"Big Girls Don't Cry" is a song written by

Bob Crewe Robert Stanley Crewe (November 12, 1930 – September 11, 2014) was an American songwriter, dancer, singer, manager, and record producer. He was known for producing, and co-writing with Bob Gaudio, a string of Top 10 singles for the Four Seasons ...

and

Bob Gaudio Robert John Gaudio (born November 17, 1942) is an American singer, songwriter, musician, and record producer, and the keyboardist and backing vocalist of the pop/rock band the Four Seasons. Gaudio wrote or co-wrote and produced the vast majori ...

and originally recorded by the Four Seasons. It hit number one on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 on November 17, 1962, and, like its predecessor "

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", spent five weeks in the top position but never ranked in the ''Billboard'' year-end charts of 1962 or 1963. The song also made it to number one, for three weeks, on ''

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survey. It was also the quartet's second single to make it to number one on the US R&B charts.

Background

According to Gaudio, he was dozing off while watching the John Payne/

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'' when he heard Payne's character slap Fleming in the face. After the slap, Fleming's character replied, "Big girls don't cry." Gaudio wrote the line on a scrap of paper, fell asleep, and wrote the song the next morning. However, the line does not appear in that film. According to Bob Crewe, he was dozing off in his Manhattan home with the television on when he awoke to see Payne manhandling Fleming in '' Slightly Scarlet,'' a 1956 film noir based on a

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story. The line is heard in that film. Like "Sherry", the lead in "Big Girls Don't Cry" is sung mostly in

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. With this song, the Four Seasons became the first rock-era act to hit the number one spot on the Hot 100 with their first two chart entries (their first single, "Bermuda"/"Spanish Lace", did not appear on any ''

'' chart in 1961).

Personnel

Partial credits. ;The Four Seasons *

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– lead vocals, handclaps * Tommy DeVito – harmony and backing vocals, guitar, handclaps * Nick Massi – harmony and backing vocals, bass, handclaps *

– harmony and backing vocals, piano, handclaps ;Additional musician and production staff * Panama Francis – drums *

– producer *

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– engineer

Charts

Weekly charts

All-time charts

References

External links

Lyrics of this song
{{authority control 1962 songs 1962 singles Billboard Hot 100 number-one singles Cashbox number-one singles The Four Seasons (band) songs Songs written by Bob Crewe Songs written by Bob Gaudio Vee-Jay Records singles Song recordings produced by Bob Crewe