Don't Tell Me (Madonna Song)
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"Don't Tell Me" is a song recorded by American singer
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for her eighth studio album ''
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'' (2000). Madonna co-wrote and co-produced the track with
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, with additional writing from her brother-in-law, Joe Henry. Henry originally conceived it as a tango-styled
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called "Stop"; the demo was later sent to Madonna, who then proceeded to change its musical composition, turning it into a
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song. Lyrically, Madonna asks her lover not to control her. "Don't Tell Me" was released as the second single from ''Music'' on November 13, 2000, by
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and
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. "Don't Tell Me" received positive reviews from music critics, who cited the song as one of the album's standouts and praised Madonna's vocals. It was also compared to the work of singer
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. The song attained commercial success, reaching the top of the record charts in Canada, Italy and New Zealand, as well as the top five in several regions. It also became Europe's biggest radio hit of 2001. In the United States, "Don't Tell Me" reached number four on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100, tying her with
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as the artist with the second-most top-ten singles in the Hot 100 history. The music video was directed by
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and features Madonna as a cowgirl walking down an automated
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in front of a projection screen, with cowboys dancing and straddling horses in the backdrop. The clip received two nominations at the 2001 MTV Video Music Awards, while also being nominated for a
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. The song was included in three of Madonna's concert tours: Drowned World (2001), Re-Invention (2004), and Celebration (2023—2024). In 2014, Madonna appeared on
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' ''
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'' special and performed "Don't Tell Me" in a mashup with Cyrus' 2013 song "
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". Two years later, she performed the song on her Madonna: Tears of a Clown show, in Melbourne and Miami.


Background and release

After the critical and commercial success of her seventh studio album, '' Ray of Light'' (1998), Madonna had intended to embark on a concert tour in late 1999, but due to the delay of her film, '' The Next Best Thing'' (2000), the tour was cancelled. The singer also became pregnant with her son Rocco, from her relationship with director
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. Wanting to distract herself from the media frenzy, Madonna concentrated on the development of her eighth studio album, ''
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''. She worked with French DJ and producer
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on the album, describing it as consisting of "Funky, electronic music blended with futuristic folk. Lots of jangly guitars and moody melancholic lines". Following the success of the lead single, "
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", "Don't Tell Me" was released as the second single from the album on November 21, 2000, by
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. A number of
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es for the song were created by
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, Richard "Humpty" Vission and Tracy Young. Warner Bros. Records released various renditions on CD, cassette, maxi,
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and
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singles. The Thunderpuss Club Mix had a more
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-inspired sound, with spiraling synth pads and keyboard effects. The filtered beats and tweaked keyboard riffs of Humpty Vission's Radio Mix gave Madonna's voice an "underwater" effect, while Young's remix featured a
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breakdown and sonic elements that reminisce Blondie's 1979 hit " Heart of Glass".
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's Jose F. Promis praised the remixes for "transform(ing) the country-infused track into an awesome dance extravaganza".


