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'It's All About Me' is a song by American singer
Mýa Mya Marie Harrison (; born October 10, 1979), known professionally as Mýa, is an American singer, songwriter, dancer, record producer, and actress. She was born in Washington D.C. and studied ballet, jazz, and tap dance as a child. Her ca ...
. It served as her debut single from her self-titled debut studio album and recorded as a
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with R&B singer
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. A psychedelic R&B
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, "It's All About Me" was written and composed by Sisqó and
Darryl Pearson Darryl "Day" Pearson is an American record producer, songwriter, singer, and multi-instrumentalist, best known for writing and producing "It's All About Me", a Mya/Sisqó single that peaked at #6 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, "Part Time Love ...
, while the latter served as producer. It interpolates the composition "
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" by
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. Following its release, "It's All About Me" received generally mixed to positive reviews from contemporary music critics, whom compared Harrison to her contemporary peers
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and Monica. A commercial success, "It's All About Me" became a top ten hit on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 for the week of May 16, 1998 where it peaked and spent three consecutive weeks at number six. It fared better on the
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chart, where it reached number two. Internationally, the single was a modest success; it reached the top 20 in New Zealand and top 40 in Canada. The song's accompanying
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was filmed by director G. Thomas Ferguson and University Music CEO Haqq Islam. Given her artistic background, Harrison choreographed the dance routines and designed her own outfit - a red
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traditional
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. The music video featured Harrison performing a strip tease and
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with Sisqó after they meet following a concert from Sisqó's group,
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(Harrison, Sisqó, and Dru Hill were all label mates at the time on University Music).


Background

Through his work with
Dru Hill Dru Hill is an American R&B boy band, whose repertoire included soul, hip hop soul and gospel music. The group was founded in Baltimore in 1992 by Tamir "Nokio the N-Tity" Ruffin, and as of 2023, is still active. Dru Hill recorded seven top 40 ...
,
Darryl Pearson Darryl "Day" Pearson is an American record producer, songwriter, singer, and multi-instrumentalist, best known for writing and producing "It's All About Me", a Mya/Sisqó single that peaked at #6 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, "Part Time Love ...
was introduced to Mya through their label CEO
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and subsequently the pair began working on music together. According to producer Darryl Pearson, "It's All About Me" initially didn't start out as a duet between Mya and Sisqo. Pearson explained, "Sisqo and I wrote "It's All About Me." Sisqo wrote the lyrics and I did the music, expounding, "I got Sisqo to write "It's All About Me," and he didn’t know." However, Pearson acknowledges for intentional purposes, "I left him in the second verse." As a suggestion to the label, Pearson advised, "let’s leave Sisqo on there and make it a duet." In an interview with ''
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'' magazine, Harrison described the concept behind "It’s All About Me": "It's not a conceited thing. Basically, I'm speaking for people who are in relationships but aren't getting their fifty percent. The song is about taking control. Personally, I'm not trying to get into relationships right now. But when I do, it's fifty-fifty."


Composition

Recorded in 1997, "It's All About Me" was written by Sisqo and produced by
Darryl Pearson Darryl "Day" Pearson is an American record producer, songwriter, singer, and multi-instrumentalist, best known for writing and producing "It's All About Me", a Mya/Sisqó single that peaked at #6 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, "Part Time Love ...
at Silent Sound Studio in Atlanta, Georgia. On top of, writing and production duties, the pair handled and were responsible for the vocal arrangements as well. While additional contribution was provided by mixing engineer Thom Kidd at
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in Los Angeles, California. A psychedelic R&B slow jam with a runtime of four minutes and twenty-six seconds, "It's All About Me" contains a replayed sample from composition
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by
Art of Noise Art of Noise (also the Art of Noise) were a British avant-garde synth-rock group formed in early 1983 by engineer/producer Gary Langan and programmer J. J. Jeczalik, along with keyboardist/arranger Anne Dudley, producer Trevor Horn, and ...
. In a retrospective review of parent album ''Mýa'',
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's Preezy Brown commented on Sisqo's and Mya chemistry, calling it "undeniable" and noted the collaboration became a signature selection within her discography.


Critical reception

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''s Larry Flick gave "It's All About Me" a favorable review, writing, "Although It's All About Me can be too repetitive and thus unnecessarily tiring at times, it does have an interesting, catchy rhythm that's hard to miss. Undoubtedly, R&B listeners will find this highly appealing. The vocals have a great range, as well as a smooth, angelic tone. It's worth giving it a try." Writing for ''
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'' magazine, Charles Aaron described "It's All About Me" as a "G-rated version of
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s pussy-power politics." ''
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'' called "It's All About Me," a catchy R&B outing."


