( he, פִּילֶגֶשׁ) is a
Hebrew
Hebrew (; ; ) is a Northwest Semitic language of the Afroasiatic language family. Historically, it is one of the spoken languages of the Israelites and their longest-surviving descendants, the Jews and Samaritans. It was largely preserved ...
term for a
concubine
Concubinage is an interpersonal and sexual relationship between a man and a woman in which the couple does not want, or cannot enter into a full marriage. Concubinage and marriage are often regarded as similar but mutually exclusive.
Concubi ...
, a marital companion of
social
Social organisms, including human(s), live collectively in interacting populations. This interaction is considered social whether they are aware of it or not, and whether the exchange is voluntary or not.
Etymology
The word "social" derives from ...
and
legal status inferior to that of a wife.
Among the
Israelites
The Israelites (; , , ) were a group of Semitic-speaking tribes in the ancient Near East who, during the Iron Age, inhabited a part of Canaan.
The earliest recorded evidence of a people by the name of Israel appears in the Merneptah Stele o ...
, men commonly acknowledged their concubines, and such women enjoyed the same rights in the house as legitimate wives.
Etymology
In Judaism, concubines are referred to by the Hebrew term ( he, פילגש). The term appears to be an Indo-European
loanword
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related to grc, παλλακίς , meaning '
concubine
Concubinage is an interpersonal and sexual relationship between a man and a woman in which the couple does not want, or cannot enter into a full marriage. Concubinage and marriage are often regarded as similar but mutually exclusive.
Concubi ...
'.
In the
Hebrew
Hebrew (; ; ) is a Northwest Semitic language of the Afroasiatic language family. Historically, it is one of the spoken languages of the Israelites and their longest-surviving descendants, the Jews and Samaritans. It was largely preserved ...
of the contemporary
State of Israel, is often used as the equivalent of the English word
''mistress''—i.e., the female partner in extramarital relations—regardless of legal recognition. Attempts have been initiated to popularise as a form of premarital, non-marital or extramarital relationship (which, according to the perspective of the enacting person(s), is permitted by
Jewish law).
There are many definitions for what a relationship is. In the Eastern world, fit into the complex family organization and the woman had more of a distinct legal and social position, whereas in the later Western world, was regarded as a long-term sex companionship between a man and a woman who could not or would not be married.
Biblical references
Several
biblical figures had concubines when they were not able to create natural children with their wives. The most famous example of this was with
Abraham
Abraham, ; ar, , , name=, group= (originally Abram) is the common Hebrews, Hebrew patriarch of the Abrahamic religions, including Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. In Judaism, he is the founding father of the Covenant (biblical), special ...
and
Sarah
Sarah (born Sarai) is a biblical matriarch and prophetess, a major figure in Abrahamic religions. While different Abrahamic faiths portray her differently, Judaism, Christianity, and Islam all depict her character similarly, as that of a pio ...
. Sarah gave her maidservant
Hagar to Abraham while maintaining ownership of both maidservant and offspring. Their union produced
Ishmael. Hagar gained the status of full wife in regards to Abraham, but nonetheless Sarah retained the status of main wife.
This type of is recorded in Jewish sources as being a singular case. All later cases of recognized the and guaranteed similar rights in the house as the legitimate wife.
Since having children in Judaism was considered a great blessing, legitimate wives often gave their maids to their husbands so they could have children with them when those women themselves were childless, as in the cases of
Leah
Leah ''La'ya;'' from (; ) appears in the Hebrew Bible as one of the two wives of the Biblical patriarch Jacob. Leah was Jacob's first wife, and the older sister of his second (and favored) wife Rachel. She is the mother of Jacob's first son ...
and
Zilpah and
Rachel and
Bilhah. The concubine commanded the same respect and inviolability as the wife, and it was regarded as the deepest dishonor for the man to whom she belonged if hands were laid upon her. Even in the exceptional case of Sarah and Hagar, Abraham would have been obligated to treat Hagar as a full wife and she would have been treated as an equal by Abraham. Sarah's rights would have been regarding the technical legal status of being considered the inheritor and since the other wife and offspring would have been hers by ownership she became the legal albeit not biological mother of Ishmael.
Legal characteristics
According to the
Babylonian Talmud
The Talmud (; he, , Talmūḏ) is the central text of Rabbinic Judaism and the primary source of Jewish religious law ('' halakha'') and Jewish theology. Until the advent of modernity, in nearly all Jewish communities, the Talmud was the cen ...
,
the difference between a and a full wife was that the latter received a
marriage contract () and her marriage (''
nissu'in'') was preceded by a formal betrothal (''
kiddushin''), which was not the case with the former. According to Rabbi Judah, however, the should also receive a marriage contract, but without including a clause specifying a divorce settlement.
According to
Rashi
Shlomo Yitzchaki ( he, רבי שלמה יצחקי; la, Salomon Isaacides; french: Salomon de Troyes, 22 February 1040 – 13 July 1105), today generally known by the acronym Rashi (see below), was a medieval French rabbi and author of a compr ...
, "wives with kiddushin and ketubbah, concubines with kiddushin but without ketubbah"; this reading is from the Jerusalem Talmud.
Certain rabbis, such as
Maimonides
Musa ibn Maimon (1138–1204), commonly known as Maimonides (); la, Moses Maimonides and also referred to by the acronym Rambam ( he, רמב״ם), was a Sephardic Jewish philosopher who became one of the most prolific and influential Torah ...
, believed that concubines are strictly reserved for kings, and thus that a commoner may not have a concubine; indeed, such thinkers argued that commoners may not engage in any type of
sexual relations outside of a marriage. Maimonides was not the first Jewish thinker to criticize concubinage; for example, it is severely condemned in
Leviticus Rabbah. Other rabbis, such as
Nachmanides,
Samuel ben Uri Shraga Phoebus, and
Jacob Emden, strongly object to the idea that concubines should be forbidden.
According to Rabbi
Mnachem Risikoff, the institution of is an alternative to formal marriage which does not have the same requirements for a ''
get'' upon the dissolution of the relationship.
[''Between Civil and Religious Law: The Plight of the Agunah in American Society'', Irving Breitowitz, Greenwood Press, 1993. By coincidence, Breitowitz's book was reviewed by Risikoff's grandson, Rabbi Steven Resnicoff, in ''Jewish Action'', Winter 1994, Vol. 55, No. 2.]
Any offspring created as a result of a union between a and a man were on equal legal footing with children of the man and his wife.
The leaders of the controversy are Maimonides and
Nahmanides. Maimonides believed should be prohibited legally while Nahmaides believed in permitting legally but discouraging ethically.
was a way for a man with many resources to care for women other than the wife, bring in another woman to help his wife with her duties, have offspring if his wife was infertile, and create companionship without legal ties.
See also
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References
External links
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* {{cite web , url= http://www.jpost.com/Home/Article.aspx?id=16328 , title= Kosher sex without marriage , publisher= Jpost , first= Mathew , last= Wagner , date= Mar 16, 2016
Jewish marital law
Concubinage
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