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"You Don't Own Me" is a pop song written by Philadelphia songwriters John Madara and David White and recorded by
Lesley Gore Lesley Gore (born Lesley Sue Goldstein, May 2, 1946 – February 16, 2015) was an American singer and songwriter. At the age of 16, she recorded her first hit song " It's My Party", a US number one in 1963. She follow ...
in 1963, when she was 17 years old. The song was Gore's second most successful recording and her last top-ten single. Gore herself considered it to be her
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claiming, "I just can't find anything stronger to be honest with you, it's a song that just grows every time you do it." The song was prominent at the time of its release in 1963 as it symbolized
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, showing the strength of a woman capable of standing up for herself against a man. Since then, the song has been hailed as an early feminist anthem. In 2015, singer SayGrace took Gore's song to No. 1 in Australia with a version featuring rapper
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. The following year, the song was inducted into the
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.


Background

The song expresses emancipation, as the singer tells a lover that he cannot objectify her. She doesn't want to be held to his hypocritical gender standards, such as not being able to see other men, when he sees other women. The song's lyrics became an inspiration for younger women and are sometimes cited as a factor in the development of the
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. Gore said, "My take on the song was: I'm 17, what a wonderful thing, to stand up on a stage and shake your finger at people and sing you don't own me." In Gore's obituary, ''
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'' referred to "You Don't Own Me" as "indelibly defiant". American music magazine '' CashBox'' described it as "a throbbing, multi-track, ballad-with-a-beat on which
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emotionally declares her independence."


Chart performance

The song reached number two on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 in the United States. It remained at number two for three consecutive weeks, beginning on February 1, 1964, unable to overcome
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' hit "
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". It became Gore's second most successful hit after "
It's My Party "It's My Party" is a song recorded by American singer Lesley Gore on her debut studio album '' I'll Cry If I Want To'' (1963). It was released as a single on April 5, 1963, by Mercury Records. The song was written by Herb Wiener, John Gluck Jr. ...
". The song was Gore's last top-ten single.


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Later comparative criticism

After the success of "You Don't Own Me", many of Gore's other recordings (generally written by others), including " That's the Way Boys Are", were eventually comparatively criticized for not meeting
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expectations. Of "That's the Way Boys Are", author Richard Aquila noted that the lyrics "voice the era's acceptance of sexual double standards," in contrast with the theme of Gore's previous single, "You Don't Own Me". Aquila regards "That's the Way Boys Are" as one of several examples of Lesley Gore recordings that regard women as dependents or passive objects, along with her earlier singles "
It's My Party "It's My Party" is a song recorded by American singer Lesley Gore on her debut studio album '' I'll Cry If I Want To'' (1963). It was released as a single on April 5, 1963, by Mercury Records. The song was written by Herb Wiener, John Gluck Jr. ...
" and " Judy's Turn to Cry". Musicologist Walter Everett described "That's the Way Boys Are" as one of the many 1960s sexist songs that "perpetuated a boys-will-be-boys tolerance for male but not female infidelity." Music critic
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also mentioned how "That's the Way Boys Are" backs off from the "proto-feminist manifesto" of "You Don't Own Me" to a message of "he may treat you like garbage, but they're all like that, and we love 'em for it!" On August 14–21, 1965,
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peaked at No. 8 on the Hot 100 with "Don't Just Stand There", which sounds very similar to "You Don't Own Me".


Impact

Lesley Gore's single "You Don't Own Me" was one of the first songs of its kind to become a feminist anthem, speaking out against the misogynistic culture at the time the single was written in 1963. The impact of this song is evident today, as it has become a song of
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that is often played during many feminist rights marches, campaigns, and is often showcased on TV shows with a similar agenda. Lesley Gore re-recorded "You Don't Own Me" for her 11th album '' Ever Since'' in 2005, later utilizing it during the 2012 presidential campaign encouraging women to vote and protect women's reproductive rights. The song has since been used in many different feminist rights campaigns, marches and TV shows, highlighting the significance of the powerful message the song still delivers. Gore said “After some 40 years, I still close my show with that song because I can’t find anything stronger, to be honest with you". She still believes in the song's message, stating "When you can do a song in different ways, and do it over different periods of time, and it still has its legs, there's something to be said for that". Gore died in 2015 at the age of 68, sparking a remembrance of the hit song, "which only grew stronger as the rallying cry during the women’s marches in 2018 around the MeToo movement". Even in death, she captivated a nation with the powerful words in "You Don't Own Me".


Saygrace version

In 2015, the song was recorded by Australian singer
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and was released as her debut single. It features American rapper
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. Grace's version was produced by
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, who also produced the original recording by Lesley Gore, and Parker Ighile. It was released on March 17, 2015, one month after Gore's death, and peaked at number one on the
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, later being certified 3× platinum by the
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. The song was also a success in New Zealand, peaking at number five for two consecutive weeks, and in the United Kingdom, peaking at number four. In an interview with
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, Grace said, " nowiki/>Quincy Jonestold me how the song came out during the feminist movement and how it was such a strong statement. I loved the song, started researching Lesley Gore and fell in love with her as an artist. ou Don't Own Mereally inspired me." The song was released worldwide on August 17, 2015. It grew to prominence in the UK when it was used in the 2015 House of Fraser Christmas advert. It was also performed by ''
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'' contestant Lauren Murray in 2015 and
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in 2016. The increased exposure for the song helped it rise to a peak of number four on the UK Singles Chart. The song was featured in the third trailer for the 2016 film ''
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'' and appeared on the film's
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. The song was featured in the opening of '' Riverdale''s eighth episode in March 2017, as well as the background music for the 2018 Ford Mustang GT commercial, with Helen Hunt and
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. A music video directed by Taylor Cohen was released on June 1, 2015.


Charts and certifications


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Certifications


Other notable covers

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released an early cover on her 1964 album '' A Girl Called Dusty''. * The Ormsby Brothers released the first male version of this song in 1973. The New Zealand group's version peaked at number 5 in Australia in that year. * Joan Jett covered the song in 1979 as a single, later included in her self-titled first album, which was re-released as Bad Reputation. * Klaus Nomi covered the song in 1981 for his self-titled album. This version was used by
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on his
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for his "Gay Community Updates" where he would degrade LGBTQ+ people. *
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recorded a Dutch-language version of the song in 1981 for his album ''Gewoon André''; "Zeg Maar Niets Meer" was popular in
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, and reached number 2 in the Dutch charts in early 1982. * The song was featured in the 1996 film '' The First Wives Club'' as sung by
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,
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and
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. It also attracted a fan following. *
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recorded a cover of this song alongside
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, for her 2019 album '' For the Girls''. *The 2022 Netflix series '' Stay Close'' used "You Don't Own Me" as the theme song, sung by Nikki Williams. *
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covered the song for the soundtrack to the 1987 film ''
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''.


See also

* List of feminist anthems * My body, my choice


References

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