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"The Best of Me" is a song by American singer
Mýa Mya Marie Harrison (; born October 10, 1979), (stylized as Mýa), is an American singer, songwriter, dancer, and actress. Born into a musical family, she studied ballet, jazz, and tap dance as a child. Initially, Mýa began her career as a VJ ...
. It served as Harrison's first single from her second studio album ''
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'' (2000) and featured
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rapper
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. The song was written and composed by the latter and Harrison along with
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,
Jimmy Cozier Jimmy Cozier (born February 6, 1977) is an American R&B singer and songwriter. He is best known for his hit single "She's All I Got" and for being one of the inaugural artists signed to Clive Davis' J Records label. Biography The son of Guyane ...
,
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and
Mashonda Tifrere Mashonda Karima Dean (born January 9, 1978) is an American R&B singer from Boston, Massachusetts. She appeared on several songs from hip hop artists in the 2000s. In 2004, she married record producer Swizz Beatz, and was once signed to his lab ...
. Lyrically, "The Best of Me," a street savvy anthem addresses a woman holding off being intimate or physical with a guy. The song received generally positive reviews from contemporary music critics. However, "The Best of Me" underperformed on ''
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''s US
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; peaking and spending two non-consecutive weeks at number fifty. It fared better on the component
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chart peaking within the top 20 at number fourteen. Internationally, the song peaked within the top 40 in
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, peaking at number twenty-six. The song was sent to radio stations on April 11, 2000 and the accompanying
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was serviced to video outlets a month prior on March 6, 2000. Her love interest was portrayed by
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's cousin.


Background and release

"The Best of Me" was composed by Mýa Harrison and
Swizz Beatz Kasseem Daoud Dean (born September 13, 1978), known professionally as Swizz Beatz, is an American record producer, rapper, disc jockey (DJ) and songwriter. Born and raised in New York City, Dean embarked on his musical career as a DJ. At the ag ...
, along with singers
Teron Beal Teron Beal is an American singer-songwriter born in Tyler, Texas.PlaygroundMusic: Teron Beal
,
Jimmy Cozier Jimmy Cozier (born February 6, 1977) is an American R&B singer and songwriter. He is best known for his hit single "She's All I Got" and for being one of the inaugural artists signed to Clive Davis' J Records label. Biography The son of Guyane ...
,
Mashonda Mashonda Karima Dean (born January 9, 1978) is an American R&B singer from Boston, Massachusetts. She appeared on several songs from hip hop artists in the 2000s. In 2004, she married record producer Swizz Beatz, and was once signed to his lab ...
, and rapper
Jadakiss Jason Terrance Phillips (born May 27, 1975), better known by his stage name Jadakiss, is an American rapper from Yonkers, New York. He began his career in the 1990s as a member of the rap trio The Lox, managed by Ruff Ryders and signed with Bad ...
, the latter of which is also featured vocally on the song. Originally expected to be recorded by rapper DMX in a
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recording session with Swizz, the
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of the song was left unused until the producer returned to
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to start work on Harrison's album at
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. Upon accidentally pushing a button in the studio, Harrison's management reportedly "jumped up and said 'That's it, that's it'." When recording "The Best of Me" producer Swizz Beatz admired Harrison's work ethic, commenting, she's as dedicated to mastering vocals as she is to dance. He noted, "She takes everything seriously when it comes to the music citing "she's a perfectionist." However, Harrison clarified, "I'm not a perfectionist but I like to improve." An eleventh hour addition, the record was among the last tracks that were recorded for the ''
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'' album. Jadakiss, then a member of the
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's group
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, came aboard as a result of label connections with
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. Speaking on the message of the
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track with "a lot of meanings," Harrison explained: " ttalks about thinking about consequences before you make a decision, especially decisions made when you're in a situation of the heat of the moment," she said, "when passion and infatuation and seduction and all these things are taking place, and you're actually liking it. However, as a female, things do happen to you that you must carry on after the fact, so you're trying to weigh the consequences and make a decision based on what you know, and you may not know much about this person. It's just about setting standards for yourself and what you want." Before "The Best of Me" was chosen as the lead single from ''Fear of Flying'', Harrison initially expected
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-influenced "Lie Detector" to be released as her next single.


