
A pick-up line or chat-up line is a
conversation opener with the intent of engaging a person for romance or
dating
Dating is a stage of Romance (love), romantic relationships in which individuals engage in activity together, often with the intention of evaluating each other's suitability as a partner in a future intimate relationship. It falls into the cate ...
. As overt and sometimes humorous displays of romantic interest, pick-up lines advertise the
wit of their speakers to their target listeners.
Pick-up lines range from straightforward conversation openers such as introducing oneself, providing information about oneself, or asking someone about their likes and common interests, to more elaborate attempts including
flattery
Flattery, also called adulation or blandishment, is the act of giving excessive compliments, generally for the purpose of Ingratiation, ingratiating oneself with the subject. It is also used in pick-up lines when attempting to initiate sexual or ...
or
humour
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.
Novices are advised to avoid standardised and hackneyed lines (particularly those resembling
country songs) and to put their opening in an interrogative form, if possible.
[J. Sidnell, Jack (2011). ''Conversation Analysis''. John Wiley & Sons. p. 14 ]
See also
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Flirting
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Limerence
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Seduction community
Pickup artists (PUA) are people whose goals are seduction and sexual selection, sexual success. Predominantly heterosexual men, they often self-identify as the seduction community or the pickup community. This community exists through various ch ...
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Romance (love)
Romance or romantic love is a feeling of love for, or a strong attraction towards another person, and the courtship behaviors undertaken by an individual to express those overall feelings and resultant emotions.
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Wit
References
Further reading
*Ovid, ''
The Art of Love'' (2 ad)
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Interpersonal relationships
Pickup artistry