Shulem Deen (born 1974) is an American author, essayist, former

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''Hasid'', and critic of

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. He is the author of the memoir ''All Who Go Do Not Return'' (2015), and is a regular columnist at ''

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''. He is also the founding editor of ''Unpious'', a journal for voices critical of Hasidic lifestyle and beliefs.

Career

Deen first became known as the author of the

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"Hasidic Rebel", which he wrote from 2003 until 2012, and which was the subject of a 2003 feature article in the ''Village Voice''. Deen's blog was the first widely read website by a born Hasid casting doubt on his religious faith. In 2010, Deen launched the ''Unpious'' website, along with "Shtreimel", another ex-Hasidic blogger, and has served as its editor throughout. The site was intended as a platform for voices critical of the

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lifestyle and beliefs. Deen's memoir, ''All Who Go Do Not Return'', was published in 2015, and chronicles his transition from devout member of the

sect to secular Jew. Deen's book is part of a subgenre of memoirs by formerly Haredi writers, and is considered to be one of the best. Deen is a regular columnist at ''

'', and writes widely on the intersection of Hasidic and secular life, including articles in the '' New Republic'', ''

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'', and ''

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''. Even though his work is perceived to be critical of the Hasidic lifestyle and worldview, he has appeared on

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media, such as

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's ''18Forty'' podcast. Deen currently serves as a board member at Footsteps, a

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organization that assists formerly

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with transitioning to life outside the Haredi world.

Awards

* 2015

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New Writers Award for Creative Non-Fiction * 2017

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for ''Celui qui va vers elle ne revient pas'' (''All Who Go Do Not Return'')

Personal life

Deen spent his early life among

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in the Borough Park section of

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, and joined the Skver Hasidic dynasty when he was a teenager, moving to the town of

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, the movement's headquarters, to settle after marriage. He was married in 1993, and has five children. In 2005, Deen was expelled from New Square by its leaders for holding heretical views, and several years later, he divorced his wife and left the Hasidic lifestyle entirely. He is mostly estranged from his children, who have remained among the Skverer Hasidim in New Square, New York. He currently lives in

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Select articles

"Too Cool"
''Tablet'', June 22, 2011
"The Sound of Sin"
''Salon'', April 19, 2012
"In Death of Ex-Hasid, a Mirror for Trauma of Many"
''Tablet'', October 2, 2013
"Op-Ed: Chasidic Schools Ensure Ignorance and Poverty"
''The Jewish Week'', September 17, 2015
"My Roommate, the Prostitute"
''Narratively'', January 7, 2015
"How I Kept My Faith in Faith"
''The Forward'', December 1, 2015

References

External links

Official Website

VIDEO: A Life Apart, An Ex-Hasid in Brooklyn: BK Stories, by BRIC TV

Interview with Brian Lehrer on WNYC radio

Story Feature on Reply All Podcast
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