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"Tell Me You Love Me" is a song recorded by American singer
Demi Lovato Demetria Devonne Lovato ( ; born August 20, 1992), known as Demi Lovato, is an American singer, songwriter, and actress. After appearing on the children's television series ''Barney & Friends'' (2002–2004), Lovato rose to prominence for pl ...
. It was written by
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, Stint and
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, with production handled by the latter two. The track was initially released through
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,
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and
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on August 24, 2017, as the first promotional single from Lovato's sixth studio album of the same name (2017). It was released as the second and final single from the album on November 14, 2017. Lyrically, the song uses relationship metaphors to reference theme of
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. "Tell Me You Love Me" received acclaim from music critics, who praised its production and Lovato's vocals. The song impacted
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radios on January 22, 2018. Commercially, the song reached the top 40 in Canada and the top 20 in Panama.


Production

"Tell Me You Love Me" was written by
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,
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and
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for Lovato's sixth studio album of the same name. It was produced by Stint and Hill. Both producers performed the instruments for the song, including bass, drums, guitar, horn, and piano.
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also served as its vocal producer, with Scott Robinson contributing as the additional vocal producer. The song features backing vocals by Lauryen. It was recorded and edited with guidance by Rob Cohen at Rodeo Recordings, located in
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and Venice Way Studios in North Vancouver, Canada. Lovato recorded the vocals for the song with guidance by Zeke Mishanec at
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in
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. The song was engineered for mix by John Hanes, and eventually mixed by Serban Ghenea. It was finally
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by
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and Will Quinnell. During the album pop-up exhibition in New York City, Lovato revealed that the song was "really stuck" with her when she heard it for the first time. She explained, "At the time I was going through a breakup. It's about the vulnerability of coming out of a very serious relationship and having a tough time with it. It also at the same time calls out a big misconception with the line, 'You ain't nobody 'til you got somebody,' which again comes from that vulnerability with mixed emotions." In an interview with the
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, Lovato named "Tell Me You Love Me" as her favorite track on the album, later explaining that "It said exactly what I was wanting to tell that person. I wanted to hear them tell me that they loved me."


Release

Lovato published a black-and-white teaser on August 23, 2017, on social media, announcing the new album, with "Tell Me You Love Me" playing in the background. The clip shows Lovato singing the song in a studio, as it fades into the album artwork. It was released to radio as the album's second and final single from the album on November 14, 2017. An official remix of the song by
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was released on December 15, 2017. The second official remix of the song by American electronic musician
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was released on January 5, 2018. On March 8, 2018, Lovato released a remix
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, featuring the original version of the track, the two previous remixes,
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and
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versions and a live acoustic performance. On March 23, 2018, the EP was re-released, and one remix of the song by
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was released.


Composition

"Tell Me You Love Me" is written in the key of
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with a
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of 72 beats per minute in
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. The song follows a chord progression of Em–D–C, and Lovato's vocal range spans from the low note of A3 to the high note of G5.


Critical reception

"Tell Me You Love Me" received acclaim from music critics, who mostly complimented its production and Lovato's vocals. Elias Leight of ''
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'' called the song "a swelling ballad full of horns and handclaps". Mike Wass of
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described the song as "a fiery mid-tempo anthem". Jeff Benjamin of
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called the song a "booming ballad". Deepa Lakshmin of
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described Lovato's vocals as "sweeping". Raisa Bruner of ''
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'' described the song as a "lush and dramatic love song" that had "powerful hand-clap chorus and big horns". While reviewing the album, Jamieson Cox of ''
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'' described the song as "a desperate plea for affection that gradually morphs into a declaration of self-love".


Music video


Background and synopsis

The music video for "Tell Me You Love Me" was directed by
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, who had previously worked with Lovato on the video for her 2011 single "
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". The video co-starred actor Jesse Williams. About filming the music video, Lovato commented, " hooting the music videowas really fun too! We had a full on wedding and my best friends were even my bridesmaids and groomsmen." The music video is six minutes and forty-seven seconds long. The first two minutes of the video are dedicated to the couple's engagement as well as the jealousies that strain their relationship before their wedding. The track eventually begins during the wedding sequence where, after a few suspenseful moments, Williams' groom tells Lovato's bride he is not ready and leaves her at the altar to the shock of their family and friends. The video ends with Lovato singing "''Everything I need, is standing right in front of me, I know that we will be alright, alright''" as she stands in front of a mirror.


