''Yours, Mine and Ours'' is a 1968 American
family
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comedy drama film
Comedy drama (also known by the portmanteau
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Melville Shavelson
Melville Shavelson (April 1, 1917 – August 8, 2007) was an Americans, American film director, producer, screenwriter, and author. He was President of the Writers Guild of America, West (WGAw) from 1969 to 1971, 1979 to 1981, and 1985 to 1 ...
. The film stars
Lucille Ball
Lucille Désirée Ball (August 6, 1911 – April 26, 1989) was an American actress, comedian, producer, and studio executive. She was recognized by ''Time (magazine), Time'' in 2020 as one of the most influential women of the 20th century for h ...
,
Henry Fonda
Henry Jaynes Fonda (May 16, 1905 – August 12, 1982) was an American actor whose career spanned five decades on Broadway theatre, Broadway and in Hollywood. On screen and stage, he often portrayed characters who embodied an everyman image.
Bo ...
and
Van Johnson.
''Yours, Mine and Ours'' was released in the United States on April 24, 1968, by
United Artists
United Artists (UA) is an American film production and film distribution, distribution company owned by Amazon MGM Studios. In its original operating period, it was founded in February 1919 by Charlie Chaplin, D. W. Griffith, Mary Pickford an ...
. The film received mixed reviews from critics but was commercially successful. A
remake
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was released in 2005.
Plot
Frank Beardsley is a
Navy
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Chief Warrant Officer
Chief warrant officer is a senior warrant officer rank, used in many countries.
Canadian Armed Forces
In the Canadian Armed Forces (CAF), a chief warrant officer or CWO is the most senior non-commissioned member (NCM) rank for army and air fo ...
, recently detached from the aircraft carrier
USS ''Enterprise'' and assigned as project officer for the
Fresnel lens
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The simpler Dioptrics, d ...
glide-slope indicator, or "meatball", that would eventually become standard equipment on all carriers. Helen North is a civilian
nurse
Nursing is a health care profession that "integrates the art and science of caring and focuses on the protection, promotion, and optimization of health and human functioning; prevention of illness and injury; facilitation of healing; and alle ...
working in the
dispensary
A dispensary is an office in a school, hospital, industrial plant, or other organization that dispenses medications, medical supplies, and in some cases even medical and dental treatment. In a traditional dispensary set-up, a pharmacist dispense ...
at
NAS Alameda
Naval Air Station Alameda (NAS Alameda) was a United States Navy Naval Air Station mostly in Alameda, California, with a slight portion of it within San Francisco proper, on San Francisco Bay.
NAS Alameda had two runways: 13–31 measuring and ...
, the
California
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U.S. Navy base to which Frank is assigned.
Frank meets Helen, first by chance in the
commissary
A commissary is a government official charged with oversight or an ecclesiastical official who exercises in special circumstances the jurisdiction of a bishop.
In many countries, the term is used as an administrative or police title. It often c ...
on the base and again when Frank brings his distraught teenage daughter for treatment at the dispensary, where Helen informs him that the young lady is simply growing up in a too-crowded house that lacks a mother's guidance. They immediately hit it off and go on a date, all the while shying away from admitting their respective secrets: Frank has ten children and Helen has eight, from previous marriages ended by their spouses' deaths.
When each finally learns the other's secret, they initially resist their mutual attraction. But Chief Warrant Officer Darrell Harrison is determined to bring them together, so he "fixes up" each of them with a sure-to-be-incompatible
blind date
A blind date is a romantic meeting between two people who have never met before.
Both parties arrange a date with little to no information about each other, hoping for the possibility of making a lasting impression. Typically, a family member or ...
. Helen's date is an
obstetrician
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who stands a good head shorter than she ("Darrell had a malicious sense of humor", Helen observes in a voice-over); Frank's date is a "hip" girl who is not only young enough to be his daughter but is also far too forward for his taste. As the final touch, Harrison makes sure that both dates take place in the same Japanese restaurant. As Harrison fully expects, Frank and Helen end up leaving the restaurant together in his car, with Frank's date sitting uncomfortably between them as they carry on about their children.
