"Family Affair" is a song by American singer

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. It was written by Blige, her brother Bruce Miller, Camara Kambon,

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, and producer

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for her fifth studio album, ''

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'' (2001). The single topped the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 for six weeks starting from November 3, 2001, becoming Blige's first and only Hot 100 number-one single as well as her first top-10 single in five years. It was the 12th-biggest song of the 2000s decade in the US and the 99th-biggest song of all-time in the country as of 2018. ''

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'' ranked it number 95 on their list of 100 Best Songs of the 2000s decade. Outside the United States, the song reached number one in France and the top 10 in 14 additional countries across Europe and Oceania, peaking at number two on the

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Background

Dr. Dre created an initial version of the musical portion of "Family Affair" in studio on September 13, 2000, using a bass player and a keyboard player. His studio engineers entitled this version of the song "Fragile" for record-keeping purposes. Near the end of 2000, he sent Blige the instrumental track. Blige recorded vocals over the music based on lyrics penned by Miller, Kambon and Elizondo. Several weeks later, on January 10, 2001, a near-final but non-lyrical portion of "Fragile" was transferred from digital to analog format and renamed "Family Affair". In late May or early June 2001, at Dr. Dre's suggestion, Blige added a bridge to the song, for which she alone crafted the lyrics. A remix featuring rappers

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and

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appears on the US CD single.

Composition

Family Affair is written in the key of

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with a moderate

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of 94 beats per minute. The song follows a chord progression Cm–Gm7–Cm–Gm7, and Blige's vocals span from G₃ to B₄.

Music video

The accompanying

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was directed by Dave Meyers. The video begins with Blige at a nightclub, wearing skin-revealing outfits. The video was filmed at the nightclub in 2001.

Live performances

On September 6, 2012, Blige performed the song at the last night of the

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. Ten years later, she also performed it in the

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Track listings

Credits and personnel

Credits are taken from the ''

'' album booklet. Studios * Recorded at

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, California) and Quad Recording Studios (Manhattan, New York) * Mixed at Record One (Sherman Oaks, California) * Mastered at

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(New York City) Personnel * Mary J. Blige – writing, all vocals * Bruce Miller – writing * Dr. Dre – writing (as Andre Young), production, mixing * Camara Kambon – writing, keyboards * Mike Elizondo – writing, bass * Mauricio "Veto" Iragorri – engineering * Chris Ribando – engineering * Tom Sweeney – assistant engineering * Kin Bengoa – assistant engineering * Larry Chatman – project coordination * Herb Powers – mastering

Charts

Weekly charts

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All-time charts

Certifications and sales

Release history

References

{{Authority control 2001 songs 2001 singles Mary J. Blige songs Songs written by Mary J. Blige Songs written by Mike Elizondo Songs written by Dr. Dre Song recordings produced by Dr. Dre MCA Records singles Music videos directed by Dave Meyers (director) American dance songs Billboard Hot 100 number-one singles SNEP Top Singles number-one singles