Asking For It (Hole Song)
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"Asking for It" is a song by the American alternative rock band
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. It is the fourth track on the band's second studio album, ''
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'', released on April 12, 1994 on
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. The song was written by vocalist and rhythm guitarist
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and lead guitarist
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. Although not released as a
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, "Asking for It" is one of the band's most notable songs as it charted a brief, four-week appearance on ''
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''s ''
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'' in the United States in February 1995, peaking at number 36. It is also known as one of the three released Hole recordings to feature Love's husband
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.


Origin and recording

"Asking for It" was one of the many songs written by Love and Erlandson following the release of Hole's debut studio album, ''
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'', and the subsequent departures of drummer
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and bassist
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. Although thought to be written in 1992, the term "asking for it" was coined by Love as early as 1990 and appears in the lyrics to the band's 1991 single "
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". s of the song were used by Love in a 1991 interview with British journalist
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, in response to one of his questions. The first and only known studio version of the song was recorded in October 1993 as part of the ''Live Through This'' sessions at Triclops Studios in Atlanta, Georgia. On October 18, halfway through the sessions, Love's husband,
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of
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, joined the band in-studio and provided backing vocals for a number of songs, including "Asking for It". Cobain, however, was unfamiliar with the material, and was encouraged to "just sing off the top of ishead". His vocals during the bridge are audible on the album version, albeit low in the mix. An alternate mix of the song, sourced from a radio broadcast of ''Hot Modern Rock Tracks'' in 1995, circulated amongst the general public in 1998 and features Cobain's prominent backing vocals, as well as an extended bridge and additional verses. Due to this recording, the song is known for being a source for those who believe Cobain contributed largely to the album.


Composition


Music

"Asking for It" was written in
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by Eric Erlandson with the main
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constructed from four
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(D5–C5–A5–G5) with the latter two chords being
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due to the alternate tuning. The song opens with a simple bass line based on Erlandson's chords. An acoustically-performed guitar bridge in the song resembles the
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song "Time", which was later performed live by Hole during one of their 1995 tours in promotion for ''Live Through This''. Describing the musical style of "Asking for It", Sputnikmusic described the song as a "slower more melodic song" in contrast to the beginning of the album and "starting with some lightly strummed chords on the guitar, the drums and bass quickly join in to make a poppy yet somehow distant sound." "'Asking for It' opens in a trough of despairing
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and doesn't get much cheerier," observed Clark Collis in '' Select''. "Yet ... it's going to be a bugger getting the damn thing out of your head."


Lyrics

The lyrical content of "Asking for It" is mainly about
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, however, it also deals with issues of
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; one of the central themes of ''Live Through This''. The song was inspired by an incident that occurred on August 16, 1991 at the
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in
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, Scotland, where Love stage-dived and was
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by members of the audience. Speaking of the incident in a 1995 interview, Love said:
We had just gotten off tour with Mudhoney, and I decided to stage-dive. I was wearing a dress and I didn't realize what I was engendering in the audience. It was a huge audience and they were kind of going ape-shit. So I just dove off the stage, and suddenly, it was like my dress was being torn off of me, my underwear was being torn off of me, people were putting their fingers inside of me and grabbing my breasts really hard, screaming things in my ears like "pussy-whore-cunt". When I got back onstage I was naked. I felt like
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. But the worst thing of all was that I saw a photograph of it later. Someone took a picture of me right when this was happening, and I had this big smile on my face like I was pretending it wasn't happening. So later I wrote a song called "Asking For It" based on the whole experience. I can't compare it to rape because it's not the same. But in a way it was. I was raped by an audience, figuratively, literally, and yet, was I asking for it?


Release

"Asking for It" was featured as the fourth track on ''
Live Through This ''Live Through This'' is the second studio album by the American alternative rock band Hole, released on April 12, 1994, by DGC Records. Recorded in late 1993, it departed from the band's unpolished hardcore aesthetics to more refined melodies ...
'', released on April 12, 1994. Less than seven months later, the song was released, in its alternate form, to U.S. radio. and featured the additional verses, extended bridge and Cobain's backing vocals. There were rumours around the time of the album's release that Love was planning to release the version of "Asking for It" featuring Cobain as a single. A live version of the song, performed and recorded at the 1995
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, was released on Hole's 1997 compilation album, ''
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''.


Musicians and personnel


Hole

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Courtney Love Courtney Michelle Love (née Harrison; born July 9, 1964) is an American singer, guitarist, songwriter, and actress. A figure in the alternative and grunge scenes of the 1990s, her career has spanned four decades. She rose to prominence as t ...
– vocals, guitar *
Eric Erlandson Eric Theodore Erlandson (born January 9, 1963) is an American musician, guitarist, and writer, primarily known as founding member, songwriter and lead guitarist of alternative rock band Hole from 1989 to 2002. He has also had several musical si ...
– guitar *
Kristen Pfaff Kristen Marie Pfaff (née Parco; May 26, 1967 – June 16, 1994) was an American musician, best known as the bassist for alternative rock band Hole from 1993 to 1994. Prior to Hole, Pfaff was the bassist and backing vocalist for Minneapolis-base ...
– bass guitar, piano, backing vocals *
Patty Schemel Patricia Theresa Schemel (born April 24, 1967) is an American drummer and musician who rose to prominence as the drummer of alternative rock band Hole from 1992 until 1998. Born in Los Angeles, Schemel was raised in rural Marysville, Washington, ...
– drums, percussion


Guest musicians

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Dana Kletter Dana Kletter (born October 21, 1959) is an American musician and writer. Biography Kletter and her twin sister Karen were born in Baltimore, Maryland and raised in New York. Dana began playing piano at age four. She attended American Universi ...
– additional vocals *
Kurt Cobain Kurt Donald Cobain (February 20, 1967 – April 5, 1994) was an American musician who served as the lead vocalist, guitarist and primary songwriter of the rock band Nirvana. Through his angst-fueled songwriting and anti-establishment persona ...
– additional vocals


Technical personnel

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Paul Q. Kolderie Paul Q. Kolderie is an American record producer, engineer, and mixer. He has worked with Pixies, Radiohead, Orangutang, Hole, Dinosaur Jr., Juliana Hatfield, Wax, Warren Zevon, Uncle Tupelo, Throwing Muses, Morphine, the Mighty Mighty Bosstone ...
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,
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*
Sean Slade Sean Slade (born 14 November 1957) is an American record producer, engineer, and mixer. On many of his productions he worked in partnership with Paul Q. Kolderie. Career Slade was born in Lansing, Michigan, United States. He graduated from Yal ...
– producer, engineer *
Scott Litt Scott Warren Litt (born March 10, 1954) is an American record producer who mostly works with artists in the alternative rock genre and is best known for producing six R.E.M. albums in the late 1980s and early to mid-1990s during the band's most suc ...
– mixing


Charts


References

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