"Don't Forget to Remember", also called "Don't Forget to Remember Me", is a country

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''. The song was written by Barry and

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. It was produced by the band with

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Recording

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hit " Islands in the Stream", and its parent album ''

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''. The song was recorded on 7 May 1969, the same day as the unreleased track "Who Knows What a Room Is". Barry Gibb's lead vocal is in a lower register than usual. Peter Mason, Robin's intended replacement in the group, originally sang harmony vocals on the song, as Mason explains, "I did some harmonies, I remember doing three songs, there was 'Don't Forget to Remember' and I put the harmony down on that and two other songs. don't knowwhether it's a tryout, although he'd said before that he wanted me, because we sat and sang together." Mason also explained: "When I sit and listen to 'Don't Forget to Remember' I can't really tell whether it's me or not. He ran the tracks and said, 'Can you put a harmony to that?'". The song also sticks out in Mason's memory.

Structure

The song features Barry Gibb singing at a lower pitch than usual. The song's lyrics follow the country-song tradition of romantic laments with its tearful first-person lyrics about a man haunted by a failed love affair he can't put out of his mind. Its melody matches the yearning quality of the lyrics, especially on the chorus, which underpins the forlorn wish ''Don't forget to remember me/And the love that used to be'' with glorious runs of ascending notes. On paper, the song seems applicable to the group's usual pop style but their recording uses country-music elements to carry it into that genre, a prominent acoustic guitar cuts through the background orchestration and Barry Gibb adds a Nashville-inspired twang to his vocal.

Release

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' and that sort of song and you'll never forget the melody. It wasn't a deliberate dedication to Jim Reeves - it's just worked out that way". Maurice also explains, "We know we don't want to split up, maybe Colin will want to leave sometime in the future, but we all have different things we've involved in". The single covers of the song, (in all countries) features the three remaining Bee Gees after the departure of Robin Gibb. ''

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'' called it a "country-flavored ballad" that's "another solid winner for the Bee Gees." The song was re-released in CD by

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as a part in the EP of the same name (1987).

Personnel

Credits from Bee Gees historian and sessionographer Joseph Brennan. *

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, acoustic rhythm guitar *

– harmony vocals, bass, piano, guitar,

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– drums * Peter Mason – harmony vocals (possibly erased from the final recording or not included in final mix) * Uncredited – orchestral and string arrangements *

, the Bee Gees – producers * ''unknown'' – orchestra members, audio engineer

Charts

Weekly charts

Year-end charts

Certifications

Cover versions

* The version of this song by

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was released on "12 Top Hits" (Avenue-AVE034) * Swedish

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the song in 1972, with lyrics in Swedish, as "Jag vill leva mitt liv med dig" ("I want to live my life with you"). * Country singer Skeeter Davis covered the song and reached #44 on the country charts with it in 1974. * Another

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singer Kikki Danielsson covered the song with the original lyrics in English on her 1993 album '' Jag ska aldrig lämna dig''. *Anna McGoldrick covered this song in 1998. * Brian Letton covered this song in 1997. * Daniel O'Donnell (1987), * Donna Fargo covered this song in 1978 * John & Anne Ryder covered the song in 1969. * South African singer Ray Dylan covered the song on his album ''Goeie Ou Country vol 2''. * Monika Martin has a German Version "Du warst da, als der Sommer kam"