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A thirst trap is a type of
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post intended to entice viewers sexually. It refers to a viewer's "
thirst Thirst is the craving for potable fluids, resulting in the basic instinct of animals to drink. It is an essential mechanism involved in fluid balance. It arises from a lack of fluids or an increase in the concentration of certain osmolites, suc ...
", a colloquialism likening
sexual frustration Sexual frustration is a sense of dissatisfaction stemming from a discrepancy between a person's desired and achieved Human sexual activity, sexual activity. It may result from impotence, physical, human sexuality#Psychological aspects, mental, sex ...
to dehydration, implying desperation, with the afflicted individual being described as "thirsty." Originating around the early 2010s, the meaning has changed over time.


History

Thirst trap culture was derived from
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culture. The term ''
thirst trap A thirst trap is a type of social media post intended to entice viewers Sexual arousal, sexually. It refers to a viewer's "wikt:thirst, thirst", a colloquialism likening sexual frustration to dehydration, implying desperation, with the afflicted ...
'' emerged on
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and
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in 2011, and throughout the years as the rise of
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,
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, and online dating apps such as
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. In 2011, it was defined by Urban Dictionary as "any statement used to intentionally create attention or 'thirst'." In 2018, it was reported to have entered common
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, as media sources including ''
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'' and '' GQ'' started using the expression without
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.


Usage of the term

Often, the term ''thirst trap'' describes an attractive picture of an individual that they post online. Thirst trap can also describe a digital heartthrob. For instance,
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has been described as a political thirst trap. It has also been described as a modern form of "fishing for compliments".


Motivation

There can be several motivations behind thirst trapping. People can seek "likes" and comments on social media which can provide a temporary boost in
self-esteem Self-esteem is confidence in one's own worth or abilities. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs about oneself (for example, "I am loved", "I am worthy") as well as emotional states, such as triumph, despair, pride, and shame. Smith and Mackie (2007) d ...
and
validation Validation may refer to: * Data validation, in computer science, ensuring that data inserted into an application satisfies defined formats and other input criteria * Forecast verification, validating and verifying prognostic output from a numerica ...
. Posting a thirst trap can also be a way to express
sexuality Human sexuality is the way people experience and express themselves sexually. This involves biological, psychological, physical, erotic, emotional, social, or spiritual feelings and behaviors. Because it is a broad term, which has varied ...
. Thirst traps can contribute to
personal branding Personal branding is the conscious and intentional effort to create and influence public perception of an individual by positioning them as an authority in their industry, elevating their credibility, and differentiating themselves from the compe ...
as well. Sometimes, there can be a financial benefit for sharing thirst traps. Some post thirst traps as a way to cope with
emotional distress In medicine, distress is an aversive state in which a person is unable to completely adapt to stressors and their resulting stress and shows maladaptive behaviors. It can be evident in the presence of various phenomena, such as inappropriate so ...
, such as after a
breakup A relationship breakup, breakup, or break-up is the termination of a relationship. The act is commonly termed "dumping omeone in slang when it is initiated by one partner. The term is less likely to be applied to a married couple, where a brea ...
. Furthermore, these images can be used to spite a former lover. Sharing a thirst trap has also been used as a way to connect in times of
social isolation Social isolation is a state of complete or near-complete lack of contact between an individual and society. It differs from loneliness, which reflects temporary and involuntary lack of contact with other humans in the world. Social isolation c ...
(e.g.
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). From a
physiological Physiology (; ) is the scientific study of functions and mechanisms in a living system. As a sub-discipline of biology, physiology focuses on how organisms, organ systems, individual organs, cells, and biomolecules carry out the chemical ...
standpoint,
endorphins Endorphins (contracted from endogenous morphine) are chemical signals in the brain that block the perception of pain and increase feelings of wellbeing. They are produced and stored in an area of the brain known as the pituitary gland. Hist ...
and
neurotransmitters A neurotransmitter is a signaling molecule secreted by a neuron to affect another cell across a synapse. The cell receiving the signal, any main body part or target cell, may be another neuron, but could also be a gland or muscle cell. Neur ...
like
oxytocin Oxytocin (Oxt or OT) is a peptide hormone and neuropeptide normally produced in the hypothalamus and released by the posterior pituitary. It plays a role in social bonding, reproduction, childbirth, and the period after childbirth. Oxytocin ...
and
dopamine Dopamine (DA, a contraction of 3,4-dihydroxyphenethylamine) is a neuromodulatory molecule that plays several important roles in cells. It is an organic compound, organic chemical of the catecholamine and phenethylamine families. Dopamine const ...
can be released with the process of sharing thirst traps, leading to a sense of
pleasure Pleasure refers to experience that feels good, that involves the enjoyment of something. It contrasts with pain or suffering, which are forms of feeling bad. It is closely related to value, desire and action: humans and other conscious anima ...
and an ambiguous or masturbatory alternative for actual physical sexual contact.


