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Regifting or regiving is the act of taking a
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that has been received and giving it to somebody else, sometimes in the guise of a new gift.


Concept

Regifting differs from straightforward giving in that goods are not acquired specifically for donation. Typically, goods that have been received as a gift are offered to others, unbeknown to them that it was originally a gift to the person offering it. Often the motives are principally charitable but also includes giving items which are surplus to one's needs. However, re-gifting also refers to the act of giving away unwanted gifts as a way of disposing them. Regiving differs from
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in that recycling is most often associated with breaking components down and rebuilding into new products.


Etymology

The term was popularized by a 1995 episode of the
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"), although the practice pre-dates the term considerably. In the episode, the character Elaine calls Dr. Tim Whatley a "regifter" after he gives
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a label-maker that was originally given to Whatley by Elaine. Another variant introduced in ''
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'' is degifting (see
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), which refers to the act of demanding a gift back from the receiver.


Etiquette

Several rules of
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are proposed in popular media regarding regifting; they include rewrapping the gift, not using the gift before regifting it, and not giving the gift back to the original gift-giver. Regifting has become a popular addition to many
white elephant gift exchange A white elephant gift exchange, Yankee swap or Dirty Santa is a party game where amusing and impractical gifts are exchanged during festivities. The goal of a white elephant gift exchange is to entertain party-goers rather than to gain a gen ...
s or yankee swap events. There are no rules that specifically prohibit or encourage the practice of regifting at these parties, but generally the host of the party suggests regifting if it is an option. However, if the host suggests a spending limit for the party, it is generally poor etiquette to regift in lieu of making a purchase. The online variations of these exchanges eliminate this situation through their online purchasing requirements. One example of a formalization of this activity are the
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s, in which items can be regifted from year to year. A variant of regifting was mentioned as one of
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PublicMind Poll in Dec. 2010 showed that regifting was "commonplace." Burçak Ertimur, one of the investigators in the study, and a professor of marketing at FDU, said “The popularity of regifting is driven by many things for different people. For some, it’s thrift in difficult economic times, or it’s a way to get around annoyingly high expectations about gift-giving. It’s also awareness of, or guilt over, how much stuff goes into the landfill. But the main reason might be just the sheer volume of stuff we have,” she said. Regifting has recently become more acceptable when it was adopted by environmentally and budgetary conscious people that encourage the
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concept.


Commercial and other uses of the term

In the US, National Regifting Day is December 18, created by a debt-counselling group called
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. Many office holiday parties are held on this day, and research shows that 40% of office party gifts are regifted without use. On October 24, 2008, the Governor of
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, Bill Ritter Jr., declared December 18, 2008, "National Regifting Day". In Canada, eBay marketed "National Re-gifting Week" as December 26–30, after Christmas.


See also

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The Freecycle Network The Freecycle Network (TFN, or Freecycle) is a private, nonprofit organization registered in Arizona, US and is a charity in the United Kingdom. TFN coordinates a worldwide network of "gifting" groups to divert reusable goods from landfills. The ...
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References


Further reading

* * * "Regifting Commonplace,"
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's PublicMind Poll, Dec. 20, 2010, accessed at http://publicmind.fdu.edu/regift/


External links


''CNN Money'': Regifting 101

''MSN Money'': 12 rules for 'regifting' without fear


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