Kehlani Ashley Parrish (born April 24, 1995)
is an American singer, songwriter, and dancer. Kehlani is originally from
Oakland, California
Oakland is the largest city and the county seat of Alameda County, California, United States. A major West Coast of the United States, West Coast port, Oakland is the largest city in the East Bay region of the San Francisco Bay Area, the third ...
, and achieved initial fame as a member of the teen group
Poplyfe in 2011.
In 2014, Kehlani released their first commercial
mixtape, ''
Cloud 19''.
The mixtape was listed as one of the ''
Complex''s "50 Best Albums of 2014."
Their second commercial mixtape, ''
You Should Be Here'' (2015), debuted at number 5 on the
R&B/Hip-Hop chart. In 2016, they were nominated for the
Grammy Award for Best Urban Contemporary Album for ''You Should Be Here''. Kehlani released their debut studio album, ''
SweetSexySavage'', in 2017.
They released their second studio album ''
It Was Good Until It Wasn't'' in 2020. They released their third studio album ''
Blue Water Road'' on April 29, 2022.
Early life
Kehlani Ashley Parrish was born on April 24, 1995, in
Oakland, California
Oakland is the largest city and the county seat of Alameda County, California, United States. A major West Coast of the United States, West Coast port, Oakland is the largest city in the East Bay region of the San Francisco Bay Area, the third ...
. They were adopted and raised by their aunt when their mother, who had a drug addiction, served time in jail.
Kehlani's father, who also had a drug addiction, died when they were a toddler.
During their teenage years, they attended the
Oakland School for the Arts, where they initially practiced dance, particularly ballet and
modern dance.
Early in their life, Kehlani aspired to train as a dancer at the
Juilliard School, but they had a knee injury in junior high, which led them to turn their attention towards singing.
While living with their aunt, Kehlani was exposed almost exclusively to
R&B and
neo soul artists, such as
Lauryn Hill,
Erykah Badu
Erica Abi Wright (born February 26, 1971), known professionally as Erykah Badu (), is an American singer-songwriter, record producer and actress. Influenced by R&B, soul, and hip hop, Badu rose to prominence in the late 1990s when her debut al ...
and
Jill Scott, whom today they describe as some of their early musical influences.
When they were 14, Kehlani was recruited to join a local
pop
Pop or POP may refer to:
Arts, entertainment, and media Music
* Pop music, a musical genre Artists
* POP, a Japanese idol group now known as Gang Parade
* Pop!, a UK pop group
* Pop! featuring Angie Hart, an Australian band
Albums
* ''Pop'' (G ...
cover band, Poplyfe.
Career
2009–2013: Beginnings with PopLyfe
Kehlani's singing career effectively began when they started out as a member and lead vocalist for the group called PopLyfe. The band's music was produced by former
Tony! Toni! Tone! member
D'Wayne Wiggins.
Within two years, the group performed throughout the
Bay Area
The San Francisco Bay Area, often referred to as simply the Bay Area, is a populous region surrounding the San Francisco, San Pablo, and Suisun Bay estuaries in Northern California. The Bay Area is defined by the Association of Bay Area Go ...
and other cities. In 2011, they auditioned for the
sixth season of ''America's Got Talent,'' and eventually finished in fourth place. During their final appearance, judge
Piers Morgan told Kehlani, "You've got real talent, but I don't think you need the group."
After the end of ''
America's Got Talent'', Kehlani left PopLyfe, because of several managerial and contractual disputes. Over six months, they avoided doing anything music related to avoid being sued by the group's management.
In 2012 and 2013, Kehlani was effectively homeless, moving from house to house and often sleeping on couches.
During their senior year of high school, they moved to Los Angeles, California, with no legal guardian. In 2013,
Nick Cannon, who had been the host of ''America's Got Talent'' during PopLyfe's run, called Kehlani to ask about being in a rap group. They agreed at first and went to Los Angeles, but, ultimately didn't like the direction of the group and moved back to Oakland. To help with money and food, they decided to begin stealing iPhones to sell, and items from grocery stores for a short time.
Months later, Kehlani released their first solo track on
SoundCloud, called "ANTISUMMERLUV". Cannon called back after hearing the song and he bought them an apartment in
LA, along with studio time.
