The Friends of Distinction were an American

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founded by Harry Elston and Floyd Butler, best known for their late 1960s hits, "

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", "

Love or Let Me Be Lonely "Love or Let Me Be Lonely" is a pop song recorded by the soul group The Friends of Distinction and released as a single in early 1970. The song was a multi-format success, peaking in the top 10 of the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 at #6 on May 1, 1970 an ...

", and " Going in Circles".

Career

The Friends of Distinction formed in 1968 in Los Angeles with original members Floyd Butler (June 5, 1937 – April 29, 1990), Harry Elston (born November 4, 1938),

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(December 10, 1948 – May 2, 2014), and Barbara Jean Love (born July 24, 1941). Butler and Elston had worked together in The Hi-Fi's in the mid 1960s, often opening for

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. Other members of the Hi-Fi's were

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and Lamont McLemore, who would later co-found

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. The Friends of Distinction were discovered by

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player Jim Brown, who also discovered

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, and were signed to

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. The Friends' first major hit, "

", was an Elston-sung vocal

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of an

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, with

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written by Elston. Released in March 1969, this

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went Top 5 on both the pop and

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in the U.S., peaking at No. 3 on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 in June. The follow-up

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" Going in Circles" also charted highly, hitting No. 15 in November. When Love took time off during her pregnancy, Charlene Gibson replaced her, singing lead on the Friends' third hit, "

", which peaked at No. 6 on the Billboard Hot 100 on 2-9 May 1970. The Friends were prolific between 1969 and 1973, releasing six albums, with a seventh in 1976. They also released numerous

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, including " Check It Out" and a cover of

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's "

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". The group quit touring in 1976, and broke up soon afterward. Cleaves sang with Earth, Wind & Fire for a number of years. "Going in Circles" has been covered by Isaac Hayes,

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and Luther Vandross, and "Love or Let Me Be Lonely" by Paul Davis. In 1990, Elston and Butler planned to revive the Friends of Distinction, but Butler suffered a heart attack and died at the age of 52 on April 29 of that year. He had already

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songs for the group and one composition he co-wrote, "Check It Out", was a hit for the group

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. Elston formed a new quartet, also called The Friends of Distinction, and the group continues to give live performances.

died on May 2, 2014, from a stroke at the age of 65.

Discography

Studio albums

Compilation albums

*''Greatest Hits'' (1973, RCA Victor) *''Golden Classics'' (1989, Collectables) *''Best of the Friends of Distinction'' (1996, RCA) *''Going in Circles'' (2005, RCA/Sony BMG)

Singles

References

External links

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