"He Wasn't Man Enough" is a song by American singer
Toni Braxton
Toni Michele Braxton (born October 7, 1966) is an American singer, songwriter, actress and television personality. She has sold over 70 million records worldwide and is one of the best-selling female artists in history. Braxton has won seven ...
. It was written by
Rodney "Darkchild" Jerkins,
Fred Jerkins III,
LaShawn Daniels, and
Harvey Mason, Jr. for her third studio album, ''
The Heat'' (2000), while production was helmed by the former. "He Wasn't Man Enough" is an uptempo R&B song that differs from Braxton's previous
ballads
A ballad is a form of verse, often a narrative set to music. Ballads were particularly characteristic of the popular poetry and song of Great Britain and Ireland from the Late Middle Ages until the 19th century. They were widely used across Eur ...
. The song was released by
LaFace Records
LaFace Records was an American record label based in Atlanta, Georgia, that operated as a unit of Sony Music Entertainment from 2008 to 2011 and was historically a part of Bertelsmann Music Group from 1989 to 2004. It was most active and achiev ...
on February 29, 2000, as the
lead single
A lead single (or first single) is the first single to be released from a studio album by an artist or a band, usually before the album itself is released and also occasionally on the same day of the album's release date.
A similar term, "debut ...
from the album.
The song received generally positive reviews from music critics, many of whom praised it as one of Braxton's best works.
"He Wasn't Man Enough" had international success and became one of Braxton's signature songs, peaking at number two on the
''Billboard'' Hot 100, where the single stood for several weeks, and number one on the
Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Singles & Tracks
The Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart ranks the most popular R&B and hip hop songs in the United States and is published weekly by '' Billboard''. Rankings are based on a measure of radio airplay, sales data, and streaming activity. The chart had 100 ...
chart for four weeks. As of 2024, this song is her last solo top 10 appearance on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100. An accompanying
music video
A music video is a video that integrates a song or an album with imagery that is produced for promotion (marketing), promotional or musical artistic purposes. Modern music videos are primarily made and used as a music marketing device intended to ...
was released for the single. The song earned Braxton her fourth
Grammy Award for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance
The Grammy Award for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance (previously called Best Rhythm and Blues Solo Vocal Performance, Female) was an honor presented at the Grammy Awards, a ceremony established in 1958 and originally called the Gramophone Award ...
and was nominated for
Best R&B Song in
2001
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. In 2022, Nigerian singer
Burna Boy
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sampled the song's instrumental introduction for his hit song "
Last Last
"Last Last" is a song by Nigerian singer Burna Boy. It was released through Atlantic Records on 13 May 2022 as the second single from his sixth studio album, '' Love, Damini''. The song samples American singer Toni Braxton
Toni Michele Br ...
".
Background and composition
"He Wasn't Man Enough" was released as the lead single from
Toni Braxton
Toni Michele Braxton (born October 7, 1966) is an American singer, songwriter, actress and television personality. She has sold over 70 million records worldwide and is one of the best-selling female artists in history. Braxton has won seven ...
's third studio album, ''
The Heat''. The song was written by
Rodney Jerkins
Rodney Roy Jerkins (born July 29, 1977), better known by his stage name Darkchild, is an American record producer, rapper, and songwriter. He has collaborated with a broad range of popular artists.
Jerkins has won two Grammy Awards from 19 nomi ...
,
Fred Jerkins III,
LaShawn Daniels, and
Harvey Mason, Jr., while it was produced by Jerkins. The song was recorded in the United States during the production of Braxton's third studio album, between January and February 2000. During its production, L.A. Reid said "It's very strong, and very personal to her".
All instruments on "He Wasn't Man Enough" are played by Jerkins and the background vocals are sung by Braxton, Nora Payne, Sharlotte Gibson, and Jerkins.
The song was recorded in a key signature of
E minor
E minor is a minor scale based on E, consisting of the pitches E, F, G, A, B, C, and D. Its key signature has one sharp, on the F. Its relative major is G major and its parallel major is E major.
The E natural minor scale is:
Change ...
.
Popmatters
''PopMatters'' is an international online magazine of cultural criticism that covers aspects of popular culture. ''PopMatters'' publishes reviews, interviews, and essays on cultural products and expressions in areas such as music, television, ...
praised Braxton, saying "the track seems to be an attempt to make some headway within the lucrative urban R&B market."
