Susan Horowitz CainWomen Transforming Our Communities and the World
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misunderstands and undervalues the traits and capabilities of

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people. In 2015, she co-founded

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, a mission-based company with initiatives in the areas of children (parenting and education), lifestyle, and the workplace. Her 2016 follow-on book, '' Quiet Power: The Secret Strengths of Introverts'', focused on introverted children and teens, the book also being directed to their educators and parents. Her book '' Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole'' (2022) focused on accepting feelings of sorrow and

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as inspiration to experience sublime emotions—such as beauty and wonder and transcendence—to counterbalance the "normative sunshine" of society's pressure to constantly be positive.

Early years and education

Cain is the youngest of three children, and was raised in

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. She graduated with an A.B. in English from

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in 1989 after completing a 91-page-long senior thesis titled "A Study of

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and

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." She earned a J.D. degree from

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in 1993.

Career

Cain worked for seven years as an attorney at

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, and then as a negotiations consultant as owner and principal of The Negotiation Company. She has been a fellow and a faculty/staff member of the Woodhull Institute for Ethical Leadership, an educational non-profit organization. She left her careers in corporate law and consulting for a quieter life of writing at home with her family, likening her years as a Wall Street lawyer to "time spent in a foreign country".

Background and motivation for ''Quiet''

Cain explained that if she were not a writer she would want to be a research psychologist. Her interest in writing about introversion reportedly stemmed from her own difficulties with public speaking, which made Harvard Law School "a trial". While still an attorney, Cain noticed that others at her firm were putting personality traits like hers to good use in the profession, and that gender ''per se'' did not explain those traits. She eventually realized that the concepts of introversion and extroversion provided the "language for talking about questions of identity" that had been lacking. She explained that in writing ''Quiet'' she was fueled by the passion and indignation that she imagined fueled the 1963 feminist book, ''

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''. She likened introverts today to women at that time—second-class citizens with gigantic amounts of untapped talent. Saying that most introverts aren't aware of how they are constantly spending their time in ways that they would prefer not to be and have been doing so all their lives, Cain explained that she was trying to give people entitlement in their own minds to be who they are. She said she was interested in working with parents and teachers of introverted children and to re-shape workplace culture and design, and in particular replace what she terms "The ''New''

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" with an environment more conducive to deep thought and solo reflection.

''Quiet, Quiet Power,'' and ''Quiet Journal''

Cain, a self-described introvert, had grappled with her own introversion as a Wall Street attorney before writing '' Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking''. In contrast, she described the time of creating ''Quiet''—seven years of reading, researching, and thinking—as "total bliss". Initially concerned that the book would be merely a "highly idiosyncratic project", she found instead that New York book publishers engaged in a bidding war. ''Quiet'' was published January 24, 2012. Cain wrote that her year of preparation before her February 2012

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talk had unfolded in "three stages of accelerating dread", so she joined

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and scheduled a two-hour crash course with TED's speaking coach. But saying her butterflies had turned into "gut-wrenching knots", she worked for six full days with an acting coach immediately before the talk. Three months after the talk, Cain confirmed her April 2011 prediction that the ensuing year would be her Year of Speaking Dangerously, writing that she had metamorphosed into what she termed an "impossibly

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creature: the Public Introvert". ''

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's'' Megan Garber remarked that the ideas spread by TED are becoming defined by the

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of the speaker who presents them, citing Cain in particular as representing the idea of the power of introversion in an extrovert-optimized world. Chris Weller quipped in ''Business Insider'' that Cain had become "the

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of introverts". Within one week of its publication, ''

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' '' Jenna Goudreau noted that ''Quiet'' was featured by several major media outlets and was shared extensively across the Web, Goudreau observing that readers said they felt validated and seen for the first time. Cain spoke at leadership, management, training and education conferences throughout the U.S. and internationally. By 2015 she had delivered more than 100 speeches, sometimes receiving five figures per appearance, in addition to her ''

