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Ella Wheeler Wilcox (November 5, 1850October 30, 1919) was an American author and poet. Her works include the collection '' Poems of Passion'' and the poem "Solitude", which contains the lines "Laugh, and the world laughs with you; weep, and you weep alone." Her autobiography, ''The Worlds and I'', was published in 1918, a year before her death.


Biography

Ella Wheeler was born in 1850 on a farm in Johnstown,
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, east of Janesville, the youngest of four children. The family later moved north of
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, after losing its wealth, as the result of her father's failed business aspirations and speculation. Wilcox's family held themselves to be intellectuals, and a mastery of the nuances of the English language was prized. During her childhood, Wilcox amused herself by reading books and newspapers, which may have influenced her later writing (most notably William Shakespeare, ''
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'', ''
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'', in addition to the few other pieces of literature that were to be had in her home). Around the age of 8, Wilcox turned to writing poetry as an outlet. When she was 13 years old, her first poem was published. After losing her subscription to ''The New York Mercury'', and being unable to afford to resubscribe, Wilcox thought that if she could get a piece of literature published, she would at least receive a copy of the paper wherein her piece was printed. The piece that she submitted is lost, and Wilcox later admitted that she could not recall even the topic of the poem. Wilcox became known as a poet in her own state by the time she graduated from high school. Her poem "The Way of the World" was first published in the February 25, 1883 issue of ''
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''. The inspiration for the poem came as she was travelling to attend the Governor's inaugural ball in
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. On her way to the celebration, there was a young woman dressed in black sitting across the aisle from her. The woman was crying. Miss Wheeler sat next to her and sought to comfort her for the rest of the journey. When they arrived, the poet was so depressed that she could barely attend the scheduled festivities. As she looked at her own radiant face in the mirror, she suddenly recalled the sorrowful widow. It was at that moment that she wrote the opening lines of "Solitude": :Laugh, and the world laughs with you; :Weep, and you weep alone. :For the sad old earth must borrow its mirth :But has trouble enough of its own She sent the poem to the ''Sun'' and received $5 for her effort. It was collected in the book ''Poems of Passion'' shortly afterward in May 1883. This collection was reported to have made $2000 that year. In 1884, she married Robert Wilcox of
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and then to Granite Bay in the
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section of
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. The two homes they built on
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, along with several cottages, became known as Bungalow Court, and they would hold gatherings there of literary and artistic friends. They had one child, a son, who died shortly after birth. Not long after their marriage, they both became interested in
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,
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, and
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. Early in their married life, Robert and Ella Wheeler Wilcox promised each other that whoever died first would return and communicate with the other. Robert Wilcox died in 1916, after over thirty years of marriage. She was overcome with grief, which became ever more intense as week after week went without any message from him. It was at this time that she went to
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to see the
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astrologer,
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, still seeking help in her sorrow, still unable to understand why she had no word from her Robert. She wrote of this meeting: Several months later she composed a little mantra or affirmative prayer which she said over and over "I am the living witness: The dead live: And they speak through us and to us: And I am the voice that gives this glorious truth to the suffering world: I am ready, God: I am ready, Christ: I am ready, Robert." Wilcox made efforts to teach occult things to the world. Her works, filled with positive thinking, were popular in the
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and by 1915 her booklet, ''What I Know About New Thought'' had a distribution of 50,000 copies, according to its publisher,
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. The following statement expresses Wilcox's unique blending of New Thought, Spiritualism, and a Theosophical belief in reincarnation: "As we think, act, and live here today, we build the structures of our homes in spirit realms after we leave earth, and we build karma for future lives, thousands of years to come, on this earth or other planets. Life will assume new dignity, and labor new interest for us, when we come to the knowledge that death is but a continuation of life and labor, in higher planes." Her final words in her autobiography ''The Worlds and I'': "From this mighty storehouse (of God, and the hierarchies of Spiritual Beings) we may gather wisdom and knowledge, and receive light and power, as we pass through this preparatory room of earth, which is only one of the innumerable mansions in our Father's house. Think on these things." Wilcox was an advocate of
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and
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. She died of cancer on October 30, 1919 in Short Beach, Connecticut.