Recording and composition

Madonna co-wrote and co-produced "Don't Tell Me" with Ahmadzaï, and her brother-in-law Joe Henry, who is credited as an additional songwriter. Henry had written a
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-styled song titled "Stop", which featured
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player
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and Henry singing in "
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-inspired" vocals; it was eventually included on the latter's eighth studio album, ''
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'' (2001). After Henry played the demo for "Stop" to his wife, Madonna's sister Melanie, she sent the track to Madonna. The singer liked the demo and was drawn to the song's lyrics, its "sentiment of defiance, the attitude of it", but did not prefer its musical tone, since it was not in-line with the compositions for ''Music''. Madonna worked with Ahmadzaï and changed the original
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into a
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, acoustic guitar and keyboard composition. She recorded it at Ahmadzaï's studio, accompanied by a Martin D-28 guitar to which Ahmadzaï added a
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effect. Madonna preferred the sound effect over the final melody. Ahmadzaï also played the acoustic guitar and keyboards on the track.
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mixed the song and Michel Colombier played the strings. According to the sheet music published by Musicnotes.com, "Don't Tell Me" is set in the time signature of
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, with a moderate
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of 100
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. It is composed in the key of
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with the singer's vocals ranging from the lower octave of G3 to the higher note of A4. The song follows a basic sequence of D–Am–C–G as its
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. Ben Greenbank from ''Sputnikmusic'' described the track as a "
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meets
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" song with
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beats, accompanied by acoustic guitar riffs. Chuck Arnold of ''
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'' described "Don't Tell Me" as a "twangy trip-hop" track. While, ''Billboard'' 's Jason Lipshutz said its production "served as an act of twangy defiance — with clipped vocals, guitar loops, strings and a mainstream take on
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". The song begins with a "plucked" guitar riff in a jagged stop/start beat, with the arpeggios reminiscent of country music. Every fourth beat is followed by a small silence that eventually builds into the chorus. Rikky Rooksby, author of ''The Complete Guide to the Music of Madonna'', described the track as an "electronica meets
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" song based on a single four-chord sequence, disguised by the mixing. He found that Madonna's expressive lead vocals were double tracked. The strings appeared towards the end with the looping sounds continuing and ultimately
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. According to author Carol Vernallis, the contradictory guitar stops interspersed with the digital electronic sounds made the song sound "authentic" in its portrayal of the country-western genre of music. When asked about the differences between his demo and Madonna's song, Henry pointed out that it was the groove which was important. Lyrically, Madonna urges her lover in the song to stop controlling her actions and feelings; she compares the lyrics to the work of
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. She conjures up unnatural imagery through the lyrics by singing "Tell the bed not to lay / Like the open mouth of a grave, yeah / Not to stare up at me / Like a calf down on its knees".


Critical response

AllMusic's
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gave a positive review of "Don't Tell Me", describing it as an "intricate, sensual, folk-psych stunner". Jim Farber from '' Daily News'' felt that "
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crosses up-to-date electronica with rootsy American
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via a guitar hook that sounds something like
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's ' Sweet Home Alabama'". He also believed that the imagery conjured up in the song is predominantly American. A reviewer for ''
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'' considered "Don't Tell Me" an "alt-alt-country, hacked-up acoustic guitar over knife-sharp beats track", comparing Madonna to
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. Danny Eccleston from '' Q'', also saw similarities to Crow, calling the track "''Music''s closest cousin to the sonic landscapes of ''Ray of Light''", while also pointing out its "masterful ending – as a rhythm of insectoid whirrs and bendy ARP-style 'wowp!'s join the guitar while Colombier's strings ape the peal of church bells". ''
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''s Justin Harp felt that "the comparisons o Sheryl Crowactually did a disservice to a track that stands out as particularly unique in Madonna's massive catalogue of hits". Louis Virtel, from The Backlot, placed "Don't Tell Me" at number 25 of his list "The 100 Greatest Madonna Songs"; he praised the singer for "invoking some tried-and-true country music imagery" and called it an "unmistakable radio moment of the early 2000s". Shaad D'Souza of ''
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'' described it as "the album’s most indelible song and one of Madonna’s best-ever singles". Samuel R. Murrian from ''
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'' wrote that "Madonna’s defiant, rebellious personality that we love is on full-blast in this extremely clever and infectious song". While ranking Madonna's singles in honor of her 60th birthday, Jude Rogers from ''
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'' placed the track at number 32, calling it "brilliantly strange" and praising its catchiness. Jon O'Brien from '' Paste'' magazine complimented the track's production, and believed it to be an "immediate standout" on the album. The mix of the guitar riffs, the fractured beats and Colombier's string arrangement were all listed as an "elegiac finale" complementing the cowboy imagery portrayed by Madonna during the album cycle. Similar thoughts were registered by ''
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''s Matthew Jacobs who ranked it at number 21 of his list "The Definitive Ranking of Madonna Singles". In his review of the ''Music'' album, Sal Cinquemani from ''
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'' felt that Madonna revealed more of her soul in the track. Cinquemani further opined that "Don't Tell Me" was perceived to be an "unlikely" follow-up to "Music", with its "atypical structure and peculiar lyrics ..
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made it an unlikely hit to boot. But a hit is exactly what it was .., awarding the track a B+. For
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's Richard LaBeau, "this fascinating merge of country and dance ranks high among the most unique songs of her career". ''
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''s Larry Flick called "Don't Tell Me" a "thoughtful, often poetic gem" that features "one of Madonna's most soulful vocal deliveries". In August 2018, ''Billboard'' picked it as the singer's 20th greatest single; "a mix of poetically off-center lyrics. a CD-skip stutter effect and that jangly guitar riff, Don't Tell Me"would’ve ended up a mess for many artists. But for Madonna, it landed her yet another top five Hot 100 hit". Author Alejandro L. Madrid felt the song had elements of
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music. Steven Humphrey, from ''
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'', hailed it as "a freaking great song. (Perhaps the last great song of adonna'scareer?) A stuttering combo of trip-hop and hillbilly folk, Madonna's soulful croon perfectly expresses the longing of a gal telling her beau to stop controlling how she feels". A negative review came from Cynthia Fuchs of ''
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'' who wrote that the song "is another near miss, with admirable attitude but, well, laughable lyrics". ''
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''s Chuck Arnold listed "Don't Tell Me" as Madonna's 28th best single, writing that "with its acoustic guitar, country stomp, and stop-start trippiness, Don't Tell Me'succeeds against the odds". From ''
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'', Joe Morgan wrote: "Lyrics don’t make a lot of sense, but that doesn’t matter. This is unique, country-electronic pop".