2014–2017: ''SweetSexySavage''

In 2014, the studio time culminated in the release of their first mixtape, called ''
Cloud 19''. The mixtape features
guest appearances from Kyle Dion. Cannon also sent them to New York City to work with record producer Jahaan Sweet.
The mixtape ranked at twenty-eighth on ''Complex's'' list of the "50 Best Albums of 2014,"
and was also listed among
Pitchfork's "Overlooked Mixtapes 2014."
A song they released in late 2014, "Till the Morning" was placed by ''
Billboard'' as one of the "Emerging Picks of the Week" on November 7, 2014.
In 2015, Kehlani opened for American rapper
G-Eazy on the second leg of his From the Bay to the Universe tour.
On April 28, 2015, they released their second mixtape ''
You Should Be Here''. ''Billboard'' called it the "year's first great R&B album",
when it debuted at number 5 on the US ''
Billboard''
Top R&B/Hip-Hop Albums
Top R&B/Hip-Hop Albums is a music chart published weekly by ''Billboard (magazine), Billboard'' magazine that ranks contemporary R&B, R&B and hip hop music, hip hop albums based on sales in the United States and is compiled by Nielsen SoundScan. Th ...
. The project features guest appearances from fellow American rapper
Chance the Rapper and American singer
BJ the Chicago Kid.
A week after the release, they announced that they had signed a deal to Atlantic Records.
In support of the Mixtape, they went on the You Should Be Here tour, which sold out every North American date and select European dates.
Throughout 2015, they also received individual plaudits: ''Complex'' called them one of the "15 Artists to Watch Out for in 2015"
and ''
Rolling Stone
''Rolling Stone'' is an American monthly magazine that focuses on music, politics, and popular culture. It was founded in San Francisco, California, in 1967 by Jann Wenner, and the music critic Ralph J. Gleason. It was first known for its co ...
'' named them one of the "10 New Artists You Need to Know".
They were also nominated for a 2016
Grammy Award
The Grammy Awards (stylized as GRAMMY), or simply known as the Grammys, are awards presented by the Recording Academy of the United States to recognize "outstanding" achievements in the music industry. They are regarded by many as the most pre ...
for
Best Urban Contemporary Album. In March 2016, Kehlani was featured on English singer and friend
Zayn on his single, "
Wrong" from his debut solo studio album ''
Mind of Mine''. Their song "
Gangsta
Gangsta may refer to:
Urban culture
* Gangsta rap, a subgenre of hip hop music that evolved from hardcore hip hop and purports to reflect urban crime and the violent lifestyles of inner-city youths
* Gangster, a member of a gang
* Hip hop fashio ...
" was featured on the soundtrack for the August 2016 hit movie ''
Suicide Squad,'' which gave them and their music some beneficial recognition, as it reached number 41 on the Hot 100.
On November 26, 2016, Kehlani revealed the title of their debut studio album ''
SweetSexySavage'', which was released on Atlantic Records on January 27, 2017.
In December 2017, Kehlani was featured on American rapper
Eminem's single "
Nowhere Fast", from his ninth studio album ''
Revival''. Kehlani's third annual Tsunami Christmas tour concluded in Santa Ana, California on December 18, 2017.
2018present: ''It Was Good Until It Wasn't'' and ''Blue Water Road''
Kehlani served as an opening act on American singer
Demi Lovato's
Tell Me You Love Me World Tour in North America, which started on February 26, 2018 and concluded on April 2, 2018. They then opened on American singer
Halsey's
Hopeless Fountain Kingdom World Tour
The Hopeless Fountain Kingdom World Tour was the second headlining concert tour by American singer-songwriter Halsey, in support of her second studio album ''Hopeless Fountain Kingdom'' (2017). The tour began on September 29, 2017, in Uncasville ...
on the Oceania leg during April 2018. In March 2018, Kehlani was featured on American singer
Charlie Puth's single "
Done for Me", from his second studio album, ''
Voicenotes''. In April 2018, they were featured on American rapper
Cardi B
Belcalis Marlenis Almánzar Cephus (, ; born October 11, 1992), known professionally as Cardi B, is an American rapper and songwriter. She first gained popularity as an influencer on Vine and Instagram. From 2015 to early 2017, she appeared as ...
