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This is a list of long marriages. It includes marriages extending over at least 80 years.


Background

A study by Robert and Jeanette Lauer, reported in the ''
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'', conducted on 40 sets of spouses married for at least 50 years, concluded that the long-term married couples received high scores on the Lock-Wallace marital satisfaction test and were closely aligned on how their marriages were doing. In a 1979 study on about 55 couples in marriages with an average length of 55.5 years, couples said their marriages lasted so long because of mutual devotion and special regard for each other. Couples who have been married for a long time have a lower likelihood of divorcing because "common economic interests and friendship networks increase over time" and during stress can assist in sustaining the relationship. Another study found that people in long marriages are wedded to the idea of "marital permanency" in which "They don't see divorce as an option". Sociologist
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, the
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's relationships authority, said that it was helpful to have a spouse who is quick to recover when there are surprises in life. A study of 1,152 couples who had been married for over 50 years found that they attributed their long marriages to faith in each other, love, ability to make concessions, admiration for each other, reliance on each other, children, and strong communication.
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(BGSU)'s National Center for Family and Marriage Research found that 7% of American marriages last at least 50 years.


Recording longest marriages

The longest marriage recorded (although not officially recognized) is a granite wedding anniversary (90 years) between Karam and Kartari Chand, who both lived in the United Kingdom, but were married in India. Karam and Kartari Chand married in 1925 and died in 2016 and 2019 respectively.
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published its first edition in 1955. In the 1984 to 1998 editions, the longest recorded marriages were between Sir
Temulji Bhicaji Nariman Sir Temulji Bhicaji Nariman RCSEd, also recorded as Tehmulji B. Nariman (3 September 1848 – 1 August 1940), was a Parsi obstetrician from Bombay (now Mumbai) who co-founded one of the city's first lying-in hospitals in 1887 and was knighted ...
and Lady Nariman, and Lazarus and Mary Molly Rowe according to the New England Historical and Genealogical Register, both of them stated as spanning 86 years. Guinness has since recognized couples with longer marriage spans, with the current world record holders being Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher. Guinness also keeps record of the oldest married couple by aggregate age. Other organizations have created events where they honor couples with long marriages. In 2011, World Marriage Encounter (WME), an American organization that was responsible for making a
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, created a Longest Married Couple Project (LMCP), where they pick a couple with a long marriage and honor them on
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. They have since expanded the awards to representatives in each of the 50 states, although the candidates selected are not necessarily the ones with record-setting marriages. Starting in 2004, the
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(LFF) has honored its own annual list of long-time married couples in that particular state, beginning with George and Germaine Briant.


List of marriages reported to be more than 80 years

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, - bgcolor="99FF99" , Roger Lee Kunkle
Beverly B. (née Robinson) Kunkle , 6 August 1943 , , , Ohio, United States , , , - , Allen John Frandsen
Evelyn (née Mackay) Frandsen , 30 March 1942 , , 5 September 2022
(Allen John) , Centerfield, Utah, United States , Recognized by the Utah governor's office as the longest-married couple in the state , , - , Jón Albert Magnússon
Rita Rona Magnússon , 14 July 1940 , , 19 October 2020
(Jón Albert) ,
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, Denmark , , , - , Henry W. Hoell Sr.
Rosa (née Gurganus) Hoell , 28 April 1941 , , 16 June 2021
(Rosa) , North Carolina, United States , , , - , Jack Bare
Joan Bare , 3 August 1939 , , 10 September 2019
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, United Kingdom , Britain's 'longest married couple' until 2020 , , - , Benjamin Franklin "Ben" Hartley
Drusilla Orlena (née Keith) Hartley , 24 November 1875 , , 26 December 1955
("Ben") , Idaho, United States , "Nation's Longest Marriage" , , - , Warren Leslie MacQuarrie
Clara Wilma MacQuarrie , 15 September 1942 , , 16 October 2022
(Clara Wilma) , Fairfield, California, United States , , , - bgcolor="99FF99" , Andrew Paul Kowalczyk
Bertha (née Burnham) Kowalczyk , 1 January 1944 , , ,
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veteran and electrical engineer , , - , Peter Mascolo
Anna (née DiTuccio) Mascolo , 23 April 1928 , , 2 May 2008
(Peter) , Connecticut, United States , They were the parents of actor
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, , - , Pierre Jean Louis Germain Soulages
Colette Marcelle Léonie (née Llaurens) Soulages , 24 October 1942 , , 25 October 2022
(Pierre Jean Louis Germain) ,
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References

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