''It's My Party'' is a 1996 American

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written and directed by

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. It was one of the first feature films to address the topic of

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patients dying with dignity. The film is based on the true events of the death of Harry Stein, accomplished architect and designer, who was actually director Kleiser's ex-lover. Stein's actual farewell party was held in 1992. The cast includes

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, Devon Gummersall,

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, Lou Liberatore, Nina Foch,

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as Nick Stark and

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as Brandon, Stark's estranged lover who returns to attend the party and say goodbye. Kleiser directed Newton-John in '' Grease'' almost 20 years earlier.

Plot

''It's My Party'' chronicles a two-day party hosted by Nick Stark, a gay

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who, having been diagnosed with

progressive multifocal leukoencephalopathy Progressive multifocal leukoencephalopathy (PML) is a rare and often fatal viral disease characterized by progressive damage (''-pathy'') or inflammation of the white matter (''leuko-'') of the brain (''-encephalo-'') at multiple locations (''mu ...

, will fall into a state of mental lapse lasting for months until his death. He decides to host a party for his family and friends, at the end of which he will commit

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by taking Seconal. "You won't leave me, will you?" Nick asks his estranged lover, Brandon Theis, a

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director, shortly after revealing to him the results of his last blood test for HIV. "I don't want to die alone." In spite of Brandon's protestations, the two soon find the love they had shared for many years in ruins. One year after their breakup, Nick is confronted with a ravaged immune system and a CT Scan and lab values which, along with his worsening forgetfulness, clinches the diagnosis of

Progressive multifocal leukoencephalopathy Progressive multifocal leukoencephalopathy (PML) is a rare and often fatal viral disease characterized by progressive damage (''-pathy'') or inflammation of the white matter (''leuko-'') of the brain (''-encephalo-'') at multiple locations (''mu ...

(PML) -- a condition he has seen claim his friends and one which he vows will not take him. Due to the aggressive nature of the disease, he has only a few days of conscious life remaining. His plan, he announces to family and "extended family," is to voluntarily end his life himself before the disease renders him unrecognizable to those he loves and he, in turn, is unable to recognize them. Uninvited to the farewell party, Brandon's presence is greeted with jeers from those who see him as having abandoned Nick in his time of greatest need.

Cast

as Nick Stark *

as Charlene Lee *

as Amalia Stark *

as Rodney Bingham *

as Lina Bingham * Devon Gummersall as Andrew Bingham *

as Paul Stark *

as Daphne Stark *

as Brandon Theis *

as Monty Tipton *

as Damian Knowles *

as Zack Phillips *

as Sara Hart * Lou Liberatore as Joel Ferris * Nina Foch as Mrs. Theis * Christopher Atkins as Jack Allen *

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as Douglas Reedy * Ron Glass as Dr. David Wahl * Paul Regina as Tony Zamara * Dimitra Arliss as Fanny Kondons * Joey Cramer (''uncredited'') as Party guest *

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(''uncredited'') as Party guest

Reception

Critical response

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, the film has an approval rating of 53% based on 15 reviews, with an average rating of 5.7/10.

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of the

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gave the film 3 out of 4 stars.

Box office

''It's My Party'' opened in 28 theaters on March 22, 1996 with $148,532. The film would eventually gross $622,503 domestically.

Home media

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with several special features was released in 2003. It contains deleted and extended scenes, featurettes on the making of the film and

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by the director and some of the actors.

References

External links

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