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Bethenny Frankel, also known as Bethenny Parisella, (born November 4, 1970) is an American entrepreneur, television personality, philanthropist, and author. She was the runner-up on the
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reality competition series '' The Apprentice: Martha Stewart'' in 2005, and increased her profile on the
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reality television series ''
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'' (2008–2010, 2015–2019). She propelled her fame from the series and founded Skinnygirl, a lifestyle brand. Frankel's spin-off series ''
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'' aired three seasons from 2010–2012, and ''
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'' aired one season in 2018. She also headlined the
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daytime talk show '' Bethenny'' (2013–2014) and the
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reality competition series ''
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'' (2021). She also founded BStrong, a philanthropic organization that has provided disaster relief; written four self-help books; hosted two
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; and a
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.


Early life

Frankel is the only child of Robert J. Frankel, a horse trainer, and Bernadette Birk, an interior designer and college professor. Her father was
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, whereas her mother was of Welsh descent who converted to Judaism. Bethenny was raised
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, and completed all of her sacraments including communion and confirmation. Video Interview on BravoTV: "After Show: All About Baby – Part V: Bethenny talks about her religious background and the most important thing Baby Bryn has taught her"
Retrieved July 4, 2012 "My father was Jewish. The story goes – because you know I am not that close to my family, I am not there for the real history lessons – He married my mother and she converted to Judaism for him. She was Catholic but then she was with my stepfather for all those years. I went to Catholic school and I know more about that.",
Her parents divorced when Frankel was four years old. When she was five, her mother married horse trainer John Parisella. Frankel describes her childhood as difficult. Frankel says her mother "was always drinking" and often argued violently with her stepfather. Frankel originally grew up in
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but moved many times and attended multiple schools before attending boarding school. She went to St. Agnes Cathedral School in
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and Holy Child Academy in
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but graduated in 1988 from
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in
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. She attended
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for two years, and graduated with a degree in psychology and communications from
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. She later attended the Natural Gourmet Institute in New York City.


Career


Early career and television

In 1992, Frankel moved to
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with hopes of being an actress. While she landed some small acting roles, she worked as an assistant to Kathy Hilton, sometimes taking her daughters Paris and Nikki out for ice cream or picking them up from school. She was also a personal assistant to
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and Linda Bruckheimer. During this time, Frankel also worked as a production assistant on the set of ''
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''. Frankel used these connections to start her first company, called "In Any Event", a party-planning business, which was short-lived. Her next entrepreneurial enterprise was Princess Pashmina, a business selling
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scarves she bought wholesale from an Indian manufacturer. In 2003, Frankel started BethennyBakes, a baking business that made egg-free, wheat-free and dairy-free cookies and meal delivery in New York City. It was featured on '' The Apprentice: Martha Stewart'', a reality competition series, in 2005, in which Frankel was the first runner-up to the competition winner. BethennyBakes closed in 2006. Frankel became a spokesperson for Pepperidge Farms low-calorie line of bread. In 2008, Frankel began starring in the reality television series ''
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'', which premiered in March on
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. In June 2010, Frankel appeared in the Bravo reality series '' Bethenny Getting Married?'' (later retitled ''Bethenny Ever After''), which documented her engagement and marriage to Jason Hoppy as well as the birth of their daughter. The series premiere was Bravo's highest-rated at the time, garnering 2.1 million viewers. In September 2010, Frankel announced her exit from ''The Real Housewives of New York City'' following its third season. In November, she competed in the reality competition series '' Skating with the Stars'' and finished in second place. Frankel taped the pilot of a talk show, '' Bethenny,'' in June 2011. The syndicated daytime talk show was created and co-produced by Ellen DeGeneres. It had a test run in 2012 in limited markets, and officially premiered in September 2013. It was canceled in February 2014 after one season, although episodes continued to run because 170 had been taped. Frankel rejoined ''The Real Housewives of New York City'' for its seventh season, which premiered in April 2015. In March 2019, ''
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'' reported Frankel had signed a deal with
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and its chairman,
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, to produce and star in future unscripted television projects. Frankel starred in the
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reality competition series titled ''
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'', which she also produced alongside Burnett. The series featured "aspiring business moguls compete for a job on Frankel's executive team." The show underperformed, and in June 2021, Frankel announced she no longer had a deal with MGM Television. In August of the same year, she announced her departure from ''The Real Housewives of New York City''. In 2022, the ''
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'' named Frankel one of "The Top 10 Jewish Reality TV Stars of All Time".


