What I Cannot Change

"What I Cannot Change" is a song written by Darrell Brown, and co-written and recorded by American country artist LeAnn Rimes. The song was released to country radio in August 2008 as the third and final single from her ninth studio album, ''Family'' (2007). The song was later supported by a set of dance remixes, released in November 2008. When the song reached number one on the Dance Club Songs chart, Rimes became the first country artist to attain a number one single on both that chart and the Hot Country Songs chart.

"What I Cannot Change" was praised by critics for Rimes's restrained vocal performance, however the song failed to enter the country charts following its release. The single received a nomination for Best Female Country Vocal Performance at the 2009 Grammy Awards, her second consecutive nomination in the category.

The song inspired Rimes to release a book of the same name and launch a "What I Cannot Change" website where fans could share stories of moments where they came to terms with what they could or could not change in their life.

Content

"What I Cannot Change" is a ballad, revealing examination of love relationships and choosing acceptance instead of conflict. The song's chorus is a play on the first line of the Serenity Prayer. According to the digital sheet music published by Hal Leonard Music Publishing, the song was composed in the key of G major and set to a "slow" tempo of 72 BPM. Rimes's vocals in the song range from a low note of G to a high note of D.

Critical reception

Writing for ''Billboard'', Deborah Evans Price called the song a "gorgeous ballad" on which Rimes has never sounded "more emotionally riveting or vulnerable," resulting in her "finest performance ever."
''Country Universe'' also praised "What I Cannot Change," calling the ballad, "the finest single of LeAnn Rimes' career." Reviewer Kevin Coyne praised the singer's "nuance," using "all of the shades of her voice to communicate the complicated mess of emotions that she is feeling."
''The 9513'' also reviewed the single and praised Rimes's vocal performance, calling her vocals, "a tremendously sensitive vocal performance that is easily one of the most nuanced of Rimes’ career." In a review of ''Family'', Jonathan Keefe of ''Slant'' praised the "lovely" song as "the most subtle, understated performance of her career." Matt Bjorke of ''Roughstock'' ranked "What I Cannot Change" as the fourth-best country single of 2008 and expressed disappointment at the song's lack of chart success. "No song she's recorded has quite matched this single," writes Bjorke, calling it, "a mature single from a mature album by a mature artist."

Chart performance

"What I Cannot Change" failed to enter the ''Billboard'' Hot Country Songs chart after being released to radio in August 2008. A few months later, however, the song was given several electronic dance music remixes and debuted on the ''Billboard'' Hot Dance Club Play chart in late 2008. "What I Can't Change" reached #1 on the chart dated February 28, 2009. With this song, Rimes became the first country music artist to have topped both the ''Billboard'' country chart and the ''Billboard'' dance chart, surpassing Reba McEntire's previous record-best peak of two on the Dance Club Play chart with her cover of The Supremes' "You Keep Me Hangin' On".

Usage in media

The song was used in the 2010 release of the film, ''Like Dandelion Dust''.

Track listings

Remixes EP
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# What I Cannot Change [Jody Den Broeder Radio Mix] – 4:43
# What I Cannot Change [Scotty K Radio Mix] – 4:19
# What I Cannot Change [Bronleewe & Bose Radio Mix] – 4:01
# Good Friend And A Glass Of Wine [Wideboys Electro Radio Mix] – 3:33
# Good Friend And A Glass Of Wine oul Seekerz Radio Mix– 3:32
# Headphones lmighty Radio Mix– 3:37

Extended Mixes EP
# What I Cannot Change askade Extended Mix– 5:08
# What I Cannot Change ody den Broeder Extended Mix– 8:03
# What I Cannot Change cotty K Klub Mix– 8:12
# What I Cannot Change ronleewe & Bose Extended Mix– 6:25
# Good Friend And A Glass Of Wine ideboys Electro Mix– 5:49
# Good Friend And A Glass Of Wine oul Seekerz Extended Mix– 8:54
# Headphones lmighty Extended Mix– 8:01

What I Cannot Change Exclusive CD Released with the book of the same name by LeAnn Rimes and Darrell Brown
# What I Cannot Change – 4:34
# Spoken Words – 23:17

Promo CD single
# What I Cannot Change – 3:40

Charts

Weekly charts

Year end charts

Release history

References

{{LeAnn Rimes singles

2008 singles
LeAnn Rimes songs
Curb Records singles
Songs written by Darrell Brown (musician)
Songs written by LeAnn Rimes
2008 songs