Stoya is an American semi-retired
pornographic actress,
actress
An actor (masculine/gender-neutral), or actress (feminine), is a person who portrays a character in a production. The actor performs "in the flesh" in the traditional medium of the theatre or in modern media such as film, radio, and television. ...
, model, and nonfiction writer. She began her porn career in 2007 in the
alt porn
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scene, and since 2009 has also worked in non-pornographic media, including the 2016 lesbian fantasy series ''
Dagger Kiss''. Since 2019, she has co-written the
sex column "How to Do It" for ''
Slate
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'' under the byline Jessica Stoya.
Early life
Stoya was born to a
Scottish father and a
Serbian mother. She was named Jessica after
Jessica Savitch.
As a child, she wanted to become a dancer, and started dance lessons at the age of three. She was
home-schooled and received her high-school diploma before the age of sixteen.
Because her father worked in
IT, Stoya had access to electronics and gaming equipment, through which she developed her love of technology.
"I was three when I was using
DOS. My mom taught me how to read, and my dad taught me how to navigate DOS."
After moving to
Philadelphia
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, she attended a summer program at
UArts. Some of her jobs in Philadelphia included being a secretary, flier distributor, and a
go-go dancer
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. Stoya appeared in several music videos for bands that, according to her, "no one will ever hear of."
In May 2009, Stoya said that she would be moving from Philadelphia and relocating to
Los Angeles
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in the fall of that year.
Career
Stoya began posing for adult pictures for a friend,
which eventually led her to modelling and working for
alt-erotic websites. She chose her
stage name
A stage name or professional name is a pseudonym used by performers, authors, and entertainers—such as actors, comedians, singers, and musicians. The equivalent concept among writers is called a ''nom de plume'' (pen name). Some performers ...
based on a shortened version of her grandmother's Serbian maiden name
and trademarked the name in 2009.
Stoya was featured in two DVD productions for Razordolls, and she made a non-sex,
cameo appearance
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in two
Vivid Alt titles
before being contacted by
Digital Playground with a proposition to perform in a
hardcore lesbian scene with Sophia Santi. The scene in question never happened, but, in August 2007, she met with several Digital Playground representatives and was asked if she would star in a
pornographic movie with male talent. After careful consideration, Stoya agreed.
In October 2007, Digital Playground signed her to an exclusive, three-year contract. Stoya is regarded as the company's first
alt porn
Alternative porn (also known as alt porn, alternaporn, or simply alt in context), a shortening of " alternative pornography," is a subgenre of pornography that is centered around alternative subcultures, such as goths, emos, scenes, skaters, ...
contract girl.
The first scene that she shot for them was for ''Stoya Video Nasty'' (promoted on the DVD box as the first film featuring her engaging in heterosexual intercourse), but her first movie released by the company was ''Jack's POV 9''.
In 2012, Stoya was named by
CNBC
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as one of the 12 most popular pornographic film actresses.
Even though Stoya was under exclusive contract with Digital Playground,
Evil Angel director
John Stagliano received "special permission" in 2013 to cast her in the sequel for the adult film series ''Voracious''. As of 2014, she left Digital Playground and focused her career on directing. She financed and directed her first film in February 2014. On March 4, 2014, Stoya and
Kayden Kross created the pay-per-scene pornographic website TRENCHCOATx. In addition to running the site, Stoya performed in and also directed some of the films.
In 2018, Stoya launched the website zerospaces.com with her business partner, comedian Mitcz Marzoni.
Acting

In 2009, Stoya appeared in her first non-erotic film project as Kamikazi Shegun 5000 in the award-winning
48 Hour Film Project
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short film "The Kingpin of Pain".
Stoya appears as a main cast member in the 2016 lesbian fantasy series ''
Dagger Kiss''.
In February 2018, Stoya starred in the Serbian sci-fi film ''
A.I. Rising'' (also known as ''Ederlezi Rising'') in the role of the
android, Nimani, on a space mission with a
cosmonaut
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played by Slovenian actor
Sebastian Cavazza. The two become romantically entwined when the cosmonaut starts to believe there might be something human inside his android companion.
Stoya has acted in two of
Dean Haspiel
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Off Broadway
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stage plays: ''Harakiri Kane (Die! Die, Again!)'' (2017)
and ''The Last Bar at the End of the World'' (2018).
Writings
Stoya has written
sex advice columns for ''
Slate
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'', ''
Vice
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'', ''
The Verge
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'', and ''
Refinery29
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History
Justin Stefano, Philippe von Borries, Piera Gelardi, and Christene Barberich co-founded Ref ...
''. For her ''Slate'' column, "How To Do It", she uses the byline Jessica Stoya. She has published pieces in ''
The New York Times
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'',
''
New Statesman
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'', ''
Esquire
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'', and ''
The Guardian
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'', as well as an article in ''
Porn Studies,'' a peer-reviewed academic journal. She published her first book in 2018, entitled ''Philosophy, Pussycats, and Porn,'' a collection of personal and critical essays.
Personal life
Stoya has acknowledged the importance of
social networking
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in her career;
she was active on
MySpace
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,
Twitter
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,
Tumblr
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, and various Internet forums.
In June 2009, she was reported to be dating
Marilyn Manson
Brian Hugh Warner (born January 5, 1969), known professionally as Marilyn Manson, is an American rock musician. He is the lead singer and the only original member remaining of the Marilyn Manson (band), same-titled band he founded in 1989. Th ...
,
but they later broke up due to Manson's touring schedule. Afterwards, she dated pornographic actor
James Deen
Bryan Matthew Sevilla (born February 7, 1986), known professionally by the stage name James Deen, is an American pornographic actor and film director, director.
Deen entered the porn industry in 2004 at the age of 18. He gained attention due ...
for several years.
On November 29, 2015, Stoya wrote on Twitter that Deen had raped her: Deen denied the allegations, calling them "false," "egregious," and "defamatory." Following Stoya's statement, eight other women went public with assault allegations against Deen. San Francisco-based Internet pornography studio
Kink dropped Deen, and the website ''
The Frisky'' terminated his column.
Stoya moved to
Belgrade
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, Serbia.
Publications
* 2015: "Noooooooodie Girl" (pp. 284–286) in ''Coming out like a porn star : essays on pornography, protection, and privacy'' compiled by
Jiz Lee. ThreeL Media. .
* 2018: Philosophy, Pussycats, & Porn. Not A Cult.
Awards
* 2008
Eroticline Award – Best U.S. Newcomer
* 2009
AVN Award
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– Best New Starlet
* 2009 AVN Award – Best All-Girl Group Sex Scene – ''Cheerleaders''
[
* 2009 ]XBIZ Award
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– New Starlet of the Year
* 2009 XRCO Award – New Starlet
* 2012 AVN Award – Hottest Sex Scene (Fan Award) – ''Babysitters 2''
* 2014 XBIZ Award – Best Scene - Feature Movie – ''Code of Honor''
* 2018 FEST Beograd – Best Actress – ''Ederlezi Rising''
* 2019 XBIZ Award – Best Actress - All-Girl Release – ''Talk Derby to Me''[XBIZ Award Winners](_blank)
'' XBIZ'', January, 2019
Notes and references
External links
Official blog
*
*
*
"From Barbie Doll to Razordoll: The Sexual Shift in Porn"
by Lauren Mayberry, '' The Skinny'', July 30, 2009.
*
Podcast Interview at Adult DVD Talk
Stoya interview (05:12)
re ''" A.I. Rising"''
(1:21)
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Living people
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