Quickie (sex)
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A quickie is sexual intercourse that a couple may engage in when the time available is minimal. The quickie may arise from a spontaneous
sexual desire Sexual desire is an emotion and motivational state characterized by an interest in sexual objects or activities, or by a drive to seek out sexual objects or to engage in sexual activities. It is an aspect of sexuality, which varies significantly f ...
by the parties or be a regular or planned arrangement.


Description

Because of the limit on available time,
foreplay Foreplay is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between one or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity. Although foreplay is typically understood as physical sexual activity, nonphysical activiti ...
would generally be skipped; the woman may not have enough time to lubricate naturally. In a planned encounter, the partners may dress in a manner that reduces the time needed for undressing. For example, the woman may wear a wide skirt or a front closing dress and open crotch lingerie, thongs to be pushed aside or no underwear, especially
pantyhose Pantyhose, called sheer tights, or tights, are close-fitting legwear covering the wearer's body from the waist to the toes. Mostly considered to be a garment for women and girls, pantyhose first appeared on store shelves in 1959 for the advert ...
. The man may dispense with a jacket and belt. A quickie between a
heterosexual Heterosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior between people of the opposite sex or gender. As a sexual orientation, heterosexuality is "an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions" ...
couple may generally satisfy only the man's sexual desire. Quickies may solve unequal sexual desire in a relationship; however, if they become the only form of sex, with only the man getting sexual satisfaction, the relationship may suffer. Author and psychologist
Joel Block Joel D. Block (born 1943) is a psychologist and author on relationships and sexuality. Block is an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at Hofstra Northwell School of Medicine. He is also a senior psychologist at Northwell Health, where he ...
has suggested that the quickie is a necessary part of a relationship and suggests practical ways for both partners to enjoy the experience.


See also

* Fling


References

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