Poetry

None of Wilcox's works were included by
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in ''The Oxford Book of American Verse,'' but Hazel Felleman chose fourteen of her poems for ''Best Loved Poems of the American People,'' while
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selected "The Way Of The World" and "The Winds of Fate" for ''Best Remembered Poems''. She is frequently cited in anthologies of bad poetry, such as ''The Stuffed Owl: An Anthology of Bad Verse'' and ''Very Bad Poetry''.
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's lack of literary sophistication by having him refer to a piece of verse as "one of the classic poems, like '
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' by
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, or Ella Wheeler Wilcox's 'The Man Worth While.'" The latter opens: :''It is easy enough to be pleasant,'' :    ''When life flows by like a song,'' :''But the man worth while is one who will smile,'' :    ''When everything goes dead wrong.'' Her poem "Solitude" opens: :''Laugh and the world laughs with you,'' :    ''Weep, and you weep alone;'' :''The good old earth must borrow its mirth,'' :    ''But has trouble enough of its own.'' ''The Winds of Fate'' :''One ship drives east and another drives west'' :'' With the selfsame winds that blow.'' :'' 'Tis the set of the sails,'' :'' And Not the gales,'' :'' That tell us the way to go.'' :''Like the winds of the sea are the ways of fate;'' :'' As we voyage along through life,'' :'' 'Tis the set of a soul'' :'' That decides its goal,'' :'' And not the calm or the strife.'' Wheeler Wilcox cared about alleviating animal suffering, as can be seen from her poem, "Voice of the Voiceless". It begins as follows: :''So many gods, so many creeds,'' :''So many paths that wind and wind,'' :''While just the art of being kind'' :''Is all the sad world needs.'' :''I am the voice of the voiceless;'' :''Through me the dumb shall speak,'' :''Till the deaf world’s ear be made to hear'' :''The wrongs of the wordless weak.'' :''From street, from cage, and from kennel,'' :''From stable and zoo, the wail'' :''Of my tortured kin proclaims the sin'' :''Of the mighty against the frail.'' She made an appearance during
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in France, reciting her poem, ''The Stevedores'' ("Here's to the Army stevedores, lusty virile and strong...") while visiting a camp of 9,000
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'' come from Wilcox's poem, "Protest"


Works


Poetry

*
Poems of Passion
' (1883, W.B. Conkey Company hicago *
Drops of Water
' (1889, The National Temperance Society and Publication House ew York
''Maurine and other Poems''
(1888, W.B. Conkey Company hicago *
Poems of Pleasure
' (1888, Belford, Clarke, and Company ew York *
Poems of Reflection
(''1905, M. A. Donahue & Co. hicago *
Poems of Cheer
' (1908, Gay and Hancock Ltd ondon *
Poems of Progress and New Thought Pastels
' (1909, W.B. Conkey Company hicago *''Poems of Affection'' (1920 Gay and Hancock Ltd ondon *''Poems of Life'' (1921)


Novels


''Mal Moulée: A Novel''
(1885) *''A Double Life'' (1890)
''Sweet Danger''
(1892) *
A Woman of the World: Her Counsel to Other People's Sons and Daughters
' (1904)


Miscellaneous

*
The Heart of New Thought
' (1902)
''The Story of a Literary Career''
(1905) *

' (1918)


Adaptations

Several of Wilcox's poems were the basis for silent films: * ''
The Price He Paid ''The Price He Paid'' is a 1914 American silent melodrama film, directed by Lawrence McGill. It stars Philip Hahn, Gertrude Shipman, and Julia Hurley (actress), Julia Hurley, and was released on December 7, 1914. The film is inspired by the Ella ...
'' (1914) * '' The Beautiful Lie'' (1917) * ''
The Belle of the Season ''The Belle of the Season'' is a 1919 American silent comedy-drama film, directed by S. Rankin Drew, and stars Emmy Wehlen, S. Rankin Drew, and Walter Hitchcock. It was originally scheduled to be released in 1917, but its premiere was delayed unt ...
'' (1919) * ''
The Man Worth While ''The Man Worth While'' is a 1921 American silent melodrama film, directed by Romaine Fielding. It stars Joan Arliss, Lawrence Johnson, and Eugene Acker, and was released on September 9, 1921. Cast list * Joan Arliss as Mary Alden * Lawrence Jo ...
'' (1921)


References


Further reading

* Ifkovic, Edward. ''Ella Moon: A Novel Based on the Life of Ella Wheeler Wilcox''. Oregon, WI: Waubesa Press, 2001.


External links


Ella Wheeler Wilcox
The Ella Wheeler Wilcox Society website including biographies, bibliographies and writings
Ella Wheeler Wilcox poems at the Academy of American Poets
* * *
Ella Wheeler Wilcox Papers.Schlesinger Library
, Radcliffe Institute, Harvard University
Finding aid to Ella Wheeler Wilcox papers, 1887-1919
at Columbia University. Rare Book & Manuscript Library * {{DEFAULTSORT:Wilcox, Ella Wheeler 1850 births 1919 deaths American animal rights activists American memoirists American vegetarianism activists American women memoirists American women poets Deaths from cancer in Connecticut New Thought writers People from Janesville, Wisconsin People from Rock County, Wisconsin Poets from Wisconsin