Sally Stanford (May 5, 1903 – February 1, 1982) was an American
madam
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, restaurateur, council member and the mayor of
Sausalito, California
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.
Born Mabel Janice Busby, in Oregon in 1903, Stanford moved to San Francisco in 1924. From 1940 to 1949, she was madam of a
bordello
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at 1144 Pine Street on
Nob Hill
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[ in a house designed by architect ]Stanford White
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. She adopted the name Stanford as one of many pseudonyms. According to her autobiography ''Lady of the House'', she saw a newspaper headline about Stanford University's winning a football game and adopted the surname.[
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Madam
Stanford ran one of San Francisco's more notorious brothels.[ ''San Francisco Chronicle'' columnist ]Herb Caen
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wrote "the United Nations was founded at Sally Stanford's whorehouse" because of the number of delegates to the organization's 1945 San Francisco founding conference who were Stanford's customers;[Smith, Tyler Stodard]
''Whore Stories: A Revealing History of the World's Oldest Profession''
Adams Media, Avon, Massachusetts (2012). many actual, if informal, negotiating sessions took place in the brothel's living room. Then-San Francisco district attorney Pat Brown's raid on the establishment helped lead to his 1950 election as attorney general for the State of California. The building was demolished in 1961 to build a condominium.
In her autobiography, Stanford wrote: "Madaming is the sort of thing that happens to you—like getting a battlefield commission or becoming the dean of women at Stanford University.[Stanford, Sally with Bob Patterson, ''The Lady of the House'', G. P. Putnam's Sons, New York (1966).]"
In 1967, Stanford made a surprise appearance at the men's luncheon during the California Jaycees
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Annual Convention. She paraded into the San Francisco Hilton
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ballroom wearing a feathered boa flowing down over an ornate, floor-length gown. Seated at the main table were Senator Edward Kennedy
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, Mayor Joseph Alioto
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Biography
Alioto was born in San Francisco in 1916. His father, Giuseppe ...
, attorney Melvin Belli
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and the newly elected California Jaycees president Drew Frohlich. She took the podium after greeting each dignitary with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Stanford then brought the house down by naming each one in turn as a past or present customer.
Politics and civic affairs
In 1950, Stanford reopened the old Walhalla restaurant in Sausalito, California as the Valhalla and took up residency in Sausalito. The opening night was filled with music, lights, and notables from San Francisco and a few Sausalito "celebrities" as well. With her new residency she became active in local civic affairs.[Tracy, Jack."Sausalito Moments in Time."Sausalito, California: Windgate Press, 1983.][ She ran six times for the Sausalito City Council before winning election in 1972 and was elected mayor at 72.][ She also served as vice-president of the chamber of commerce and sponsored a little league team in 1976.
In 1985, the Sausalito Foundation raised the funds and placed a drinking fountain to honor Sally and her dog Leland at the ferry landing. Local potter Eric Norstad constructed a multiple-person drinking fountain with a basin inscribed with the words "Have a drink on Sally." The runoff poured to a long knee height basin that reads "Have a drink on Leland" for the dogs visiting the site.
Stanford died of a heart attack at 82 in Marin General Hospital. She was born in 1899 but never wanted to be identified as being born in the 19th Century.
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On film
*''Lady of the House'' (1978), TV movie starring Dyan Cannon
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Bibliography
* Stanford, Sally, with Bob Patterson, ''Lady of the House'' (1966) (autobiography)
* Gentry, Curt, ''The Madams of San Francisco'' (1964)
References
External links
San Francisco Sheriff's webpage
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