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The word ''lady'' is a term for a
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or woman, with various connotations. Once used to describe only women of a high social class or status, the equivalent of lord, now it may refer to any adult woman, as gentleman can be used for men. Informal use is sometimes euphemistic ("lady of the night" for Prostitution, prostitute) or, in Regional vocabularies of American English, American slang, condescending in direct address (equivalent to "mister" or "man"). "Lady" is also a formal British aristocracy, title in the United Kingdom. "Lady" is used before the family name of a woman with a title of nobility or honorary title ''suo jure'' (in her own right), or the wife of a lord, a baronet, Scottish Scottish feudal lordship, feudal baron, laird, or a knight, and also before the first name of the daughter of a duke, marquess, or earl.


Etymology

The word comes from Old English language, Old English '; the first part of the word is a mutated form of ', "loaf, bread", also seen in the corresponding ', "lord". The second part is usually taken to be from the root ''dig-'', "to knead", seen also in dough; the sense development from bread-kneader, or bread-maker, or bread-shaper, to the ordinary meaning, though not clearly to be traced historically, may be illustrated by that of "lord".


Usage

The primary meaning of "mistress of a household" is now mostly obsolete, save for the term "landlady" and in Phraseme, set phrases such as "the lady of the house". This meaning is retained in the Southern United States, southern states of the United States. In some contexts "lady" is synonymous with the old-fashioned word "gentlewoman", meaning someone of high social status by birth and upbringing, but not necessarily titled. The term is also used in titles such as First Lady, first lady and Lady Mayoress, lady mayoress, the wives of elected or appointed officials. In many European languages the equivalent term serves as a general form of address equivalent to the English ''Mrs'' (French language, French ', Spanish language, Spanish ', Italian language, Italian ', German language, German ', Polish language, Polish ', etc.). In those languages it is correct to address a woman whose name is unknown as ', ', etc., but in polite English usage "lady" has for centuries only normally been a term of address in the plural,Oxford English Dictionary which is also the case for "gentleman". The singular vocative use (i.e. to address someone directly) was once common but has become mostly confined to poetry. In List of dialects of English, some dialects it may still be used to address an unknown woman in a brusque manner, often in an imperative or interrogatory context, analogous to "mister" for an unknown male: e.g., "Hey, lady, you aren't allowed in here!" In this usage, the word "lady" is very seldom capitalized when written. The usual English term for politely addressing a woman is ''madam'' or its abbreviation ''ma'am''. In English, relatively few Gender marking in job titles, job titles are un-gendered. Some names for jobs are gender-neutral, e.g. mail carrier (postal worker), but where there is a common word with a -man suffix, sometimes -lady may be used as an equivalent, e.g. postman and (sometimes) postlady. Using "lady" in professional job titles which had previously been male preserves fell out of favour with second-wave feminism (lady doctor, lady engineer, lady judge), though lady doctor is sometimes used by a healthcare receptionist when booking an appointment at a group practice health centre so that the situation is clear to the patient. It is still used in some other occupations, to give dignity and express respect to less skilled work such as Tea lady, tea ladies in offices and hospitals, Lunch lady, lunch ladies (or dinner ladies) in school canteens, Cleaning lady, cleaning ladies in private homes and in business premises, and healthcare ladies for female Unlicensed assistive personnel, healthcare assistants. Both British and American commentators noted the shifting uses of "lady" in the mid-twentieth century. The American journalist William Allen White noted one of the difficulties in his 1946 autobiography. He relates that a woman who had paid a fine for prostitution came to his newspaper to protest, not against the fact that her conviction had been reported, but that the newspaper had referred to her as a "woman" rather than a "lady". After the incident, White assured his readers, his papers referred to human females as "women", with the exception of justice of the peace, police court characters, who were all "ladies". The British historian Nancy Mitford wrote an influential essay in 1954, "U and non-U English, U vs. non-U", in which she noted the Social class in the United Kingdom, class distinctions: Working class, lower class women strongly preferred to be called "ladies", while those from higher social backgrounds were content to be identified as "women". Commenting on the word in 1953, C.S. Lewis, C. S. Lewis wrote that "the guard at Holloway (HM Prison), Holloway said it was a ''ladies prison!" The term "a bag lady" (vagabond) is a euphemism for a woman who has fallen on hard times; a "lady of the night" is a polite term for a prostitution, prostitute. In British English, "lady" is often, but not always, simply a courteous synonym for "woman". Public toilets are often distinguished by signs showing simply "Ladies" or "Gentlemen". "Lady" can have a formal and respectful quality, being used to describe an elderly woman as "an old lady" or when speaking about a woman to a child (e.g. "Give the money to the lady.") It remains in use as a counterpart to "gentleman", in the plural phrase "wikt:ladies and gentlemen, ladies and gentlemen", and is generally interchangeable (in a strictly informal sense) with "woman" (as in, "The lady at the store said I could return this item within thirty days"). However, some women, since the rise of second-wave feminism, have objected to the term used in contexts such as the last example, arguing that the term sounds patronising and outdated when used in this way; a man in the same context would not necessarily be referred to as a "gentleman". One Feminist language reform, feminist proponent of language reform, Robin Lakoff, in her book ''Language and Woman's Place'' (1975), notably raised the issue of the ways in which "lady" is not used as the counterpart of "gentleman". It is suggested by academic Elizabeth Reid Boyd that feminist usage of the word "lady" has been Reappropriation, reclaimed in the 21st century.