Frank and Helen continue to date regularly, and eventually he invites her to dinner in his home. This nearly turns disastrous when Mike, Rusty and Greg, Frank's three sons, mix hefty doses of gin, scotch and vodka into Helen's drink. As a result, Helen's behavior turns wild and embarrassing, which Frank cannot comprehend until he catches his sons trying to conceal their laughter. "The court of inquiry is now in session!" he declares, and gets the three to own up and apologize. After this, he announces his intention to marry Helen, adding, "And nobody put anything into my drink."
Most of the children oppose the marriage at first, regarding each other and their respective stepparents with suspicion. Eventually, however, the 18 children bond into one large
blended family, about to increase—Helen becomes pregnant. Matters are also complicated by Frank leaving for several weeks on a shakedown cruise.
Further tension develops between young Philip North and his teacher at the
parochial school
A parochial school is a private school, private Primary school, primary or secondary school affiliated with a religious organization, and whose curriculum includes general religious education in addition to secular subjects, such as science, mathem ...
that he attends: his teacher insists that he use his "legal" name, which remains North even after his mother marries Beardsley. This prompts Helen and Frank to discuss cross-adopting each other's children, who (except for Philip) are aghast at the notion of "reburying" their deceased biological parents. The subsequent birth of Joseph John Beardsley finally unites the children, who agree unanimously to
adoption
Adoption is a process whereby a person assumes the parenting of another, usually a child, from that person's biological or legal parent or parents. Legal adoptions permanently transfer all rights and responsibilities, along with filiation, fro ...
under a common surname of Beardsley.
Just before the baby is born, however, the eldest sibling, Mike Beardsley, receives a draft notice. Rather than take his chances, he decides to join the
United States Marine Corps
The United States Marine Corps (USMC), also referred to as the United States Marines or simply the Marines, is the maritime land force service branch of the United States Department of Defense. It is responsible for conducting expeditionar ...
. The film ends with Mike going off to
Camp Pendleton
Marine Corps Base Camp Pendleton is the major West Coast base of the United States Marine Corps and is one of the largest Marine Corps bases in the United States. It is on the Southern California coast in San Diego County and is bordered by ...
.
Cast
*
Henry Fonda
Henry Jaynes Fonda (May 16, 1905 – August 12, 1982) was an American actor whose career spanned five decades on Broadway theatre, Broadway and in Hollywood. On screen and stage, he often portrayed characters who embodied an everyman image.
Bo ...
as Frank Beardsley
*
Lucille Ball
Lucille Désirée Ball (August 6, 1911 – April 26, 1989) was an American actress, comedian, producer, and studio executive. She was recognized by ''Time (magazine), Time'' in 2020 as one of the most influential women of the 20th century for h ...
as
Helen North-Beardsley
*
Van Johnson as CWO Darrell Harrison
*
Walter Brooke as Howard Beardsley, Frank's younger brother
* Nancy Howard as Nancy Beardsley, Howard's wife and Frank's sister-in-law
*
Sidney Miller as Dr. Ashford, Helen's date
*
Louise Troy
Louise Troy (November 9, 1933 – May 5, 1994) was an American actress of stage and screen. She is best known for her performances in ''Tovarich (musical), Tovarich'' (1963) and ''Walking Happy'' (1966), for both of which roles she was nominated ...
as Madeleine Love, Frank's date
*
Tom Bosley
Thomas Edward Bosley (October 1, 1927 – October 19, 2010) was an American actor, television personality and entertainer. Bosley is best known for portraying Howard Cunningham (Happy Days character), Howard Cunningham on the American Broadcasti ...
as a family doctor who makes a house call on the Beardsleys, and is also the consulting physician for the
California
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Draft Board
{{further, Conscription in the United StatesDraft boards are a part of the Selective Service System which register and select men of military age in the event of conscription in the United States.
Local board
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when Mike Beardsley reports for a required physical exam.
*
Ben Murphy
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Early life
Murphy was born in Jonesboro, Arkansas, to Benjamin R. Castleberry and Nadi ...
as Larry, Colleen's boyfriend
*
Jennifer Gan as Young Lady In Coffeehouse
*
Larry Hankin
Lawrence Alan Hankin (born December 7, 1937) is an American character actor. He has had major film roles as Charley Butts in '' Escape from Alcatraz'' (1979), Ace in '' Running Scared'' (1986), and Carl Alphonse in '' Billy Madison'' (1995). H ...
as Supermarket Clerk
* Mary Gregory as Sister Mary Alice, who questions Philip's use of the Beardsley name
* Harry Holcombe as the judge who handles the grand mutual adoption
*
Ysabel MacCloskey as Nanny #1, who lasts less than a day.
