It Gets Better is an Internet-based 501(c)3 nonprofit with a mission to uplift, empower, and connect lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) youth around the globe. It was founded in the
United States
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by gay activist, author, media pundit, and journalist
Dan Savage
Daniel Keenan Savage (born October 7, 1964) is an American author, media pundit, journalist, and LGBTQ community activist. He writes Savage Love, an internationally syndicated relationship and sex advice column. In 2010, Savage and his husband, ...
and his husband Terry Miller on September 21, 2010, in response to the
suicide
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Risk factors for suicide include mental disorders, physical disorders, and substance abuse. Some suicides are impulsive acts driven by stress (such as from financial or ac ...
s of teenagers who were
bullied because they were
gay or because their peers suspected that they were gay. Its goal is to prevent
suicide
Suicide is the act of intentionally causing one's own death.
Risk factors for suicide include mental disorders, physical disorders, and substance abuse. Some suicides are impulsive acts driven by stress (such as from financial or ac ...
by having gay adults convey the message that these teens' lives will improve.
The project includes more than 50,000 entries from people of all
sexual orientation
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s, including many celebrities;
[
*
*] the videos have received over 50 million views.
A
book of essays from the project was released in March 2011. The project was given the
Academy of Television Arts & Sciences
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Governor's Award at the
64th Primetime Creative Arts Emmy Awards for "strategically, creatively and powerfully utilizing the media to educate and inspire," according to the academy's chairman and
CEO
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CEOs find roles in variou ...
Bruce Rosenblum.
Project history
The It Gets Better Project was founded by Savage in response to the suicide of Billy Lucas and other teenagers who were bullied because they were
gay or perceived to be, such as with Raymond Chase,
Tyler Clementi,
Ryan Halligan, Asher Brown, and Seth Walsh. Reflecting on Lucas' suicide in his ''
Savage Love'' column, Savage wrote, "I wish I could have talked to this kid for five minutes. I wish I could have told Billy that ''it gets better''. I wish I could have told him that, however bad things were, however isolated and alone he was, ''it gets better''."
Former U.S. President
Barack Obama
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lent his voice to the project and its anti-bullying message during its infancy. On October 21, 2010, Obama contributed his own video saying in part, "We've got to dispel this myth that bullying is just a normal rite of passage; that it's just some inevitable part of growing up. It's not. We have an obligation to ensure that our schools are safe for all of our kids. And for every young person out there you need to know that if you're in trouble, there are caring adults who can help."
President Obama and First Lady
Michelle Obama
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would later host an anti-bullying conference in March 2011.
Google Chrome
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backed the project as well, promoting its YouTube channel and airing a video ad for the project on television; that ad's first appearance came during a May 3, 2011 episode of ''
Glee
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* Gle ...
''.
Today, It Gets Better is the world's largest storytelling effort to empower LGBTQ+ youth. Since 2022, It Gets Better has distributed more than $1 million to middle and high schools throughout the United States to fund projects that uplift and empower LGBTQ+ students. In 2023, It Gets Better was the first of several LGBTQ+ nonprofits to leave Twitter/X, citing a surge of hate speech and misinformation targeting queer and trans youth. In 2024, the organization dropped the Project from its name to reflect its "growth from a viral movement to a more comprehensive support system for queer youth." It is now known as It Gets Better.
Book and television
In March 2011,
E. P. Dutton
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Creator
Edward Payson Dutton (January 1, ...
published ''
It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living'', a book of essays edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller that reflect the same theme as the web video project. The book contains more than 100 essays, either transcribed or expanded from the videos or original writings. Contributors include
Jennifer Finney Boylan,
Gregory Maguire
Gregory Maguire (born June 9, 1954) is an American novelist. He is the author of ''Wicked (Maguire novel), Wicked'', ''Confessions of an Ugly Stepsister'', and several dozen other novels for adults and children. Many of Maguire's adult novels are ...
,
Meshell Ndegeocello,
Michael Cunningham,
Suze Orman
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, and
David Sedaris
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. The book made the
''New York Times'' Best Seller list.
Two 1-hour ''It Gets Better'' TV specials, which focused on the project's mission and conveyed messages of support, aired in 2012. Broadcast on
MTV
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and simulcast on LGBT-oriented sister network
Logo
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, the specials had premiere airings on February 21 and October 9, 2012.
See also
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It Gets Better Mexico
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List of suicides which have been attributed to bullying
References
Further reading
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External links
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Anti-bullying campaigns
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