The song earned Braxton her sixth
Grammy Award for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance
The Grammy Award for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance (previously called Best Rhythm and Blues Solo Vocal Performance, Female) was an honor presented at the Grammy Awards, a ceremony established in 1958 and originally called the Gramophone Award ...
in
2001
The year's most prominent event was the September 11 attacks against the United States by al-Qaeda, which Casualties of the September 11 attacks, killed 2,977 people and instigated the global war on terror. The United States led a Participan ...
. According to ''
Billboard.com'', this song is her last Top 10 appearance on the
''Billboard'' Hot 100 to date.
Critical reception
"He Wasn't Man Enough" was widely acclaimed by contemporary music critics. Stephen Thomas Erlewine from
AllMusic
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highlighted the track along with "Gimme Some" as having a "skimmering beat".
David Browne from ''
Entertainment Weekly
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'' gave it a positive review, certificating it with a B rating. He said "From producer Rodney Jerkins' cushiony pulse to its premise (one woman warning another about her ex-beau), the amenable single "He Wasn't Man Enough" sounds mightily familiar. But it's still no "Scrubs", largely thanks to Braxton's husky, mumbly delivery." ''
NME
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'' gave it a positive review, saying that for the track, "Braxton can probably claim the best set of tonsils in soul-pop".. ''
Rolling Stone
''Rolling Stone'' is an American monthly magazine that focuses on music, politics, and popular culture. It was founded in San Francisco, California, in 1967 by Jann Wenner and the music critic Ralph J. Gleason.
The magazine was first known fo ...
'' ranked the song number 17 on its list of "The 100 Greatest R&B Songs of the 21st Century".
Chart performance
"He Wasn't Man Enough" peaked at number two on the
''Billboard'' Hot 100 the week of May 6, 2000, becoming Braxton's sixth and last top-10 single. The song spent 37 weeks on the chart. The song also peaked at number one on the
Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Singles & Tracks
The Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart ranks the most popular R&B and hip hop songs in the United States and is published weekly by '' Billboard''. Rankings are based on a measure of radio airplay, sales data, and streaming activity. The chart had 100 ...
chart for four weeks. The song debuted at number five on the
UK Singles Chart on its issue date of April 29, 2000. The song debuted at number six on the
Australian Singles Chart
The ARIA Charts are the main Australian record chart, music sales charts, issued weekly by the Australian Recording Industry Association. The charts are a record of the highest selling songs and albums in various genres in Australia. ARIA beca ...
and peaked at number five in that country. The song debuted at number 36 on the
New Zealand Singles Chart
The Official Aotearoa Music Charts, formerly the Official New Zealand Music Chart (), is the weekly New Zealand top 40 singles and albums charts, issued weekly by Recorded Music NZ (formerly Recording Industry Association of New Zealand). The M ...
and later rose to number five after seven weeks on the charts. The song received
platinum
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by the
Recording Industry Association of New Zealand
Recorded Music NZ (formerly the Recording Industry Association of New Zealand (RIANZ)) is a non-profit trade association of record producers, distributors and recording artists who sell recorded music in New Zealand. Membership of Recorded ...
(RIANZ), selling over 15,000 copies there. The song debuted at number 99 on the
French Singles Chart
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before falling out, then re-entering at number 74 on the charts and eventually peaked at number fifteen, becoming the biggest jump of the issue date of July 1, 2000. The song debuted at number 21 on the
Single Top 100
The Dutch Single Top 100 or Single Top 100 is a Dutch chart, based on official physical single sales, legal downloads and since July 2013 streaming and composed by Dutch Charts. It is one of the three official charts, the other two being the Du ...
, peaked at number five and stayed on the charts for seventeen weeks.
Music video
The music video, directed by
Bille Woodruff
Bille Woodruff is a director of film, television and music videos, noted for directing many videos for a number of R&B and hip-hop artists since the mid-1990s. These artists include Joe, for whom Woodruff has directed 9 music videos since 1994, ...
from February 25–26, 2000,
begins with Braxton as an animated
superhero
A superhero or superheroine is a fictional character who typically possesses ''superpowers'' or abilities beyond those of ordinary people, is frequently costumed concealing their identity, and fits the role of the hero, typically using their ...
who unzips her shirt to ward off villains. Next, she is shown dancing in a red cylinder-like hallway. The shot turns to a club where her ex (portrayed by Braxton's former husband Keri Lewis of R&B group
Mint Condition
Mint Condition is an American R&B band from St. Paul, Minnesota.
The band is focused on diverse genres such as jazz, hip hop, funk and dance. Mint Condition has also been nominated for one Grammy and three Soul Train Awards. The group is cr ...