*Pauline Hague as Nanny #2, aka "Mrs. Anderson." She lasts a week because she is hiding from the police. After a stint with the Beardsleys, she turns herself in.
*
Marjorie Eaton as Nanny #3, aka "Mrs. Ferguson," who famously says, "Mrs. Anderson was last week; I'm Mrs. Ferguson, and you can mail me my check!" She fights Louise precipitating Frank's second meeting with Helen.
The Beardsley Children
*
Tim Matheson
Tim Matheson (born Timothy Lewis Matthieson; December 31, 1947) is an American actor and director. Some of his best-known acting roles include the title character of the 1960s animated ''Jonny Quest (TV series), Jonny Quest'' TV series, Eric "O ...
as Mike, Frank's first son
(Credited as "Tim Matthieson")
* Gil Rogers as Rusty, Frank's second son
*
Gary Goetzman
Gary Michael Goetzman (born November 6, 1952) is an American film and television producer and actor, and co-founder of the production company Playtone with actor Tom Hanks.
Life and career
Born in Los Angeles, Goetzman began his career as a ch ...
as Greg, Frank's third son
* Nancy Roth as Rosemary, Frank's first daughter
*
Morgan Brittany
Morgan Brittany (born Suzanne Cupito; December 5, 1951) is an American actress. She began her career as a child appearing in films ''Gypsy'' (1962), '' Stage to Thunder Rock'' (1964) and '' Yours, Mine and Ours''. In 1970s, Brittany began work as ...
as Louise, Frank's second daughter
(Credited as "Suzanne Cupito")
* Maralee Foster as Mary, Frank's third daughter
* Holly O'Brien as Susan, Frank's fourth daughter
* Michele Tobin as Veronica, Frank's fifth daughter
*
Tracy Nelson as Germaine, Frank's sixth daughter
* Stephanie Oliver as Joan, Frank's seventh daughter
The North Children
*
Jennifer Leak as Colleen, Helen's first daughter
*
Kimberly Beck as Janette, Helen's second daughter
* Kevin Burchett as Nicky, Helen's first son
*
Mitch Vogel
Mitchel L. "Mitch" Vogel (born January 17, 1956) is an American former child actor, musician and director. As of 2023, he is one of two surviving main cast members from ''Bonanza'', next to Tim Matheson.
Having begun his professional acting ca ...
as Tommy, Helen's second son
* Margot Jane as Jean, Helen's third daughter
*
Eric Shea as Philip, Helen's third son
* Greg Atkins as Gerald, Helen's fourth son
* Lynnell Atkins as Teresa, Helen's fourth daughter
Production
Henry Fonda
Henry Jaynes Fonda (May 16, 1905 – August 12, 1982) was an American actor whose career spanned five decades on Broadway theatre, Broadway and in Hollywood. On screen and stage, he often portrayed characters who embodied an everyman image.
Bo ...
and
Lucille Ball
Lucille Désirée Ball (August 6, 1911 – April 26, 1989) was an American actress, comedian, producer, and studio executive. She was recognized by ''Time (magazine), Time'' in 2020 as one of the most influential women of the 20th century for h ...
take turns providing voice-over narration throughout—and in at least one scene,
Van Johnson talks directly to the camera, as does Fonda.
That
Lucille Ball
Lucille Désirée Ball (August 6, 1911 – April 26, 1989) was an American actress, comedian, producer, and studio executive. She was recognized by ''Time (magazine), Time'' in 2020 as one of the most influential women of the 20th century for h ...
would portray Helen Beardsley was never in doubt. But a long line of distinguished actors came under consideration, at one time or another, for the role of Frank Beardsley. They included
Desi Arnaz
Desiderio Alberto Arnaz y de Acha III (March 2, 1917 – December 2, 1986), known as Desi Arnaz, was a Cuban-American actor, musician, producer, and bandleader. He played Ricky Ricardo on the American television sitcom ''I Love Lucy'', in whi ...