Chart performance

"Don't Tell Me" debuted at number 78 on the US ''Billboard'' Hot 100 chart, the week of December 9, 2000. Two weeks later it reached the top-40 of the chart at number 35. In February 2001, after its commercial release, the single climbed from number 16 to number four, giving Madonna her 34th top-ten single on the Hot 100. This achievement tied Madonna with
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for second most top-ten singles and put her within reach of
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's record of 36 top-ten hits. She later surpassed the record with her 2008 single " 4 Minutes", thus becoming the artist with most top-ten singles in ''Billboard'' Hot 100 history. In 2015, ''Billboard'' ranked "Don't Tell Me" at number 26 on their list of "Madonna's 40 Biggest Hits" on the Hot 100. "Don't Tell Me" was also successful on ''Billboard''s
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chart, being present on the chart for 14 weeks. It outlasted "Music" and tied with " Ray of Light" (1998) and "
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" (1995) as Madonna's longest running song on the chart at the time. The track was certified Gold by the
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(RIAA) on March 28, 2001, for shipments of 500,000 copies, becoming Madonna's 24th Gold-certified single and tying her with the Beatles for the second-most gold records in the United States. In Canada, the song debuted at number 13 on the
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the week of January 27, 2001, and reached the first spot the week of February 17, where it remained for one week. It was Madonna's 20th number-one Canadian single. In Australia, the song debuted at number eight, and next week reached a peak of number seven on the
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, staying for a total of 17 weeks. In 2002, it obtained a Platinum certification from the
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(ARIA) for shipment of 70,000 copies of the single. The song was also successful in New Zealand, where it became Madonna's fifth and second consecutive number-one following "Music". In the United Kingdom, "Don't Tell Me" debuted at number 65 on the UK Singles Chart on December 9, 2000. After a total of 10 weeks on the chart, it peaked at number 4 on February 10, 2001, becoming Madonna's 12th consecutive top-ten single. According to the
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, the song has sold 185,000 copies there. In 2017, it was certified silver by the
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(BPI) for equivalent sales of 200,000 copies. "Don't Tell Me" was also successful across Europe: in Italy, it peaked at number one on the FIMI Singles Chart, while reaching the top-ten in Finland, Norway, Poland, Scotland and Spain. Across Europe, the song peaked at number two on the
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chart . It also topped the European Top 50 Radio for nine consecutive weeks and eventually became the continent's number-one radio song of 2001.


