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's 1994 album, '' Wildflowers''. The track features candid lyrics describing the songwriter's desire for personal and professional autonomy.Greenwald, Matthew. You Don't Know How It Feels AllMusic. Retrieved on April 9, 2009. The single reached 1 on the US ''Billboard''

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chart, No. 3 on the Canadian ''

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'' 100 Hit Tracks chart, and No. 13 on the ''Billboard''

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, becoming Petty's last top-40 hit in the US. An alternate version was posthumously released on June 26, 2020. This version peaked at No. 54 on the

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chart.

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, and many radio stations aired a censored version of "You Don't Know How It Feels", taking the word "roll" out of "let's roll another joint", as well as a version that played the word "joint" backwards. A version replacing the word "roll" with "hit" was also made. The music video won the MTV Video Music Award for Best Male Video in 1995. The actress in the video is Raven Snow; she also appeared in several episodes of

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's '' Red Shoe Diaries'' and the film '' Delta of Venus'' as lounge singer Leila. At the 38th Annual Grammy Awards in 1996, the song won the Grammy for Best Male Rock Vocal Performance.https://www.grammy.com/artists/tom-petty/5380

"Girl on LSD"

Petty originally intended the

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of the single, "Girl on LSD", to appear on ''Wildflowers'', but

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refused because it was too controversial. In the song Petty sings about being in love with multiple girls on different drugs:

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, crystal meth, china white (a slang term for

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) and

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and being a

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. In the chorus Petty states: "Through ecstasy, crystal meth and

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/ I found no drug compares to you / All these pills, all this weed / I dunno just what I need."

Track listing

* "You Don't Know How It Feels" * "House in the Woods" * "Girl on LSD" * " Mary Jane's Last Dance" * " Something in the Air"

Personnel

– lead vocals, guitars, bass guitar, harmonica, harmony vocals * Mike Campbell – electric guitar *

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– keyboards *

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– drums *

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– percussion *

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– harmony vocals

Charts

Weekly charts

Year-end charts

References

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