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The term soccer mom broadly refers to an American,
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, suburban woman who spends a significant amount of her time transporting her school-age children to youth sporting events or other activities, whether or not they are
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related. It came into widespread use during the
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and over time has come to take on an unfavorable connotation.


History

The phrase "soccer mom" generally refers to a married, American, middle-class woman who lives in the suburbs and has school-age children. She is sometimes portrayed in the media as busy or overburdened and driving a
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or SUV. She is also described as putting the interests of her family, and most importantly her children, ahead of her own. The phrase derives from the literal, specific description of a mother who transports and watches her children play soccer. It was also used in names of organizations of mothers who raised money to support their children's soccer teams. The first reference to the term "soccer mom" in the United States national media has been traced to 1982. In that year, the husband of the treasurer of the "Soccer Moms booster club" of Ludlow, Massachusetts, stole $3,150 raised for the benefit of a local soccer league (). Indices of American magazines and newspapers show relatively little usage of the term until 1995, when, during an
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for
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, Susan B. Casey ran with the slogan: "A Soccer Mom for City Council." Casey, who held a Ph.D. and managed presidential election campaigns, used the slogan as a way of assuring voters they could trust her to be "just like them," denoting herself as " everyneighbor." The phrase addressed anxiety about women's achievements, and the stereotype that smart, accomplished women were not able to manage professional careers while showing love for their family. Casey won the election with 51 percent of the vote. The term came into widespread use around the time of the 1996 Republican National Convention. Its first use in a news article about that election appeared in the July 21, 1996 edition of ''
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''. E. J. Dionne, the article's author, quoted
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(at the time a senior
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to
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) as suggesting that
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was targeting a voting
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whom Castellanos called the "soccer mom". The soccer mom was described in the article as "the overburdened middle income working mother who ferries her kids from soccer practice to scouts to school." The article suggested that the term "soccer mom" was a creation of
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. Castellanos was later quoted in ''
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'' as saying: "She's the key swing consumer in the marketplace, and the key
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who will decide the election." Media interest in soccer moms picked up as the election approached. The number of articles on soccer moms in major newspapers increased from a combined total of 12 for the months of August and September to a total of 198 for October and November. The intense media focus stemmed in large part from the media's belief that soccer moms had become the most sought-after group of swing voters in the 1996 elections. In the end, suburban women favored Clinton by 53 to 39 percent, while suburban men voted for Dole. During the election, the soccer mom's most frequently mentioned attribute cited in major newspaper articles was that she was a mother or a woman who had children. The soccer mom's next most frequently mentioned characteristics were that "she lives in the suburbs (41.2% of the articles); is a swing voter (30.8%); is busy, harried, stressed out, or overburdened (28.4%); works outside the home (24.6%); drives a minivan, (usually a
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or sport utility vehicle (20.9%); is middle-class (17.1%); is married (13.7%); and is
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(13.3%)." Soccer moms received so much attention during the election that the
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voted ''soccer mom''
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for 1996. Columnist Ellen Goodman of ''
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'' called 1996 "the Year of the Soccer Mom." The Associated Press named soccer moms, along with the Macarena,
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, and " Rules Girls" as four phenomena that would be forever associated with the year 1996.


Criticism

Soccer moms have been accused of forcing their children to participate in too many after-school activities, overparenting them in
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rather than letting them enjoy their childhood. There have also been numerous unflattering stories about soccer moms going to extremes to help their children, such as
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at restaurants or arguing with the referee. In 2003, the car manufacturer
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, who had for several years courted the "soccer-mom" image, started marketing their
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minivan as "stylish, sexy and desirable".


Related terms


Security moms

During the 2004 presidential campaign, pundits started talking about the security mom, which was deemed to be a powerful
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. Security moms were supposed to be concerned primarily with issues such as the war in Iraq, domestic terrorism, and the security of their children. There is evidence, however, that security moms did not exist in great enough numbers to influence the 2004 election outcome. Democratic women tended to be most interested in
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, which Democratic front runner
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abandoned as a
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, and may explain Kerry's difficulty in garnering their support.


Hockey mom

Hockey mom is a term widely used in
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and
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(including
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), in which mothers often take their children to hockey rinks. The first article in ''The New York Times'' that used "hockey mom" as a demographic term was a 1999 review of the
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, a full-size
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. In the article, the truck is described as a "smooth and gutsy" vehicle that "ought to please everyone from hockey mom to cattle hauler". Former Alaska governor
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, the US Republican vice-presidential candidate in 2008, described herself as a "hockey mom" as far back as her 2006 gubernatorial race. In her speech at the 2008 Republican National Convention and in stump speeches following the convention, she joked that the only difference between a hockey mom and a pit bull was lipstick, suggesting that hockey moms are tough. "Hockey partisans" on the Internet claim that hockey moms are "a bit more intense than their soccer counterparts, both in terms of the commitments they make to the sport and the intensity with which they cheer their kids."


See also

* Karen (slang) *
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* '' Angry white man'' *
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* Helicopter parent * '' Kyoiku mama'' * '' Mama grizzly'' * ''
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'' * Stage mother * Tiger mom * ''
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'' * ''
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''


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External links

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"Soccer Mom," Photographs by Dona Schwartz
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