's single "
Ring", from Cardi B's debut studio album, ''
Invasion of Privacy''. The song entered at number 28 on the
''Billboard'' Hot 100, making Kehlani's first top 40 entry on the chart.
On February 22, 2019, their third commercial mixtape ''
While We Wait'' was released by
Atlantic Records
Atlantic Recording Corporation (simply known as Atlantic Records) is an American record label founded in October 1947 by Ahmet Ertegun and Herb Abramson. Over its first 20 years of operation, Atlantic earned a reputation as one of the most ...
and debuted at number nine on the
US Billboard 200. The mixtape had 34,000
album-equivalent units in its first week. It is supported by singles, "
Nights Like This" featuring
Ty Dolla Sign, "Nunya" featuring
Dom Kennedy, and "Butterfly".
On September 27, 2019, Kehlani and Russian-German DJ
Zedd released a collaborative single titled "
Good Thing." Kehlani and American singer
Teyana Taylor's then released a single titled "
Morning" on November 1, 2019.
On January 28, 2020, Kehlani was featured on Canadian singer
Justin Bieber's promotional single, "
Get Me", from his fifth studio album, ''
Changes''. They were also set to be a supporting act alongside American rapper and singer
Jaden Smith for Bieber's Changes Tour, which was pushed back due to the
COVID-19 pandemic
The COVID-19 pandemic, also known as the coronavirus pandemic, is an ongoing global pandemic of coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) caused by severe acute respiratory syndrome coronavirus 2 (SARS-CoV-2). The novel virus was first identified ...
. The tour was pushed back to 2022 and renamed the
Justice World Tour
The Justice World Tour was the fourth concert tour by Canadian singer Justin Bieber. The tour was in support of his fifth and sixth studio albums, ''Changes'' (2020) and ''Justice'' (2021).
Promoted by T-Mobile, the tour was originally set to ...
to support both ''Changes'' and its successor, Bieber's sixth studio album, ''
Justice
Justice, in its broadest sense, is the principle that people receive that which they deserve, with the interpretation of what then constitutes "deserving" being impacted upon by numerous fields, with many differing viewpoints and perspective ...
'' (2021), but Kehlani was no longer an opening act. Kehlani released their second studio album, ''
It Was Good Until It Wasn't'' on May 8, 2020. It debuted at number two on the US ''Billboard'' 200, based on 83,000
album-equivalent unit
The album-equivalent unit, or album equivalent, is a measurement unit in music industry to define the consumption of music that equals the purchase of one album copy. This consumption includes streaming and song downloads in addition to tradit ...
s earned (including 25,000 copies of pure album sales).
In September 2020, Kehlani recorded songs for the deluxe version of ''It Was Good Until It Wasn't''. However, after the session they decided that the songs would fit better on a separate project, and began working on their third studio album, ''
Blue Water Road''. On September 14, 2021, Kehlani revealed the teaser for ''Blue Water Road'', and announced that the album will be released late that year. The album's lead single "Altar" was released on September 15. The second single, "Little Story", was released on February 24, 2022. On March 24, Kehlani took to their Instagram that their album would be released April 29. The following week, the singer released "Up at Night", featuring Justin Bieber, as the third single from the album.
Personal life
In January 2016, it was confirmed that Kehlani was in a relationship with star NBA point guard
Kyrie Irving. In March 2016, Canadian musician
PartyNextDoor posted a picture of Kehlani's hand on Instagram, insinuating that they were in bed together. This caused a media controversy across Twitter, in which abuse was tweeted against Kehlani in hundreds of thousands of posts. Kehlani soon after attempted
suicide. Irving later stated on Twitter that they had broken up before the incident. Kehlani took to social media to explain that they did not cheat on Irving in a public statement to acknowledge their attempted suicide in the wake of the media attention. In 2018, Irving penned an apology to Kehlani via an Instagram post, expressing appreciation towards the singer, and they responded wishing him well.