,
James Stewart
James Maitland Stewart (May 20, 1908 – July 2, 1997) was an American actor and military aviator. Known for his distinctive drawl and everyman screen persona, Stewart's film career spanned 80 films from 1935 to 1991. With the strong morali ...
,
Fred MacMurray
Frederick Martin MacMurray (August 30, 1908 – November 5, 1991) was an American actor. He appeared in more than one hundred films and a successful television series in a career that spanned nearly a half-century. His career as a major film le ...
,
Jackie Gleason
Herbert John Gleason (born Herbert Walton Gleason Jr.; February 26, 1916June 24, 1987), known as Jackie Gleason, was an American comedian, actor, writer, and composer also known as "The Great One". He developed a style and characters from growin ...
,
Art Carney
Arthur William Matthew Carney (November 4, 1918 – November 9, 2003) was an American actor and comedian. A recipient of an Academy Awards, Academy Award, a Golden Globe Awards, Golden Globe Award, and six Primetime Emmy Awards, he was best kn ...
, and
John Wayne
Marion Robert Morrison (May 26, 1907 – June 11, 1979), known professionally as John Wayne, was an American actor. Nicknamed "Duke", he became a Pop icon, popular icon through his starring roles in films which were produced during Hollywood' ...
.
Henry Fonda
Henry Jaynes Fonda (May 16, 1905 – August 12, 1982) was an American actor whose career spanned five decades on Broadway theatre, Broadway and in Hollywood. On screen and stage, he often portrayed characters who embodied an everyman image.
Bo ...
finally accepted, and indeed asked for, the role in a telephone conversation with Robert F. Blumofe in 1967. Ball, who had worked with Fonda before in the 1942 release ''
The Big Street
''The Big Street'' is a 1942 American drama film starring Henry Fonda and Lucille Ball, based on the 1940 short story "Little Pinks" by Damon Runyon, who also produced it. It was directed by Irving Reis from a screenplay by Leonard Spigelgass ...
'', readily agreed to the casting.
One account says that Ball recalled in 1961 that
Desilu Productions
Desilu Productions, Inc. () was an American television production company founded and co-owned by husband and wife Desi Arnaz and Lucille Ball. The company is best known for shows such as ''I Love Lucy'', '' The Lucy Show'', '' Mannix'', '' The ...
first bought the rights to the Beardsley-North story in 1959, even ''before'' Helen Beardsley published her biography, but this is highly unlikely because Frank and Helen Beardsley married on September 6, 1961, and their first spouses were both alive in 1959. More likely is the story that
Bob Carroll and his wife brought the story of the Beardsley family to Ball's attention after reading it in a local newspaper.
However, Mr. Carroll is said to recall his wife mentioning the story in 1960—again, a full year before the Beardsleys were married and probably when Dick North was still alive. In any event, Desilu Productions did secure the rights early on, and Mr. Carroll and
Madelyn Pugh
Madelyn Pugh (March 15, 1921 – April 20, 2011), sometimes credited as Madelyn Pugh Davis, Madelyn Davis, or Madelyn Martin, was an American television writer who became known in the 1950s for her work on the ''I Love Lucy'' television se ...
began instantly to write a script.
Production suffered multiple interruptions for several reasons. It began in December 1962 after Ball's abortive attempt at a career on the
Broadway stage. In 1963, production was halted after the box-office failure of her comedy effort ''
Critic's Choice'' (with
Bob Hope
Leslie Townes "Bob" Hope (May 29, 1903 – July 27, 2003) was an American comedian, actor, entertainer and producer with a career that spanned nearly 80 years and achievements in vaudeville, network radio, television, and USO Tours. He appeared ...
). Later, she was unhappy with the script presented by Madelyn Pugh (then known as Madelyn Pugh Martin) and Bob Carroll, precisely because their script overly resembled an ''I Love Lucy'' television episode, and commissioned another writer (
Leonard Spigelgass) to rewrite the script. Mr. Spigelgass does not seem to have succeeded in breaking free of Lucy's television work, so producer Robert Blumofe hired yet two more writers (Mickey Rudin and Bernie Weitzman) to make an attempt. When this failed, Blumofe hired
Melville Shavelson
Melville Shavelson (April 1, 1917 – August 8, 2007) was an Americans, American film director, producer, screenwriter, and author. He was President of the Writers Guild of America, West (WGAw) from 1969 to 1971, 1979 to 1981, and 1985 to 1 ...
