grave for a fellow Jew's body, particularly if the deceased was known to be a righteous person.

Many burial societies hold one or two annual fast days, especially the 7th day of Adar, Yartzeit of Moshe Rabbeinu (Moses), and organize regular study sessions to remain up to date with the relevant articles of Jewish law. In addition, most burial societies also support families during the ''shiva'' (traditional week of mourning) by arranging prayer services, preparing meals, and providing other services for the mourners.

Preparing the body — ''taharah''

There are three major stages to preparing the body for burial: washing (''rechitzah''), ritual purification (''taharah''), and dressing (''halbashah''). The term ''taharah'' is used to refer both to the overall process of burial preparation, and to the specific step of ritual purification.

Prayers and readings from Torah, including Psalms, Song of Songs, Isaiah, Ezekiel, and Zechariah are recited.

The general sequence of steps for performing ''taharah'' is as follows.

# The body (''guf'') is uncovered (it has been covered with a sheet awaiting ''taharah'').
# The body is washed carefully. Any bleeding is stopped and all blood is buried along with the deceased. The body is thoroughly cleaned of dirt, body fluids, and solids, and anything else that may be on the skin. All jewelry is removed. The beard (if present) is not shaved.
# The body is purified with water, either by immersion in a ''mikveh'' or by pouring a continuous stream of 9 kavim (usually 3 buckets) in a prescribed manner.
# The body is dried (according to most customs).
# The body is dressed in traditional burial clothing (''tachrichim''). A sash (''avnet'') is wrapped around the clothing and tied in the form of the Hebrew letter ''shin,'' representing one of the names of God.
# The casket (''aron'') (if there is one) is prepared by removing any linings or other embellishments. A winding sheet (''sovev'') is laid into the casket. Outside the Land of Israel, if the deceased wore a prayer shawl (''tallit'') during th