Ruth Sylvia Roche, Baroness Fermoy, (''née'' Gill; 2 October 1908 – 6 July 1993) was a friend and confidante of

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and the maternal grandmother of

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. She was one of the Queen Mother's

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Biography

Lady Fermoy was born Ruth Sylvia Gill at Dalhebity House,

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, the daughter of Colonel William Smith Gill and his wife, Ruth (''née'' Littlejohn, daughter of David Littlejohn, DL).Williamson, D ''The Ancestry of Lady Diana Spencer'' In: ''Genealogist’s Magazine'', 1981; vol. 20 (no. 6) pp. 192–199 and vol. 20 (no. 8) pp. 281–282 She showed early promise as a pianist and studied under

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at the

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in the 1920s.''The Times (London)'', Thursday, 8 July 1993; p. 4 col. D and p. 19 col. A Her musical career was cut short when she met the wealthy and much older

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. They married on 17 September 1931 at St. Devenick's Church in

. Lord and Lady Fermoy had three children, including

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, who would become the mother of

. Lady Fermoy did play the piano in public occasionally after her marriage, most notably with

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at the

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in 1950, and with Sir

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and the Hallé Orchestra at

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in 1966. She founded the King's Lynn Festival in 1951 and remained closely involved with the Festival for 25 years, persuading Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother to become its patron. She was appointed an

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(OBE) in January 1952 for her services as Chairman of the King's Lynn Arts Festival Society. In 1956, the Queen Mother appointed Lady Fermoy an Extra Woman of the Bedchamber. The Queen Mother, being a widow herself, showed a preference for appointing widows to her household, and four years later Lady Fermoy was promoted to Woman of the Bedchamber, a post she held for the next 33 years. She was appointed a

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in June 1966, and a

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in June 1979. Lady Fermoy was a firm believer in the sanctity of marriage. In 1969, her daughter Frances and John Spencer, Viscount Althorp, divorced after Frances left her husband for Peter Shand Kydd. Lady Fermoy testified against her daughter, which allowed Viscount Althorp to retain custody of their children. The Queen Mother and Lady Fermoy became confidantes, and it was assumed by many that the two women engineered the match between their grandchildren,

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and Lady Diana Spencer. However, when asked about it, Lady Fermoy remarked: "You can say that if you like – but it simply wouldn't be true". She was also said to have counselled her granddaughter against the marriage, saying: "Darling, you must understand that their sense of humour and their lifestyle are different, and I don't think it will suit you." Lady Fermoy died at her home at 36

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, on 6 July 1993, aged 84. It was reported that she was not on speaking terms with Diana when she died.

Ancestry

Lady Fermoy's great-grandmother, Kitty Forbes, was the daughter of Eliza Kewark. Eliza's father, Hakob Kevork or Kevorkian, was

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n; her Indian mother was probably

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. She is variously described in contemporary documents as "a dark-skinned native woman" and "an

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woman from Bombay".

Popular culture

Lady Fermoy is portrayed by

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in ''The Crown''.

References

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