A gigolo () is a
male escort
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or social companion who is supported by a person in a continuing relationship, often living in her residence or having to be present at her beck and call.
The term ''gigolo'' usually implies a man who adopts a lifestyle consisting of a number of such relationships serially rather than having other means of support.
The gigolo is expected to provide companionship, to serve as a consistent escort with good manners and social skills, and often to serve as a
dancing partner as required by the woman in exchange for the support. Many gifts, such as expensive clothing and an automobile to drive, may be lavished upon him. The relationship may include sexual services as well, and he also can be referred to as a "kept man."
The word ''gigolo'' may be traced to a first usage in English as a
neologism
A neologism Greek νέο- ''néo''(="new") and λόγος /''lógos'' meaning "speech, utterance"] is a relatively recent or isolated term, word, or phrase that may be in the process of entering common use, but that has not been fully accepted int ...
during the 1920s as a
back-formation
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from ''gigolette'', a French word for a woman hired as a dancing partner. Both ''gigolo'' and ''gigolette'' were first recorded in French in the middle part of the 19th century, referring to dance club denizens in
Montmartre
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paid to dance with, and sometimes have sex with, unaccompanied male visitors. In the latter part of the 19th century, particularly after the scandalous murder case known in Paris as the
Pranzini Affair, the term ''gigolo'' took on connotations of the exotic, foreign male whose company and affections could be purchased by well-to-do French women.
[Freundschuh, Aaron. ''The Courtesan and the Gigolo: The Murders in the Rue Montaigne and the Dark Side of Empire in Nineteenth-Century Paris'' (2017, Stanford University Press)]
In popular culture
Films
* ''
Gigolo
A gigolo () is a male escort or social companion who is supported by a person in a continuing relationship, often living in her residence or having to be present at her beck and call.
The term ''gigolo'' usually implies a man who adopts a lifes ...
'' (1926) - American silent romance drama film produced by
Cecil B. DeMille
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* ''
Just a Gigolo'' (1931) - American romantic comedy directed by
Jack Conway, starring
William Haines
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Haines was discovered by a talent scout and signed with Goldwyn Pictures in 1922. His career gained momentum when he received favo ...
,
Irene Purcell,
C. Aubrey Smith
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and
Ray Milland
* ''
Evenings for Sale
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Evening may also refer to:
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** ''Evening'' (film), a 2007 film
* ''Evenings'' (f ...
'' (1932) - American romantic comedy, starring
Herbert Marshall
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,
Sari Maritza,
Charlie Ruggles
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and
Mary Boland
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Early years
Born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Boland was the daughter of repertory actor William Augustus Boland, and his wife M ...
* ''
Hold Back the Dawn
''Hold Back the Dawn'' is a 1941 American romantic drama film in which a Romanian gigolo marries an American woman in Mexico in order to gain entry to the United States, but winds up falling in love with her. It stars Charles Boyer, Olivia de Havi ...
'' (1941) - American drama starring
Charles Boyer
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and
Olivia de Havilland
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* ''
Sunset Boulevard
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'' (1950) - American film noir co-written and directed by
Billy Wilder
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, starring
William Holden
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and
Gloria Swanson
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* ''
The Gigolo'' (1960) - French romantic drama film written and directed by
Jacques Deray
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Biography
Born Jacques Desrayaud in Lyon, France, in ...
. It is loosely based on the novel Le Gigolo written by
Jacques Robert.
* ''
Breakfast at Tiffany's'' (1961) - American romantic comedy starring
Audrey Hepburn and
George Peppard
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* ''
Just a Gigolo'' (1978) - West German film directed by
David Hemmings and starring
David Bowie
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* ''
American Gigolo'' (1980) - American romantic crime film written and directed by
Paul Schrader, and starring
Richard Gere
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,
Lauren Hutton &
Hector Elizondo
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* ''
Galactic Gigolo'' (1987) - American science-fiction comedy film directed by
Gorman Bechard
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* ''
Deuce Bigalow: Male Gigolo'' (1999) - American sex comedy film starring
Rob Schneider
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, followed by the 2005 sequel ''
Deuce Bigalow: European Gigolo''
* ''
The Roman Spring of Mrs. Stone'' (2003) - American television film remake of the 1961 film of the same name. Directed by
Robert Allan Ackerman
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Ackerman was born in Brooklyn, New York, on June 30, 1944 and moved to Kew Gardens, Queens, when he wa ...
, it stars
Helen Mirren and
Brian Dennehy
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* ''
The Gigolos
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'' (2005) British comedy film directed by
Richard Bracewell
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. ''Bill'' was Br ...
, starring
Sacha Tarter
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Alexander most recently starred in ''Freddi'' with Rob Brydon. ''Freddi'' is a pilot comedy drama commissioned by BBC Four in 2008 about Freddi, a wealthy, bored ...
,
Ben Willbond
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, and
Susannah York
* ''
A French Gigolo
''A French Gigolo'' (french: Cliente) is a 2008 French comedy-drama film directed by Josiane Balasko and starring Nathalie Baye, Éric Caravaca, Isabelle Carré and Balasko.
Plot
Patrick is a male prostitute who hides his double life from his w ...
'' (2008) - French drama film directed by
Josiane Balasko
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Career
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and starring
Nathalie Baye
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. It was based on the novel "Cliente" by
Josiane Balasko
Josiane Balasko (born Josiane Balašković; 15 April 1950) is a French actress, writer, and director. She has been nominated seven times for César Awards, and won twice.