Skinnygirl

In March 2009, Frankel's book, ''Naturally Thin: Unleash Your SkinnyGirl and Free Yourself from a Lifetime of Dieting,'' was published. ''The SkinnyGirl Dish: Easy Recipes for Your Naturally Thin Life,'' was published in December of the same year. In spring 2010, she released an exercise DVD, ''Body by Bethenny,'' and an audiobook, ''The Skinnygirl Rules,'' which summarized her two prior books. In 2011, Frankel published ''A Place of Yes: 10 Rules for Getting Everything You Want Out of Life.'' In December 2012, she published a novel, ''Skinnydipping''. Frankel created a pre-packaged margarita line named Skinnygirl Margarita in 2009. This was the foundation product for Skinnygirl Cocktails. The cocktail line was sold to
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for a reported $120 million in 2011, but Frankel kept the Skinnygirl brand name to sell a variety of foods including dips, shakes, candy, deli meat, sweeteners, jellies, popcorn, and salad dressings. She sells Skinnygirl shapewear, apparel, and accessories on the
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. Frankel developed a Skinnygirl cookware line sold at TJMaxx and
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stores, which premiered in 2021.


Philanthropy and activism

In one of her earliest activities in philanthropy, Frankel posed nude for a
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billboard in September 2009 for its "I'd rather go naked than wear fur" campaign, which used celebrities and other personalities. Frankel is the founder of BStrong, a philanthropic arm originally formed to assist women, which has increasingly participated in disaster relief around the world. In 2017, the organization raised $300,000 in donations and supplies for the victims of
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, after which Frankel visited
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, Texas to distribute these items. In the same year, Frankel traveled to
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and
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, Mexico following the Puebla earthquake to raise awareness for the disaster's recovery efforts, for which BStrong also raised $150,000. Also in the same year, Frankel chartered four planes to
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and distributed medical supplies, food, water, and hygiene products in assisting with
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relief efforts. In light of the
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, BStrong raised funds and delivered
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such as masks, goggles, gowns, and sheets to hospitals in the U.S. During the
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, she supported
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with humanitarian aid. In the wake of the 2023
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and WGA strikes, Frankel called for
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personalities to go on strike and to
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. She stated that reality television personalities are subject to exploitation and intense scrutiny and deserve increased protection and
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. Frankel's proposals for a union would call for reality television personalities to earn residual-like payments, a minimum wage of $5,000 per episodic appearance with a raise for each season, retrospective compensation, and the freedom to quit filming at any time without risking financial penalty. Frankel has enlisted attorneys Bryan Freedman and
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to investigate the problematic treatment of reality television personalities.


Personal life

In a November 2022 episode of her podcast, ''Just B with Bethenny Frankel'', Frankel described her religious identity thus: "I grew up with a stepfather who was Catholic, so I also went to church. I've had a sort of mutt upbringing of religion and thus ended up not being religious at all but being spiritual and cultural. So culturally, many people would think that I am Jewish. I have a last name that's Jewish. I have family that's Jewish. I ''am'' Jewish." During that same podcast, she criticized musical artist
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for
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comments he had recently made. Frankel was married to entertainment executive Peter Sussman from 1996 to 1997. In March 2010, she married pharmaceutical sales executive Jason Hoppy. They have one daughter. After the couple separated in December 2012, Frankel filed for divorce in January 2013. A temporary custody agreement was reached in June 2014, followed by a financial settlement in July 2016. However, due to ongoing litigation over child custody, Frankel and Hoppy's divorce was not finalized until January 2021. Frankel dated banker Dennis Shields from 2016 to August 2018, when Shields was found dead of an apparent accidental overdose of pain medication after back surgery. Although Shields proposed to Frankel in April 2018 and she wore his engagement ring, the relationship was off-again, on-again for its duration. She met film producer and commercial real estate developer Paul Bernon on a dating app in 2018 and they were engaged in 2021, but Frankel said she ended the relationship after nearly six years because she was not happy. Frankel has a severe
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and was hospitalized in December 2018 after consuming soup that contained fish. She has since advocated airlines stop serving fish, stating that it is a hazard to passengers with fish allergies to be in the presence of cooked seafood in an enclosed commercial airline jet.


Filmography


As herself


As actress


Bibliography

* ''Naturally Thin: Unleash Your SkinnyGirl and Free Yourself from a Lifetime of Dieting'' (, 2009) * ''The Skinnygirl Dish: Easy Recipes for Your Naturally Thin Life'' (, 2009) * ''Body by Bethenny: Body-sculpting Workouts to Unleash Your SkinnyGirl'' (, 2010) * ''A Place of Yes: 10 Rules for Getting Everything You Want Out of Life'' (, 2011) * ''Skinnydipping: A Novel'' (, 2012) * ''Skinnygirl Solutions: Simple Ideas, Extraordinary Results'' (, 2014) * ''Cookie Meets Peanut'' (, 2014) * ''Skinnygirl Cocktails : 100 Fabulous and Flirty Cocktail Recipes and Party Foods for Any Occasion, Without the Guilt'' (, 2014) * ''I Suck at Relationships So You Don't Have To: 10 Rules for Not Screwing Up Your Happily Ever After'' (, 2016)


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