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'' work. ''

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's'' Debra Donston-Miller had noted that the idea of introversion and extroversion was being widely discussed due in large part to media coverage of ''Quiet''. Within a year of her first TED talk, Cain had formed an online public speaking and communication class for introverts, said to emphasize authenticity over showmanship. She collaborates with

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to design office spaces to include quiet areas where workers can have privacy for a time, in contrast to

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offices. In 2016, Cain co-authored '' Quiet Power: The Secret Strengths of Introverts'', which focused on introverted children and teens, the book also directed to their educators and parents. In 2018, she began co- curating the Next Big Idea

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, focusing on books about psychology, business, happiness, and productivity. On March 31, 2020, Cain published ''Quiet Journal: Discover Your Secret Strengths and Unleash Your Inner Power,'' a journal with a first section directed to self-assessment, and a second section for applying that self-knowledge and prompting action.

The Quiet Revolution

Cain's second TED talk (2014) formally announced the Quiet Revolution—a "venture backed, mission-based" organization for transforming office architecture to combat the erosion of focus and privacy in modern offices, forming a Quiet Leadership Institute to help organizations train introverted leaders, and empowering quiet children. The organization focuses on areas including children, life, and the workplace, while providing training programs and learning tools for client organizations to use in managing employees. More specifically, the organization formed an online education course for parents, a co-branded lifestyle section in ''

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'', a podcast, a website to support a community including writers and advocates, and young-adult books and shows whose heroines are quiet leaders. Quiet Revolution implemented a Quiet Ambassador initiative, for which it trained volunteers to be embedded in schools, businesses and other participating organizations.

''Bittersweet''

Cain's third TED talk (2019), "The hidden power of sad songs and rainy days", preceded her April 5, 2022 book, '' Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole''. The book's theme is to accept feelings of sorrow and

as inspiration to experience sublime emotions—such as beauty and wonder and transcendence—to counterbalance the "normative sunshine" of society's pressure to constantly be positive.

Awards and achievements

* 2012, February: ''

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'' reached No. 4 on ''

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'' Best Seller list (hardcover non-fiction category). * 2012: Cain's first

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video received its first million views faster than any other TED video, and within nine months had entered the 98th percentile (20th of 1380 videos) of most viewed TED videos of all time. * 2012, July: Nathan Heller's Culture Desk piece in ''

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'' listed Cain's talk among five key TED Talks exemplifying the appeal of that lecture series, citing her presentation of a counterintuitive data-based argument as a miniature theatre piece. * 2012, November: Cain was featured in the PBS-AOL '' Makers'' video initiative for recognizing trailblazing women. * 2012, December: ''Quiet'' was named in numerous "Best of 2012" book lists. * 2012, December: Cain was named one of five top Princeton alumni newsmakers for 2012. * 2013, February: ''

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's'' Mitch Joel listed Cain's TED Talk among "10 TED Talks to Help You Reimagine Your Business". * 2013, April:

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named Cain recipient of its 2013 "Golden Gavel Award", given annually to an individual distinguished in the fields of communication and leadership. * 2013, September: Cain received Harvard Law School's "Celebration 60" Award. * 2014, March: Cain was one of the "TED All-Stars", with Cain presenting for a second time at TED's thirtieth anniversary conference. * 2014, May: Cain was listed in '' Inc.'' magazine as being among the 50 most influential leadership and management experts. * 2015, ''Quiet'' had sold more than two million copies worldwide * 2016, May: ''

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'' started at #4 on ''The New York Times'' Best Seller list (children's middle grade hardcover category). * 2018, November: Cain was included in

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driving global business conversation". * 2022, April: ''The New York Times'' listed '' Bittersweet'' as #1 bestseller in both "Hardcover Nonfiction" and "Combined Print & E-Book Nonfiction" categories.

Selected work

"Quiet: The Power of Introverts / How to thrive in a world that can't stop talking"
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