Release and reception

On November 22, 2017, Lovato posted a photo of herself in a wedding dress on her social media with no description. Rumors of the possibility of the photo being a sneak peek from the music video were made on social media. On November 27, 2017, Lovato announced that the official music video for the song would be released on December 1, 2017, by posting a wedding invitation from Lovato and Williams. According to
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' president David Massey, the music video reached 10 million views on its first day. Megan Armstrong of ''
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'' praised Lovato and Williams' acting performances, saying they "make it hard to believe they aren't actually a couple in real life." Markos Papadatos of ''Digital Journal'' said the music video was "superb from start to finish" and called it one of Lovato's "most compelling videos". Sara M Moniuszko of ''
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'' praised the music video as one that "perfectly matches the emotional and longing lyrics of the track." Kaitlyn Tiffany of ''
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'' described the video as "a Lifetime movie you can watch at your desk".
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listed the video 11th among the best music videos of the year.


Live performances

On October 5, 2017, the singer performed the song for the first time on television on ''
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'', where she also performed " Sorry Not Sorry". On November 10, 2017, Lovato performed the song at
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''. On November 12, 2017, Lovato performed a medley of "Sorry Not Sorry" and "Tell Me You Love Me" at the 2017 MTV Europe Music Awards. The song was on Lovato's set list for the 2017 Jingle Ball Tour. On December 19, 2017, Lovato performed the song on the live finale of ''
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''. Lovato performed the track on ''
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'' on January 15, 2018. The song serves as the encore to the
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, where Lovato sings accompanied by a guest choir while
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is raining down.


Track listings

*Digital download #
  • "Tell Me You Love Me" – 3:56 *Digital download – NOTD Remix #"Tell Me You Love Me"  – 3:00 *Digital download – Dave Audé Remix #"Tell Me You Love Me"  – 3:45 *Digital download – Remixes #"Tell Me You Love Me" – 3:56 #"Tell Me You Love Me"  – 3:46 #"Tell Me You Love Me"  – 3:01 #"Tell Me You Love Me"  – 3:57 #"Tell Me You Love Me"  – 3:58 #"Tell Me You Love Me"  – 2:37 #"Tell Me You Love Me"  – 3:28


    Credits and personnel

    Recording and management *Recorded at Rodeo Recordings (
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    ) and Venice Way Studios ( North Vancouver, BC,
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    ) *Vocals recorded at
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    (
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    ) *Mixed at MixStar Studios (
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    ) *Mastered at
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    (New York City) *Published by Rodeoman Music (GMR), EMI April Music, WB Music Corp. (
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    ), Roc Nation Music (ASCAP), A Song A Day (ASCAP), Stint Music Publishing (
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    ) Personnel *
    Demi Lovato Demetria Devonne Lovato ( ; born August 20, 1992), known as Demi Lovato, is an American singer, songwriter, and actress. After appearing on the children's television series ''Barney & Friends'' (2002–2004), Lovato rose to prominence for pl ...
    – lead vocals *
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    – production, bass, drums, guitar, horn, piano, programming *Stint – production, bass, drums, guitar, horn, piano, programming *
    Mitch Allan Mitchell Allan Scherr, known professionally as Mitch Allan, is an American record producer, songwriter, and musician. He has written and produced songs for artists such as Demi Lovato, Third Eye Blind, Miley Cyrus, Carlie Hanson, Jason Derulo, Pi ...
    – vocal production *Scott Robinson – additional vocal production *Rob Cohen – recording, editing *Zeke Mishanec – vocals recording *Serban Ghenea – mixing *John Hanes – mixing engineering * Dave Palmer – keyboards *
    Kirby Lauryen Kirby Lauryen Dockery, also known by the stage names Kirby (stylized as KIRBY) and Kirby Lauryen, is an American singer-songwriter. She has written pop songs such as "FourFiveSeconds" performed by Rihanna, Kanye West, and Paul McCartney. Kirby is ...
    – background vocals *
    Chris Gehringer Chris Gehringer (born May 27, 1962) is an American mastering engineer, known for having mastered recordings such as Gwen Stefani's '' Love. Angel. Music. Baby.'' (2004), Rihanna's '' Loud'' (2010), Lady Gaga's '' Born This Way'' (2011) and Drake' ...
    – mastering *Will Quinnell – mastering Credits adapted from the liner notes of ''Tell Me You Love Me''.


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    References

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