Music video


Background and synopsis

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for "Don't Tell Me" was directed by long-time collaborator
Jean-Baptiste Mondino Jean-Baptiste Mondino (born Aubervilliers, France on 21 July 1949) is a French fashion photographer and music video director. He has directed music videos for Madonna (entertainer), Madonna, David Bowie, Sting (musician), Sting, Björk, Don Henley, ...
and was filmed in Los Angeles on October 17, 2000, with Jamie King in charge of the choreography. King described the filming process: " ondinoreally doesn't write a treatment so much. He may have an idea and Madonna and I really have lots of ideas and then I usually come up with a treatment style thing that he ends up executing and Madonna agrees to it. It's just a really great collaboration". The wardrobe was created by DSquared2 and longtime Madonna collaborator Arianne Phillips. In a 2016 interview with ''Billboard'', Phillips cited "Don't Tell Me" as one of her favorite Madonna style moments, saying that working with the singer is both rewarding and challenging. The video begins with Madonna—dressed in a blue plaid flannel shirt, dirty jeans, a large buckled belt and boots—walking on a desert highway faced towards the viewer. The camera zooms out to reveal that the highway in the background is actually a projection on a
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style backdrop and that Madonna is walking on a
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. Her walking freezes simultaneously with the song's silent dropouts. The clip then alternates between scenes of Madonna dancing by herself on the treadmill, playing with sand in a desert, and cowboys line dancing in the video backdrop. Later, the cowboys join the singer in a choreographed dance routine, with Madonna wearing a black western-style jacket, cowboy hat and suede
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. Towards the end Madonna is seen riding a
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, while the final scene depicts a cowboy riding a Skewbald horse in slow motion, getting thrown to the ground and getting up again.


Reception and analysis

The ''New York Daily News'' Jim Farber praised the choreography presented in the video, writing that it "lives up to the beauty of ' Open Your Heart', spiced with the zip of the peppiest new Gap ads". Steven Humphrey from ''
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'', felt that the video departed from Mondino and Madonna's previous collaborations due to the following reasons: " adonnais treated more like a set-piece ..she's just there—not overtly sexual, not trying to prove any point, just there". Humphrey found references of Monidno's earlier work in the clip for "Don't Tell Me", including the "topsy-turvy projections and a placid, near-emotionless narrator" he displayed in singer
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's music video for " The Boys of Summer" (1984). ''
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''s Justin Harp felt that "the sight of Madonna wearing a cowboy hat and line dancing in the
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still ranks as one of the iconic visuals from her four-decade career". Author Judith Periano wrote in her book ''Listening to the Sirens: Musical Technologies of Queer Identity from Homer to Hedwig'' that the video was comparable to the clip for
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's " Get Happy". Samuel R. Murrian opined that it "revolutionized cowboy chic". Santiago Fouz-Hernández and Freya Jarman-Ivens, authors of ''Madonna's Drowned Worlds'', questioned whether the singer's portrayal of
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culture in the video was legitimate or if it was meant to be
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, also criticizing the dancing cowboys. Farber added that "by putting her cowboys on a commercial billboard, adonnanot only acknowledges the absurdity of her playing a rural lass, she's implicitly questioning whether there's any difference left between authenticity and fakery in a media-driven world". According to Amy Herzog, the video inverts the traditional male gaze by directing it onto the fallen cowboy at the end — the subversion being a recurrent theme in Madonna's work from her music videos of the 1980s. During the 2001 MTV Movie Awards, hosts
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and
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parodied both the video and Madonna's cowgirl look. At one point, Fallon even dropped to the floor to cover himself in sand. The song " Do it With Madonna" by Australian
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band The Androids referenced the music video in the line "Have you seen her where she's wearing the cowboy hat and she's kicking the dirt?". In 2015, television show host
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re-created the video by superimposing herself as one of Madonna's cowboys. At the 10th annual Music Video Production Association Awards, which took place on May 16, 2001, the video won two awards: in the categories of Video of the year and Best direction for a female artist. It was also nominated for a
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at the 44th ceremony and for Best Female Video and Best Choreography at the 2001 MTV Video Music Awards. In 2009, the video was included on Madonna's compilation, '' Celebration: The Video Collection''.