) and his current wife (portrayed by
Robin Givens
Robin Givens (born November 27, 1964) is an American actress and director. Givens played Darlene Merriman in the ABC sitcom '' Head of the Class'' in 1986, and remained on the series for its five year duration. Her troubled marriage to boxer ...
) walk in. Givens looks Braxton up and down and flashes her
wedding ring
A wedding ring or wedding band is a finger ring that indicates that its wearer is married. It is usually forged from metal, traditionally gold or another precious metal. Rings were used in ancient Rome during marriage.
In western culture, a ...
at her. Braxton scoffs as she knows of his infidelity.
The video flashes between Braxton dancing in the hallway and the club scene. At one point, the two women are in the club's bathroom, and Braxton informs the new wife why she dumped her husband. They set up an act, wherein Braxton goes into a private room with him and gets him to drop his pants; all the while he is on camera, and everyone at the club, including his current wife, is watching. At the end, Givens busts in and throws the ring at him, and the two women give each other a high five.
The video also features cameo appearances by
Rodney Chester and Braxton's sister
Tamar. Originally cast to play the husband, actor
Michael Jai White ended up dropping out before the video shoot because Givens allegedly took issue with White resembling her former husband
Mike Tyson
Michael Gerard Tyson (born June 30, 1966) is an American former professional boxer who competed between 1985 and 2024. Nicknamed "Iron Mike" and "Kid Dynamite" in his early career, and later known as "the Baddest Man on the Planet", Tyson i ...
, whom White played in the HBO film ''
Tyson'' five years earlier.
He would appear in the video for Braxton's "
Hands Tied" a decade later.
Track listings
US CD and cassette single
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (album version) – 4:21
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (instrumental) – 4:19
US and Japanese DVD single
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (video)
# "
Un-Break My Heart
"Un-Break My Heart" is a song by American singer Toni Braxton for her second studio album, '' Secrets'' (1996). The song was written by Diane Warren and produced by David Foster. It was released as the second single from the album on October 7, ...
" (video)
# Special feature: Interview with Toni
European CD single
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (radio edit) – 3:58
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (extended version) – 5:35
UK and Australian CD single
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (radio edit) – 3:58
# "
You're Makin' Me High" (classic edit) – 3:45
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (extended version) – 5:35
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (video version) – 4:38
UK cassette single
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (radio edit) – 3:58
# "You're Makin' Me High" (classic edit) – 3:45
# "He Wasn't Man Enough" (extended version) – 5:35
Credits and personnel
Credits are lifted from ''
The Heat'' album booklet.
Studios
* Recorded at
Larrabee North (
Universal City, California
Universal City is an unincorporated area within the San Fernando Valley.
Approximately within and immediately outside the area is the property of Universal Pictures NBCUniversal's film studio, one of the five major film studios in the United ...
)
* Mixed at Enterprise Studios (
North Hollywood
North Hollywood is a neighborhood and district in the San Fernando Valley of Los Angeles, California. The neighborhood contains the NoHo Arts District, El Portal Theater, several art galleries, and the Academy of Television Arts & Sciences. Th ...
, California)
* Mastered at Powers House of Sound (New York City)
Personnel
* Rodney Jerkins – writing, background vocals, all instruments, production, arrangement, mixing
* Fred Jerkins III – writing, arrangement
* LaShawn Daniels – writing, vocal production, arrangement
* Harvey Mason, Jr. – writing, recording,
Pro Tools
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* Toni Braxton – vocals, background vocals
*
Nora Payne
Nora Payne is an American singer-songwriter and background vocalist best known for her work with producer Rodney "Darkchild" Jerkins. Payne has written for Michael Jackson, Will Smith, Jennifer Lopez, and Brandy, among others.
In October 2017 ...
– background vocals
* Sharlotte Gibson – background vocals
* Steve Baughman – recording assistant
* Dexter Simmons – mixing
* Tyson Leeper – mixing assistant
* Roger Lopez – mixing assistant
* Herb Powers – mastering
Charts
Weekly charts
Year-end charts
Certifications and sales
Release history
References
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2000 songs
2000 singles
Arista Records singles
Bertelsmann Music Group singles
Canadian Singles Chart number-one singles
LaFace Records singles
Music videos directed by Bille Woodruff
Number-one singles in Poland
Song recordings produced by Rodney Jerkins
Songs written by Fred Jerkins III
Songs written by Harvey Mason Jr.
Songs written by LaShawn Daniels
Songs written by Rodney Jerkins
Toni Braxton songs