British titles

Formally, "Lady" is the female counterpart to Social structure of the United Kingdom#Upper class, higher ranks in society, from gentlemen, through knights, to peers of the realm. During the Middle Ages, princesses or daughters of the Royal family, blood royal were usually known by their first names with "Lady" prefixed, e.g. ''The Lady Elizabeth''; since Old English and Middle English did not have a female equivalent to princes or earls or other royals or nobles. Aside from the queen, women of royal and noble status simply carried the title of "Lady". As a title of nobility, the uses of "lady" in Britain are parallel to those of "lord". It is thus a less formal alternative to the full title giving the specific rank, of marchioness (title), marchioness, countess, viscountess or baroness, whether as the title of the husband's rank by right or courtesy, or as the lady's title in her own right. A peeress's title is used with the definite article: Lord Morris's wife is "the Lady Morris". A widow's title derived from her husband becomes the dowager, e.g. ''The Dowager Lady Smith''. The title "Lady" is also used for a woman who is the wife of a Scottish Scottish feudal lordship, feudal baron or laird, the title "Lady" preceding the name of the barony or lairdship. In the case of younger sons of a duke or marquess, who have the courtesy title "Lord" prefixed to their given and family name, the wife is known by the husband's given and family name with "Lady" prefixed, e.g. ''Lady John Smith''. The daughters of dukes, marquesses and earls are by courtesy "ladies"; here, that title is prefixed to the given and family name of the lady, e.g. ''Lady Jane Smith'', and this is preserved if the lady marries a commoner, e.g. ''Mr John and Lady Jane Smith''. "Lady" is also the customary title of the wife of a baronet or knight, but in this case without Christian name: "Lady" with the surname of the husband only, ''Sir John and Lady Smith''. When a woman divorces a knight and he marries again, the new wife will be ''Lady Smith'' while the ex-wife becomes ''Jane, Lady Smith''. Female members of the Order of the Garter and Order of the Thistle also receive the prefix of "Lady"; here that title is prefixed to the given and family name of the lady, e.g. ''Lady Marion Fraser, LT'', with the post nominal LG or LT respectively, and this is preserved if the lady marries.


Other meanings

The special use of the word as a Titles of Mary, title of the Mary, mother of Jesus, Virgin Mary, usually ''Our Lady (disambiguation), Our Lady'', represents the Latin ''Domina Nostra''. In Lady Day and Lady Chapel, the word is properly a genitive case, genitive, representing ''hlǣfdigan'' "of the Lady". The word is also used as a title of the Wiccan Goddess, ''The Lady''. Margaret Thatcher was informally referred to in the same way by many of her political colleagues when Prime Minister of Great Britain. Her husband was later created a baronet, thus making her "Lady Thatcher" as of right. After she retired, she was given a barony as Baroness Thatcher, of Kesteven in the County of Lincolnshire, and was thereafter known as "The Lady Thatcher". Elsewhere in the Commonwealth of Nations, Commonwealth, the word is used in a similar fashion to aristocratic usage in Britain. In Ghana, for example, the consort of the Asantehene of the Ashanti people is known as Julia Osei Tutu, Lady Julia Osei Tutu. In Nigeria, the Yoruba people, Yoruba aristocrats Kofoworola Ademola, Kofoworola, Lady Ademola and Oyinkansola Abayomi, Oyinkansola, Lady Abayomi made use of the title due to their being the wives of British knights.


See also

* Girl * Dame, a title parallel to Sir


References

* ''Merriam Webster's Dictionary of English Usage'' (Merriam-Webster, 1989), . * Lakoff, Robin. ''Language and Woman's Place'' (New York, Harper & Row, 1975). . {{Authority control Titles Women's social titles Noble titles Women by social class English words Terms for women Gentry British noble titles Styles (forms of address)