Live performances

On November 3, 2000, Madonna appeared on ''
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'', her first time on the show since her controversial appearance in 1994. She performed a slow version of "Don't Tell Me" on
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; this marked the first time the singer played guitar in public. Dressed in a black bedazzled cowboy shirt and jeans, she was joined by Monte Pittman. Shortly afterwards, she traveled to Europe to promote ''Music'' and performed "Don't Tell Me" on German TV show '' Wetten, dass..?''. On November 24, she appeared on British television show ''
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'' and performed both "Don't Tell Me" and "Music". Both songs were also performed during Madonna's visit to French television program ''Nulle Part Ailleurs'' that same week, as well as on Italian show ''Carràmba! Che fortuna''. The song was also performed on the promotional concerts for ''Music'', on November 5, 2000, at New York City's
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, and on November 29 at London's
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. During the performance Madonna sat on a bale of hay while Ahmadzaï played guitar. Her wardrobe consisted of a black tank top with the name
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written on it, cowboy hat and boots. For the London performance, Madonna wore a different t-shirt, with the names of her son Rocco and daughter Lourdes printed on it. On the
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(2001), Madonna performed "Don't Tell Me" as the second song of the Western-themed third act. Dressed as a
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in a black jacket, stars and stripes blouse, a
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's tail as an accessory, cowboy hat and mud encrusted jeans with chaps, Madonna reenacted the song's music video with her dancers dressed as cowboys and did a line dance. Phill Gallo from '' Variety'', was impressed with the number, pointing out that it was the tour's first to feature the singer and her dancers doing collective choreography. The performance on August 26, 2001, at
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, Detroit was recorded and released in the live video album, '' Drowned World Tour 2001''. On May 9, 2003, Madonna performed "Don't Tell Me" at London's HMV Oxford Circus while promoting her ninth studio album ''
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''. During the Re-Invention World Tour (2004), Madonna performed a "funked-up" version of the song, which was included on the show's acoustic themed third act. She was decked in a black Stella McCartney suit with matching hat and again enacted the video's choreography with her dancers. The performance featured a French skyline as backdrop and sampled
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" (1997). On January 29, 2014, Madonna made a surprise appearance at singer
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' ''
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'' special, and performed a mashup of "Don't Tell Me" with Cyrus' 2013 song "
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". Both singers were dressed in rhinestone cowboy outfits. They sang and finished each other's verses while bumping and grinding. Matthew Jacobs from ''The Huffington Post'', wrote that "even if the vocals got a little shoddy toward the mashup's end – yrus and Madonnastaged an impressive collaboration that didn't rely on the amplified production values associated with their typical performances". While on the Rebel Heart Tour (2015–2016), Madonna performed
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versions of "Don't Tell Me" on the
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stops. In March 2016, the song was included on the Melbourne stop of Madonna's Tears of a Clown show. She performed the song following a monologue aimed at an attendee who asked her why she was still performing into her mid-to-late 50s. On December, she repeated the performance at the Miami stop, which took place in the city's Faena Forum. One month earlier, she performed it during an impromptu acoustic concert at
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in support of Hillary Clinton's presidential campaign. "Don't Tell Me" was included on the Celebration Tour (2023—2024), where it was given a cowboy theme. Madonna donned a leather corset, a cowboy hat created by Ruslan Baginskiy, and custom-made knee-high
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s. During the number –which included line dancing– she was joined by one of her twin daughters, and guest star
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dressed as a
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. The performance ended with the singer engaging in a mock shootout with Bob. "Don't Tell Me" was named one of the best moments of the concert by ''Billboard''s Joe Lynch.