Methodology

Methodologies have developed to take an optimal thirst trap photo.; Reporting for ''Vice'' magazine, Graham Isador found several of his social network contacts spent a lot of time considering how to take the best photo and what text they should use. They considered angles and
lighting Lighting or illumination is the deliberate use of light to achieve practical or aesthetic effects. Lighting includes the use of both artificial light sources like lamps and light fixtures, as well as natural illumination by capturing daylig ...
. Sometimes they made use of the
self-timer A self timer is a device on a camera that gives a delay between pressing the shutter release and the shutter's firing. It is most commonly used to let the photographer to take a photo of themselves (often with a group of other people), hence t ...
feature available on some cameras. Often, body parts are put on display without being too explicit (e.g. bulges of
male genitalia Male (symbol: ♂) is the sex of an organism that produces the gamete (sex cell) known as sperm, which fuses with the larger female gamete, or ovum, in the process of fertilization. A male organism cannot reproduce sexually without access to ...
, breast cleavage,
abdominal muscles The abdomen (colloquially called the belly, tummy, midriff, tucky or stomach) is the part of the body between the thorax (chest) and pelvis, in humans and in other vertebrates. The abdomen is the front part of the abdominal segment of the torso. ...
,
pectoral muscles Pectoral muscles (colloquially referred to as "pecs") are the muscles that connect the front of the human chest with the bones of the upper arm and shoulder. This region contains four muscles that provide movements to the upper limbs or ribs. P ...
, backs,
buttock The buttocks (singular: buttock) are two rounded portions of the exterior anatomy of most mammals, located on the posterior of the pelvic region. In humans, the buttocks are located between the lower back and the perineum. They are composed ...
s). Often, the thirst trap is accompanied by a
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. For instance, in October 2019, actress
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posted
bikini A bikini is a two-piece swimsuit primarily worn by women that features two triangles of fabric on top that cover the breasts, and two triangles of fabric on the bottom: the front covering the pelvis but exposing the navel, and the back coveri ...
pictures on Instagram with a caption that included the message: "I've worked so hard to feel good in my skin and to build a life that truly matches me and I'm in it and it feels good. ... No filter, no retouch 47 year old thirst trap! Boom!" On Instagram, #ThirstTrapThursdays is a popular tag. Followers reply in turn after a posting.


Variations

"Gatsbying" is a variation of the thirst trap, where one puts posts on social media to attract the attention of a particular individual. The term alludes to the novel ''
The Great Gatsby ''The Great Gatsby'' is a 1925 novel by American writer F. Scott Fitzgerald. Set in the Jazz Age on Long Island, near New York City, the novel depicts First-person narrative, first-person narrator Nick Carraway's interactions with mysterious mil ...
'' where the character
Jay Gatsby Jay Gatsby (originally named James Gatz) is the titular fictional character of F. Scott Fitzgerald's 1925 novel ''The Great Gatsby''. The character is an enigmatic ''nouveau riche'' millionaire who lives in a luxurious mansion on Long Island whe ...
would throw extravagant parties to attract the attention of his love interest, Daisy. "Instagrandstanding" is an alternative name for this. "Wholesome trapping" has developed, where one posts pictures of more meaningful aspects of life, such as spending time with friends or doing outdoor activities.


Criticism

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Lisa Brateman has criticized thirst traps as being an unhealthy method of receiving external validation. This desire for external validation can be addictive. Thirst traps can cause pressure to maintain a good
physical appearance Human physical appearance is the outward phenotype or look of human beings. There are infinite variations in human phenotypes, though society reduces the variability to distinct categories. The physical appearance of humans, in particular those a ...
, and therefore cause self-esteem issues. Additionally, thirst traps are often highly choreographed and thus present a distorted perception of reality. The manufacturing of thirst traps can be limited when one enters a relationship or with time as the body ages. In some cases, thirst traps can lead to harassment and online bullying. In April 2020, model
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posted a video of herself wearing a black one-piece
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, and she received a multitude of negative comments that constituted bullying and
body shaming Body shaming is the action or inaction of subjecting someone to humiliation and criticism for their bodily features. The scope of body shaming is wide, and can include, although is not limited to fat-shaming, shaming for thinness, small breasts, ...
.


Notability in culture

Numerous celebrities have been recognized for their repeated thirst traps, notably
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,
Amber Rose Amber Rose Levonchuck (born October 21, 1983) is an American model and television personality. She first gained attention after she appeared in the music video for Young Jeezy and Kanye West's single " Put On". In 2008, Rose began a high-profil ...
, and
Rihanna Robyn Rihanna Fenty ( ; born February 20, 1988) is a Barbadian singer, actress, and businesswoman. Born in Saint Michael and raised in Bridgetown, Barbados, Rihanna auditioned for American record producer Evan Rogers who invited her to the ...
. The
Jonas Brothers The Jonas Brothers () are an American pop rock band. Formed in 2005, they gained popularity from their appearances on the Disney Channel television network. They consist of three brothers: Kevin Jonas, Joe Jonas, and Nick Jonas. Raised in W ...
have also been noted for their thirst traps created over an extended duration. Publications such as ''
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'' and ''
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'' have created compilations of 'best' celebrity thirst traps.
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was also used as a platform to share thirst trap videos, used by the queer women community in particular. Thirst traps are also prolific in the gay community. It has been argued that
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itself is essentially a representation of a giant thirst trap. In 2018,
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featured a shade of
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called "thirst trap". In 2019,
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commissioned a study where 60,000 Instagram images from 50 U.S. cities and 10 international cities were analyzed to see the prevalence rate of thirst traps.
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was found to have the highest prevalence rate in the United States, with 36 out of 1,000 photos being thirst traps. During the
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, there was an increase in thirst traps. During March 2023, the Tennessee Holler news site first broke a political news report of the anti-LGBTQ 79 year old Tennessee Lt. Governor
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(
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- Oak Ridge) using his verified Instagram account to reply with his frequent comments and emojis to the thirst trap photos "showcasing his nearly nude physique" that were posted online by Franklin McClure, a 20 year old gay man from Knoxville, Tennessee.https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2023/03/tennessees-randy-mcnally-likes-mans-instagram-nudes.html "Tennessee’s Randy McNally Likes Man’s Instagram Nudes"


See also

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Attention economy Attention economics is an approach to the management of information that treats human attention as a scarce commodity and applies economic theory to solve various information management problems. According to Matthew Crawford, "Attention is a ...


References

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