A groom's cake is a

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tradition that originated in

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, but is more frequently observed in the

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. While a

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may often be light in texture or color and decorated in white, the

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‘s cake can take a variety of forms. Many incorporate

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sometimes serves as a groom's cake. The groom's cake is often served at a separate table from the wedding cake at a

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or wedding breakfast, and may also be served as a

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at the rehearsal dinner.

History

The tradition of the groom's cake began in

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. The groom's cake was often richer than the bride's, since stronger flavors such as chocolate, fruitcake, and alcohol were considered more masculine. Groom's cakes during the Victorian era were heavy, dense

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s. A characteristic recipe for the groom's fruit cake was published in ''The British Baker'' in 1897. Eventually, flour cakes, either white or chocolate, supplanted fruit cakes as the most popular choice. Groom’s cake is a tradition most popular in the

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. It was brought over from Britain by

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. The Southern groom's cake was traditionally a dark-liquor soaked fruitcake, especially in

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. The white-iced bride's cake was considered too light for masculinity. Chocolate groom's cakes became popular in the late 19th century, but they can be any flavor, such as carrot cake,

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, etc. Groom's cakes are usually served at the

as a second flavor choice to the guests, but are often served at the rehearsal dinner in some regions. Groom's cakes are often decorated to reflect the groom's hobbies or interests, such as

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, and other sports. The 1989 movie ''

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'' features a famous scene with a red velvet groom's cake shaped as a giant

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. Another tradition was to cut a piece of the cake and put it in a small box, then present the box to an unmarried woman attending the wedding. The woman was not expected to eat the cake, but rather to put it under her pillow. Superstition held that this tradition would help an unmarried woman find a husband.

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