Formats and track listings

* US 2-track CD single, 7-inch vinyl and cassette single # "Don't Tell Me" (Album Version) – 4:40 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss' 2001 Hands in the Air Radio) – 4:26 * Canadian, Japanese and US CD maxi-single # "Don't Tell Me" (
Timo Maas Timo Maas (born July 27, 1969) is a German DJ/ producer and remixer. His remix of Azzido Da Bass's single " Dooms Night" helped launch his career in 2000. In its wake, he also released ''Music for the Maases Volume 1'', a mix album consisting ...
Mix) – 6:55 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Tracy Young Club Mix) – 11:01 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Vission Remix) – 7:52 # "Don't Tell Me" (
Thunderpuss Thunderpuss is the (mainly dance) remix/ production team of Los Angeles–based music producers Barry Harris and Chris Cox. Harris had previously worked as part of several music groups including Kon Kan, Top Kat, Killer Bunnies and Outta C ...
' 2001 Hands in the Air Anthem) – 10:20 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Victor Calderone Sensory Mix) – 6:48 # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Radio Mix) – 3:38 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss' 2001 Hands in the Air Radio) – 4:26 # "Don't Tell Me" (Music Video) * US 2x12-inch vinyl # "Don't Tell Me" (
Timo Maas Timo Maas (born July 27, 1969) is a German DJ/ producer and remixer. His remix of Azzido Da Bass's single " Dooms Night" helped launch his career in 2000. In its wake, he also released ''Music for the Maases Volume 1'', a mix album consisting ...
Mix) – 6:55 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Vission Remix) – 7:52 # "Don't Tell Me" (
Thunderpuss Thunderpuss is the (mainly dance) remix/ production team of Los Angeles–based music producers Barry Harris and Chris Cox. Harris had previously worked as part of several music groups including Kon Kan, Top Kat, Killer Bunnies and Outta C ...
' 2001 Hands in the Air Anthem) – 10:20 # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Radio Mix) – 3:38 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Tracy Young Club Mix) – 11:01 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Victor Calderone Sensory Mix) – 6:48 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss' 2001 Hands in the Air Radio) – 4:26 * Benelux and French 2-track CD single; European and UK cassette single # "Don't Tell Me" (Radio Edit) – 4:10 # "Cyber-Raga" – 5:31 * Australian, Japanese and European CD maxi-single # "Don't Tell Me" (Radio Edit) – 4:10 # "Cyber-Raga" – 5:31 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss Club Mix) – 7:53 # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Remix) – 7:52 * European and UK CD maxi-single 1 # "Don't Tell Me" (Radio Edit) – 4:10 # "Cyber-Raga" – 5:31 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss Club Mix) – 7:53 * European and UK CD maxi-single 2 # "Don't Tell Me" (Album Version) – 4:40 # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Remix) – 7:52 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss Radio Mix) – 3:40 * European CD maxi-single (Remixes) # "Don't Tell Me" (Timo Maas Mix) – 6:55 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Tracy Young Club Mix) – 11:01 # "Don't Tell Me" (
Thunderpuss Thunderpuss is the (mainly dance) remix/ production team of Los Angeles–based music producers Barry Harris and Chris Cox. Harris had previously worked as part of several music groups including Kon Kan, Top Kat, Killer Bunnies and Outta C ...
' 2001 Hands in the Air Anthem) – 10:20 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Victor Calderone Sensory Mix) – 6:48 # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Remix) – 7:52 * European 12-inch vinyl # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss Club Mix) – 7:53 # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Remix) – 7:52 # "Don't Tell Me" (Tracy Young Club Mix) – 11:01 # "Cyber-Raga" – 5:31 * European 12-inch vinyl 2 # "Don't Tell Me" (Timo Maas Mix) – 6:55 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Victor Calderone Sensory Mix) – 6:48 # "Don't Tell Me" (
Thunderpuss Thunderpuss is the (mainly dance) remix/ production team of Los Angeles–based music producers Barry Harris and Chris Cox. Harris had previously worked as part of several music groups including Kon Kan, Top Kat, Killer Bunnies and Outta C ...
' 2001 Hands in the Air Anthem) – 10:20 # "Don't Tell Me" (Album Version) – 4:40 * Australian CD maxi-single (Remixes) # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss' 2001 Hands in the Air Anthem) – 10:20 # "Don't Tell Me" (Timo Maas Mix) – 6:55 # "Don't Tell Me" (Victor Calderone Sensory Mix) – 6:48 # "Don't Tell Me" (Tracy Young Club Mix) – 11:01 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss' 2001 Tribe-A-Pella) – 8:31 # "Don't Tell Me" (Video) – 4:41 * Asian CD maxi-single # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Radio Mix) – 3:38 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss Radio Mix) – 3:40 # "Don't Tell Me" (
Timo Maas Timo Maas (born July 27, 1969) is a German DJ/ producer and remixer. His remix of Azzido Da Bass's single " Dooms Night" helped launch his career in 2000. In its wake, he also released ''Music for the Maases Volume 1'', a mix album consisting ...
Mix) – 6:55 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Tracy Young Club Mix) – 11:01 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Vission Remix) – 7:52 # "Don't Tell Me" (Tracy Young Club Mix) – 11:01 # "Don't Tell Me" (
Thunderpuss Thunderpuss is the (mainly dance) remix/ production team of Los Angeles–based music producers Barry Harris and Chris Cox. Harris had previously worked as part of several music groups including Kon Kan, Top Kat, Killer Bunnies and Outta C ...
' 2001 Hands in the Air Anthem) – 10:20 # "Don't Tell Me" ( Victor Calderone Sensory Mix) – 6:48 * Digital download (2023) # "Don't Tell Me" (Radio Edit) – 4:11 # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Radio Mix) – 3:47 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss' 2001 Hands in the Air Radio) – 4:25 # "Don't Tell Me" (Timo Maas Mix) – 6:55 # "Don't Tell Me" (Tracy Young Club Mix) – 11:00 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss Club Mix) – 7:51 # "Don't Tell Me" (Vission Remix) – 7:53 # "Don't Tell Me" (Thunderpuss' 2001 Hands in the Air Anthem) – 10:20 # "Don't Tell Me" (Victor Calderone Sensory Mix) – 6:46 # "Cyber-Raga" – 5:32