Critical reception

Upon its release, "The Best of Me" received generally favorable reviews from contemporary music critics. While reviewing ''Fear of Flying'',
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's Jose F. Promis praised "The Best of Me" highlighting "The Best of Me" as arguably the best song on the album while noting it as "one of the better pop songs of 2000." ''
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'' magazine called "The Best of Me" a "dreamy
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tune." "The Best of Me" was featured on ''
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end of the year critics list.


Commercial performance

In the United States, The Best of Me made its debut at number eighty-five on ''Billboard'' Hot 100 issue dated week of April 15, 2000. It reached its peak at number fifty issue dated week of May 20, 2000. In total, the song spent 17 consecutive weeks on the chart. It was Harrison's first single to miss the coveted pop Top 40. The Best of Me performed better on
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chart debuting at number seventy issue dated week of April 1, 2000. It ascended from 70-40 in its second week issue dated week of April 8, 2000. The song continued to soar up the chart ascending from 40-27 issue dated week of April 15, 2000. It reached its peak at number fourteen issue dated week of May 20, 2000. It became Harrison's fourth consecutive Top 40 (solo) sixth overall hit on that chart. The Best of Me crossed-over onto international markets. In
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, it debuted and peaked at number seventy-five during the week of August 29, 2001. It debuted and peaked at number sixty-four during the week of July 23, 2000 on
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's Top 75 Singles chart. It spent a total of 8 consecutive weeks on that chart. It reached the Top 40 in
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; peaking at number twenty-six.


Music video

A music video for "The Best of Me" was directed by Chris Robinson. The clip starts with Mýa practicing a dance routine to an instrumental version of DMX's "Good Girls, Bad Guys" (1999) alongside two female dancers in a
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. Next to
Jadakiss Jason Terrance Phillips (born May 27, 1975), better known by his stage name Jadakiss, is an American rapper from Yonkers, New York. He began his career in the 1990s as a member of the rap trio The Lox, managed by Ruff Ryders and signed with Bad ...
,
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and
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from his group
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co-star, with actress LaNease Adams and entertainer
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also appearing in the clip, portraying Mýa's friends. The video was serviced to video outlets on March 6, 2000 before a commercial release date was determined. and premiered four days later on
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's countdown show ''
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''.


Legacy

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rapper Father recorded and released a
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of "The Best of Me."


Track listings

Notes * denotes remix producer


Credits and personnel

Credits lifted from the liner notes of ''Fear of Flying''. *
Teron Beal Teron Beal is an American singer-songwriter born in Tyler, Texas.PlaygroundMusic: Teron Beal
– additional vocal producer, writer *
Jimmy Cozier Jimmy Cozier (born February 6, 1977) is an American R&B singer and songwriter. He is best known for his hit single "She's All I Got" and for being one of the inaugural artists signed to Clive Davis' J Records label. Biography The son of Guyane ...
– additional vocal producer, writer *Kevin Crouse – recording engineer *
Swizz Beatz Kasseem Daoud Dean (born September 13, 1978), known professionally as Swizz Beatz, is an American record producer, rapper, disc jockey (DJ) and songwriter. Born and raised in New York City, Dean embarked on his musical career as a DJ. At the ag ...
– producer, writer * Mýa Harrison – vocals, writer *
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– mixing engineer * Jason "Jadakiss" Phillips – writer *
Mashonda Tifrere Mashonda Karima Dean (born January 9, 1978) is an American R&B singer from Boston, Massachusetts. She appeared on several songs from hip hop artists in the 2000s. In 2004, she married record producer Swizz Beatz, and was once signed to his lab ...
– writer *Kiran Wagner – recording engineer


Charts


Weekly charts


Year-end charts


Release history


References

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