Career
One of Balasko's most recognized roles among English speakers is ...
* ''
Spread
Spread may refer to:
Places
* Spread, West Virginia
Arts, entertainment, and media
* ''Spread'' (film), a 2009 film.
* ''$pread'', a quarterly magazine by and for sex workers
* "Spread", a song by OutKast from their 2003 album ''Speakerboxxx/T ...
'' (2009) - American sex comedy film directed by
David Mackenzie, starring
Ashton Kutcher
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and
Anne Heche. It was also released as ''L.A. Gigolo''
* ''
Fading Gigolo
''Fading Gigolo'' is a 2013 American comedy film directed, written by, and starring John Turturro. The film, co-starring Woody Allen, Sharon Stone, Sofia Vergara, Vanessa Paradis, Liev Schreiber and Eugenia Kuzmina premiered in the Special Pres ...
'' (2013) - American comedy film directed, written by, and starring
John Turturro
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, co-starring
Woody Allen
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,
Sharon Stone
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&
Sofia Vergara
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* ''
The Gigolo'' (Chinese: 鴨王) (2015) - Hong Kong erotic drama film directed and written by Au Cheuk-man and starring Dominic Ho and
Candy Yuen, followed by the 2016 sequel ''
The Gigolo 2'' (Chinese: 鴨王2)
Music
* "I'm a Gigolo" - 1929 Broadway show tune by
Cole Porter, written for the revue ''
Wake Up and Dream''
* "
Just a Gigolo" - adapted by
Irving Caesar
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in 1929 from the Austrian tango "Schöner Gigolo, armer Gigolo"; paired as a medley with "
I Ain't Got Nobody
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" by
Louis Prima
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in 1956
* "
The Gigolo" - 1966 album by jazz trumpeter
Lee Morgan
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One of the key hard bop musicians of the 1960s, Morgan came to prominence in his late teens, recording on John Coltrane's '' Blue Train'' (1 ...
* “Gigolo Aunt” - 1970 song by
Syd Barrett
* "
Gigolo
A gigolo () is a male escort or social companion who is supported by a person in a continuing relationship, often living in her residence or having to be present at her beck and call.
The term ''gigolo'' usually implies a man who adopts a lifes ...
" - 1981 dance single by
Mary Wells
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Along with The Supremes, The Miracles, The Temptations, Martha Reeves and the Vandellas, and the F ...
* "
Gigolos Get Lonely Too" - 1983 song by
The Time
* "
Gigolo
A gigolo () is a male escort or social companion who is supported by a person in a continuing relationship, often living in her residence or having to be present at her beck and call.
The term ''gigolo'' usually implies a man who adopts a lifes ...
" - 1987 single by
The Damned
* "Gigolo" - 1991 song by
Liz Phair
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later rerecorded as "Can't Get Out of What I'm Into"
* "American Gigolo" - 2001 song by
Weezer
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* "
Gigolo
A gigolo () is a male escort or social companion who is supported by a person in a continuing relationship, often living in her residence or having to be present at her beck and call.
The term ''gigolo'' usually implies a man who adopts a lifes ...
" - 2003 song by
Nick Cannon
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featuring
R. Kelly
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During his recording career, Kelly sold over 75 million records worldwi ...
* "
Gigolo
A gigolo () is a male escort or social companion who is supported by a person in a continuing relationship, often living in her residence or having to be present at her beck and call.
The term ''gigolo'' usually implies a man who adopts a lifes ...
" - 2006 song by Greek singer
Helena Paparizou
TV series
* ''
Just a Gigolo'' (1993) - British sitcom starring
Tony Slattery
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* ''
Absolutely Fabulous
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'', TV episode "Sex", (1995) - British sitcom starring
Jennifer Saunders
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and
Joanna Lumley
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* ''
Gigolos
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'' (2011 – 2016) - American
reality television
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series about the lives of five male escorts in
Las Vegas
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*
''American Gigolo'' (2022) - Romance series starring
Jon Bernthal
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Beginning his career in the early 2000s, he came to prominence for portraying Shane Walsh on the AMC horror series '' The Walking Dead'' (2010–2012; 2018), where ...
.
Novels
* ''
Hold Back the Dawn
''Hold Back the Dawn'' is a 1941 American romantic drama film in which a Romanian gigolo marries an American woman in Mexico in order to gain entry to the United States, but winds up falling in love with her. It stars Charles Boyer, Olivia de Havi ...
'' (1940) by
Ketti Frings
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Biography
Early years
Born Katherine Hartley in Columbus, Ohio, Frings attended Principia College, began ...
* ''The Roman Spring of Mrs. Stone'' (1950) by
Tennessee Williams
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* ''
Breakfast at Tiffany's'' (1958) by
Truman Capote
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* ''Le Gigolo'' (1959) by
Jacques Robert
* ''Cliente'' (2004) by
Josiane Balasko
Josiane Balasko (born Josiane Balašković; 15 April 1950) is a French actress, writer, and director. She has been nominated seven times for César Awards, and won twice.
Career
One of Balasko's most recognized roles among English speakers is ...
See also
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Male prostitution
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*
Male prostitution in the arts
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*
Female sex tourism
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*
Escort agency
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*
Prostitution
*
Cicisbeo
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References
Further reading
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