Credits and personnel

Credits are adapted from the liner notes of the CD single and ''Music''.


Management

* Recorded at
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,
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,
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* Mixed at
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, London * Mastered at Metropolis Studios, London * Webo Girl Publishing, Inc., Warner Bros. Music Corp (ASCAP), 1000 Lights Music Ltd, Warner-Tamerlane Publishing Corp. (BMI)


Personnel

*
Madonna Madonna Louise Ciccone ( ; born August 16, 1958) is an American singer, songwriter, record producer, and actress. Referred to as the "Queen of Pop", she has been recognized for her continual reinvention and versatility in music production, ...
 – songwriter, producer *
Mirwais Ahmadzaï Mirwais Ahmadzaï (born 23 October 1960), known mononymously as Mirwais, is a French electronic dance music record producer and songwriter, born in Lausanne, Switzerland to an Afghanistan, Afghan father and an Italians, Italian mother. A former ...
 – songwriter, producer, programming, guitar, keyboard * Joe Henry – songwriter *
Mark "Spike" Stent Mark "Spike" Stent (born 3 August 1965) is an English record producer and mixing engineer who has worked with many international artists including Madonna, Marshmello, U2, Beyoncé, Björk, Depeche Mode, Echo & the Bunnymen, Grimes, Ed Sheeran, ...
 – mixing * Jake Davies – engineer * Mark Endert – engineer * Geoff Foster – engineer, string engineer *
Michel Colombier Michel Colombier (23 May 1939 – 14 November 2004) was a French composer, arranger, and conductor. Career Colombier wrote the scores of several motion pictures and TV productions. He also wrote chamber music and ballets. With composer Pierre ...
 – string arrangement * Kevin Reagan – art direction, design * Matthew Lindauer – design *
Jean-Baptiste Mondino Jean-Baptiste Mondino (born Aubervilliers, France on 21 July 1949) is a French fashion photographer and music video director. He has directed music videos for Madonna (entertainer), Madonna, David Bowie, Sting (musician), Sting, Björk, Don Henley, ...
 – photography


Charts


Weekly charts


Year-end charts


Certifications


Release history


See also

* List of number-one singles of 2001 (Canada) * List of number-one hits of 2000 (Italy) * List of number-one dance singles of 2001 (U.S.) * List of number-one singles in 2001 (New Zealand)


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Bibliography

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