, who eventually directed. All further rewrite efforts came to an abrupt end at the insistence of
United Artists
United Artists (UA) is an American film production and film distribution, distribution company owned by Amazon MGM Studios. In its original operating period, it was founded in February 1919 by Charlie Chaplin, D. W. Griffith, Mary Pickford an ...
, the film's eventual distributor.
At this point in the production cycle,
Helen Beardsley's book ''Who Gets the Drumstick?'' was actually released in 1965. Like many film adaptations, exactly how much the book informed the final shooting script is impossible to determine.
Production began in 1967 with
Henry Fonda
Henry Jaynes Fonda (May 16, 1905 – August 12, 1982) was an American actor whose career spanned five decades on Broadway theatre, Broadway and in Hollywood. On screen and stage, he often portrayed characters who embodied an everyman image.
Bo ...
definitely signed on to portray Frank. Mort Lachman, who had been one of
Bob Hope
Leslie Townes "Bob" Hope (May 29, 1903 – July 27, 2003) was an American comedian, actor, entertainer and producer with a career that spanned nearly 80 years and achievements in vaudeville, network radio, television, and USO Tours. He appeared ...
's writers, joined the writing team at the recommendation of Shavelson. Leonard Spigelgass received no on-screen writing credit for his efforts in this film.
Filming was done largely on-location in
Alameda and
San Francisco, California
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with Mike's high-school graduation being filmed at
Grant High School in southern California (Frank Beardsley's home, into which the blended family eventually moved, was in
Carmel). The total budget is estimated at $2.5 million (equivalent to $ million in ), including $1,700,000 for actual filming and post-production.
Reception
The film received lukewarm critical reviews. The film holds a 50% approval rating with 12 reviews from critics on
Rotten Tomatoes
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.
Roger Ebert
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gave the film 3.5 out of 4 stars and praised the performances of Ball and Fonda.
It was a massive commercial success, earning nearly $26 million ($182 Million adjusted for inflation) at the box office (on a tight budget of $2.5 million) and earning over $11 million in rentals.
Frank Beardsley commented that his family enjoyed the film as general entertainment, and acknowledged that perhaps the scriptwriters felt that their screenplay was "a better story" than the truth.
Home media
''Yours, Mine and Ours'' was released on
VHS
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Ma ...
by
MGM/UA Home Video in 1989, 1994, and 1998. A
Laserdisc
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version was released in 1994, featuring noise reduction applied to the film soundtrack.
It was released to
DVD
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on March 6, 2001.
[ While the DVD was released in full frame, the original film was a ]widescreen
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release in the 1.78:1 aspect ratio; this, therefore, constitutes an open matte
Open matte is a filming technique that involves matting out the top and bottom of the film frame in the movie projector (known as a ''soft matte'') for the widescreen theatrical release and then scanning the film without a matte (at Academy ...
presentation.
It was released on Blu-ray
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on September 13, 2016 through Olive Films (under license from MGM
Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer Studios Inc. (also known as Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer Pictures, commonly shortened to MGM or MGM Studios) is an American Film production, film and television production and film distribution, distribution company headquartered ...
and 20th Century Fox Home Entertainment
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). The sole special feature is the original movie trailer.
Awards and nominations
See also
* List of American films of 1968
* The Brady Bunch
''The Brady Bunch'' is an American sitcom created by Sherwood Schwartz that aired five seasons from September 26, 1969, to March 8, 1974, on ABC. The series revolves around a large blended family of six children, with three boys and three gir ...
* Cheaper by the Dozen (1950 film)
References
External links
*
*
*
"Official" site of the actual family of Frank and Helen Beardsley
a valuable reference that includes key differences between Helen Beardsley's biography and the films.
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1968 films
1968 children's films
1968 comedy-drama films
1960s American films
1960s English-language films
American comedy-drama films
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Comedy-drama films based on actual events
English-language comedy-drama films
Films directed by Melville Shavelson
Films set in the San Francisco Bay Area
Films about the United States Navy
Films about marriage
Films about families
Films about weddings in the United States
Films about widowhood in the United States
Films about parenting
Films scored by Fred Karlin
Love stories
United Artists films