Accolades


Chart performance

In the United States, It's All About Me debuted at number eighty-two on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 chart for the issue dated week of March 14, 1998. It ascended from 82-62 in its second week for the issue dated week of March 21, 1998. The song reached its peak at number six for issue dated week of May 16, 1998. From the issue dated weeks of May 16–30, 1998; it spent 3 consecutive weeks at number six. It spent a total of 20 consecutive weeks on the chart. The single became Harrison's first U.S. Top Ten hit (solo) on the chart and certified gold by
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on June 4, 1998 selling 800,000 copies. It became a top five hit on ''Billboard''s component
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chart. It debuted at number sixty-one for the issue dated week of March 14, 1998. It rose from 61-31 in its second week for the issue dated week of March 21, 1998. "It's All About Me" entered the coveted top ten at number eight for issue dated week of April 18, 1998. It reached its peak at number two the issue dated week of May 9, 1998. The song spent a total of 27 consecutive weeks on the chart. It's All About Me remains Harrison's biggest and highest charting single to date on the Hot R&B Singles chart. In Canada, the song reached its peak at number thirty-nine for the issue dated week of April 25, 1998. It spent a total of 6 consecutive weeks on the chart. It also debuted at number twenty-seven during the week of June 21, 1998 in New Zealand. It reached its peak at number thirteen during the week of July 19, 1998. It spent a total of 15 consecutive weeks on the chart.


Music videos

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for "It's All About Me" was directed by G. Thomas Ferguson and Haqq Islam. It begins with Sisqó pulling Mya from a cheering crowd. He is seen taking her into a white hallway where she sings and dances while wearing red Chinese clothing. In an interview with ''
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'', Mýa talked about the concept behind the video: "Sisqó pulls me out of the crowd because I guess I look uninterested, and that's not common, y'know to have people uninterested in such big stars. So, he pulls me out thinking he's gonna make me his lady of the night." "Through the dance and the whole video," she continued, "I tease him and say, 'No, I'm not that kind of girl and if you wanna be with me, you have to make it all about me.'" In honor of her twenty-fifth anniversary, Mya released "It's All About Me (25th Anniversary Remix)," a heel choreographed music video version. Directed and choreographed by
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, it features the singer dancing solo in heels with a mixture of desire and self-assurance. Speaking on their collaboration, Mya shared with ''
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'': "It was a complete full circle moment working with the incredibly dynamic Brian Friedman. We share a history of unforgettable moments, and I couldn’t be more thrilled for our 25th anniversary collaboration." Equally, excited about their collaboration as well, Friedman commented, "I was thrilled to hear from Mýa after so many years and without hesitation jumped on board for this special project."


Track listing

All tracks written by
Sisqó Mark Althavan Andrews (born November 9, 1978), known professionally as Sisqó (stylized as SisQó), is an American Contemporary R&B, R&B singer. Following his tenure as lead performer of the R&B group Dru Hill, he quickly reached success as a sol ...
and
Darryl Pearson Darryl "Day" Pearson is an American record producer, songwriter, singer, and multi-instrumentalist, best known for writing and producing "It's All About Me", a Mya/Sisqó single that peaked at #6 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, "Part Time Love ...
. Notes * denotes co-producer(s) * denotes remix producer(s) Sample credits * "It's All About Me" contains an interpolation of "
Moments in Love "Moments in Love" is a song by the British avant-garde synth-pop group Art of Noise. It was released on the group's debut EP, ''Into Battle with the Art of Noise'', in September 1983. It appeared on their debut studio album, '' Who's Afraid of ...
" by
Art of Noise Art of Noise (also the Art of Noise) were a British avant-garde synth-rock group formed in early 1983 by engineer/producer Gary Langan and programmer J. J. Jeczalik, along with keyboardist/arranger Anne Dudley, producer Trevor Horn, and ...
.


Credits and personnel

Credits adapted from the liner notes of ''Mya''.


Recording

* Recorded at Silent Sound Studios (
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) * Mixed at
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(
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Personnel

*Darryl "DAY" Pearson – production, vocal arrangements * Sisqo – vocal arrangements *Mike Alvord – recording engineer *Kevin Lively – recording engineer assistance *Tom Kidd – mixing


Charts


Weekly charts


Year-end charts


Certifications


Release history


See also

* List of Billboard Hot 100 top 10 singles in 1998


References


External links


MyaMya.com
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