The term "singleton" describes those who live in a single-person household, especially those who prefer the lifestyle of living alone. It was popularized by the ''
Bridget Jones'' novels and films, but it is also used in
sociology.
Patterns
Sociologist
Eric Klinenberg reports that before the 1950s, no society had large numbers of people living alone. Historically, this has happened when elderly people outlive their spouses, and when men have
migrated for work
A migrant worker is a person who migrates within a home country or outside it to pursue work. Migrant workers usually do not have the intention to stay permanently in the country or region in which they work.
Migrant workers who work outsi ...
. In modern times, large numbers of people have begun to live happily alone in cities and with the help of communication technologies like the
telephone,
email, and
social networking service
A social networking service or SNS (sometimes called a social networking site) is an online platform which people use to build social networks or social relationships with other people who share similar personal or career content, interests, act ...
s. Klinenberg has found that the ability of women to work, own property, and initiate
divorce creates more opportunities for living alone; in countries like
Saudi Arabia where women do not have
autonomy
In developmental psychology and moral, political, and bioethical philosophy, autonomy, from , ''autonomos'', from αὐτο- ''auto-'' "self" and νόμος ''nomos'', "law", hence when combined understood to mean "one who gives oneself one's ...
, few people live alone.
Single people
In legal definitions for Interpersonal relationship, interpersonal status, a single person refers to a person who is not in committed relationships, or is not part of a civil union. In common usage, the term 'single' is often used to refer to some ...
may live alone before their first
romantic partner, after separation, divorce, the end of a
cohabiting relationship or after their partner has died.
Couples, married or not, may maintain separate residences as an alternative to cohabitation in a
long distance relationship
A long-distance relationship (LDR) or long-distance romantic relationship (LDRR) is an intimate relationship between partners who are geographically separated from one another. Partners in LDRs face geographic separation and lack of face-to-face ...
, a temporary separation due to troubles in the relationship, or simply
living apart together
Couples living apart together (LAT) have an intimate relationship but live at separate addresses. It includes couples who wish to live together but are not yet able to, as well as couples who prefer to (or must) live apart, for various reasons.
...
.
The number of singletons is correlated with how wealthy the country is.
In wealthy countries, people are more likely to choose the
privacy
Privacy (, ) is the ability of an individual or group to seclude themselves or information about themselves, and thereby express themselves selectively.
The domain of privacy partially overlaps with security, which can include the concepts of a ...
,
individualism, and sometimes the
loneliness
Loneliness is an unpleasant emotional response to perceived isolation. Loneliness is also described as social paina psychological mechanism which motivates individuals to seek social connections. It is often associated with a perceived lack ...
of living alone.
In poor countries, most people live in
extended family groups, which provide
material,
social, and
emotional support
Emotions are mental states brought on by neurophysiological changes, variously associated with thoughts, feelings, behavioral responses, and a degree of pleasure or displeasure. There is currently no scientific consensus on a definition. E ...
to each other, as well as imposing the responsibility of similarly caring for other family members.
See also
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Asexuality
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Asociality
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Hipster
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Incel
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Living apart together
Couples living apart together (LAT) have an intimate relationship but live at separate addresses. It includes couples who wish to live together but are not yet able to, as well as couples who prefer to (or must) live apart, for various reasons.
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MGTOW
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Parasite single
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Recluse
A recluse is a person who lives in voluntary seclusion from the public and society. The word is from the Latin ''recludere'', which means "shut up" or "sequester". Historically, the word referred to a Christian hermit's total isolation from th ...
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Sloane Ranger
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Single person
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Yuppie
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Young professional
References
External links
PopMatters
Postmodernism
Social class subcultures
Social groups
Subcultures
Youth culture
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