
Courtesy (from the word , from the 12th century) is
gentle politeness
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and
courtly manners. In the
Middle Ages
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in Europe, the behaviour expected of the nobility was compiled in
courtesy book A courtesy book (also book of manners) was a didactic manual of knowledge for courtiers to handle matters of etiquette, socially acceptable behaviour, and personal morals, with an especial emphasis upon life in a royal court; the genre of courtesy ...
s.
History
The apex of European courtly culture was reached in the
Late Middle Ages
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and the
Baroque period (i.e. roughly the four centuries spanning 1300–1700).
The oldest courtesy books date to the 13th century, but they become an influential genre in the 16th, with the most influential of them being ''
Il Cortegiano'' (1508), which not only covered basic
etiquette
Etiquette ( /ˈɛtikɛt, -kɪt/) can be defined as a set of norms of personal behavior in polite society, usually occurring in the form of an ethical code of the expected and accepted social behaviors that accord with the conventions and ...
and
decorum but also provided models of sophisticated
conversation
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and
intellectual
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skill.
The royal courts of Europe persisted well into the 18th century (and to some limited extent to the present day), but in the 18th century, the notion of ''courtesy'' was replaced by that of ''
gallantry'', referring to an ideal emphasizing the display of affected sensitivity in direct contrast with the ideals of self-denial and dignified seriousness that were the Baroque norm. During the late medieval and early modern period, the bourgeois class tended to emulate the courtly etiquette of their betters. This changed in the 19th century, after the end of the
Napoleonic Wars
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, with the emergence of a
middle class
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with its own set of
bourgeois
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etiquette, which in turn was mocked in the classist theory of
Marxism
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as ''
petite bourgeoisie
''Petite bourgeoisie'' (, ; also anglicised as petty bourgeoisie) is a term that refers to a social class composed of small business owners, shopkeepers, small-scale merchants, semi- autonomous peasants, and artisans. They are named as s ...
''.
The analogue concept in the court culture of
medieval India
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was known by the
Sanskrit
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term , literally meaning "right-handedness", but as in English ''dexterity'' having a figurative meaning of "apt, clever, appropriate", glossed as "
kindness
Kindness is a type of behavior marked by acts of generosity, consideration, or concern for others, without expecting praise or reward in return. It is a subject of interest in philosophy, religion, and psychology.
It can be directed towards o ...
and consideration expressed in a
sophisticated and
elegant way".
See also
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Military courtesy
References
External links
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