"Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" is a song written by English musician

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and songwriter

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. It was recorded by Elton John and released in 1976, both as a single and as part of the '' Blue Moves'' album. It was John's second single released by

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. The song is a mournful ballad about a romantic relationship which is falling apart. The song also appeared the following year on '' Greatest Hits Volume II'', though for copyright reasons it no longer appears on the current version of that album. It now appears on ''

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'', '' The Very Best of Elton John'' and in '' Greatest Hits 1970–2002'', as well as a number of other compilations.

Background and composition

"Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" is a mournful ballad about a romantic relationship that is falling apart.

said: "It's a pretty simple idea, but one that I think everyone can relate to at one point or another in their life. That whole idealistic feeling people get when they want to save something from dying when they basically know deep down inside that it's already dead. It's that heartbreaking, sickening part of love that you wouldn't wish on anyone if you didn't know that it's inevitable that they're going to experience it one day."

began writing the song in 1975 in Los Angeles. Whilst many of his songs involved Taupin writing lyrics first, then John writing the music later, John wrote the melody and most of the lyrics for "Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word", and Taupin completed it afterwards. John explained: "I was sitting there and out it came, 'What have I got to do to make you love me.'" Taupin later said: "I don't think he was intending on writing a song, but we were sitting around an apartment in Los Angeles, and he was playing around on the piano and he came up with this melody line, and I said, 'Hey, that's really nice.' For some reason this lyrical line, 'Sorry seems to be the hardest word' ran through my head, and it fit perfectly with what he was playing. So I said, 'Don't do anything more to that, let me go write something,' so I wrote it out in a few minutes and we had the song." Taupin added: "

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teresting thing about 'Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word' is that it's one of the rare occasions when Elton played me a melody line that inspired a lyric, as opposed to our routine of the lyrics always coming first. He was messing around on the piano one day and was playing something and asked me what did I think. It was actually pretty immediate, the title and the first couple of lines came into my head in a way that I guess I felt they were already there and just needed a little prompting."

Reception

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'' praised John's vocal performance, calling it "almost painfully sincere and believable" and also commented on the complexity of the backing vocals. '' Cash Box'' called it "a tender love song about breaking up."

Personnel

– piano, vocals *

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* Carl Fortina – accordion *

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– electric piano, strings arrangement * Kenny Passarelli – bass

Commercial performance and certifications

The song was a Top 20 hit, reaching No. 11 in the United Kingdom, No. 6 in the United States and No. 3 in Canada. In addition, the song went to No. 1 on the US and Canadian Adult Contemporary charts. In the US, it was certified Gold on 25 January 1977 by the RIAA.

Chart history

Weekly charts

Year-end charts

Sales and certifications

Blue version

"Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" was

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in 2002 by English boy band

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for their second studio album, '' One Love'' (2002). The song was recorded as a collaboration with Elton John and was the second single from the album. It peaked at number one on the

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on 15 December 2002, giving Blue their second number-one single and John his fifth. It also reached number one in Hungary and the Netherlands, and peaked within the top 10 in an additional 16 countries.

Background

When Blue's second studio album, ''One Love'', was being put together, executive producer Hugh Goldsmith said that a cover version should be included on the final tracklist. Band member Lee Ryan suggested "Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" as it was his favourite song of all time. Despite reservations from the rest of the group, who were sceptical that Elton John would allow them to record the track, John's management gave permission. John accompanied the band in the recording studio and was originally only going to play the piano, but he later said he was willing sing as well, and the song became a duet.

Track listings

UK CD1 # "Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" (radio edit) – 3:31 # "Lonely This Christmas" – 2:08 # "Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" (Ruffin Ready Soul Mix) – 3:51 # Video interactive element – 3:30 UK CD2 # "Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" (radio edit) – 3:31 # "Album Medley" – 5:44 # "Sweet Thing" – 3:38 # Video interactive element – 3:30 UK cassette single # "Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" (radio edit) – 3:31 # "Album Medley" – 5:44 # "Sweet Thing" – 3:38

Personnel

Personnel are taken from the UK CD1 liner notes. *

– music, featured vocals *

– lyrics *

– vocals *

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– production * Max Dodson – photography

Charts

Weekly charts

Year-end charts

Decade-end charts

Certifications

Release history

Other versions

The song was covered by

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in 1991 for the '' Two Rooms: Celebrating the Songs of Elton John & Bernie Taupin'' tribute album. Cocker is quoted in the album liner notes: In 1993, Argentinian singer

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covered and translated the lyrics in Spanish called "Ya no hay forma de pedir perdón", which made the single popular and a favourite among Argentinians. Mary J. Blige also covered this song. In 2004, Elton John and

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performed the song on Charles' duet album, '' Genius Loves Company''. It would turn out to be the last recording Charles ever did before his death that June. The duet was nominated for a

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. It was also performed by smooth jazz saxophonist

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on the soprano saxophone featuring

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on his 2004 album '' At Last...The Duets Album'' later that year. The single was the lead single for the eight-track remix compilation '' Good Morning to the Night'' in collaboration with Australian remixer Pnau, which came out on 16 July 2012. In 2015, the song was covered by

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. This version was included on her ''

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References

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