On September 6, 2019, it was confirmed that Kehlani was dating American rapper
YG, but after three months of dating, Kehlani and YG broke up. However, the two released a collaborative single for
Valentine's Day, "Konclusions", on February 14, 2020. In May 2020, during an interview with
''The Breakfast Club'', Kehlani said that they discovered that YG was cheating on them after seeing his phone. YG apologized by filling their lawn with roses. Kehlani added that they do not speak, but remain cordial.
Kehlani announced that they were pregnant with their first child, a girl, on Instagram on October 12, 2018, with the father being Javaughn Young-White, who plays guitar for Kehlani. They opened up in December 2018 about prenatal depression and how their pregnancy is harder than it might look. On March 23, 2019, Kehlani gave birth to a daughter at home. Kehlani is vegan. They have spoken about their past experiences being a survivor of sexual assault and rape. In the summer of 2020, Kehlani bought a small farm in
Simi Valley, California, where they live with their daughter.They are in a relationship with the 070 collective member, Danielle Balbuena, better known as
070 Shake
Danielle Balbuena (born June 13, 1997), better known by her stage name 070 Shake, is an American hip hop recording artist. 070 Shake is a part of the musical collective 070, who have released a mixtape together titled ''The 070 Project: Chapter ...
.
Sexuality and gender identity
In April 2018, they said about their sexuality on Twitter, stating, "I'm queer. Not bi, not straight. I'm attracted to women, men, REALLY attracted to queer men, non-binary people, intersex people, trans people. lil poly pansexual".
After that, during a live stream in early 2021, Kehlani announced that they identify as a lesbian, after having publicly identified as
queer and
pansexual in the past. They prefer
polyamorous relationships. They have stated that it is important for them to include female pronouns in their music.
In an April 2019 interview with ''
Diva'' magazine, Kehlani stated they are "definitely on the
non-binary scale" although preferred "she" pronouns. In December 2020, Kehlani updated their pronouns on Twitter to "she/they".
In an interview with ''Byrdie'' Magazine in 2021, they stated their preference for "they" over "she", because "something feels really affirming when people say they", and that "it feels like you really see me".
Tattoos
Kehlani got their first tattoo when they were sixteen. Some of their tattoos include
Coraline,
Regina "Reggie" Rocket,
Mia Wallace and Vincent Vega dancing,
Lauryn Hill,
Frida Kahlo, a sleeve of roses, a
sunflower, and face tattoos of a paper plane and four dots.
In an interview with Power 106, Kehlani discusses their attempted suicide was due to the negative media response as well as their first major heartbreak. They state that their album was therapeutic through their difficult time. During their recovery, they got a tattoo that says "perdida y encontrada" which in English translates to "lost and found".
On their travels to Australia during August 2017, Kehlani received a "Kirituhi", a Maori tattoo from a New Zealand artist, whom they flew from New Zealand to Sydney, Australia to complete. On Kehlani's Instagram post, they captioned the photo: "
e piece representing my whānau/family, 6 koru representing my 4 siblings here on earth and the 2 that have transferred into the next life. 2 mangopare/hammerhead sharks representing guidance and strength through adversity and tribulation."
On January 5, 2018, Kehlani posted a photo to Instagram showing that their "woke" hand tattoo had been now covered up with a lotus flower; they stated that they felt that their "hand would speak for
hembefore
heyeven got a chance to open
heirmouth".
Discography
*''
SweetSexySavage'' (2017)
*''
It Was Good Until It Wasn't'' (2020)
* ''
Blue Water Road'' (2022)
Filmography
Tours
;Headlining
*
SweetSexySavage World Tour (2017)
* Blue Water Road Trip (2022)
;Supporting
*
Demi Lovato –
Tell Me You Love Me World Tour (2018)
*
Halsey –
Hopeless Fountain Kingdom World Tour
The Hopeless Fountain Kingdom World Tour was the second headlining concert tour by American singer-songwriter Halsey, in support of her second studio album ''Hopeless Fountain Kingdom'' (2017). The tour began on September 29, 2017, in Uncasville ...
(2018)
Awards and nominations
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It Was Good Until It Wasn't''
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SweetSexySavage''
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It Was Good Until It Wasn't''
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You Should Be Here''
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References
External links
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