A proxy wedding or proxy marriage is a
wedding
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in which one or both of the individuals being united are not physically present, usually being represented instead by other persons. If both partners are absent a double proxy wedding occurs.
Marriage by proxy is usually resorted to either when a couple wish to marry but one or both partners cannot attend for reasons such as military service, imprisonment, or travel restrictions; or when a couple lives in a jurisdiction in which they cannot legally marry.
In most
jurisdiction
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Jur ...
s, both parties to a marriage must be physically present, and proxy weddings are not recognized as
legally binding
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. Under the
English common law
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Principal elements of English law
Although the common law has, historically, bee ...
, however, if a proxy marriage is valid by the law of the place where the marriage was celebrated (the ''
lex loci celebrationis In conflict of laws, the term ''lex loci'' (Latin for "the law of the place") is a shorthand version of the choice of law rules that determine the ''lex causae'' (the laws chosen to decide a case).''Black's Law Dictionary'' abridged Sixth Edition (1 ...
'') then it will be recognised in
England and Wales
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.
History
Starting in the
Middle Ages
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, European monarchs and nobility sometimes married by proxy. Some examples of this include:
*
Henry IV to
Joanna of Navarre, the daughter of
Charles d'Évreux, King of Navarre, on April 2, 1402
*
Lorenzo de'Medici
Lorenzo di Piero de' Medici (; 1 January 1449 – 8 April 1492) was an Italian statesman, banker, ''de facto'' ruler of the Florentine Republic and the most powerful and enthusiastic patron of Renaissance culture in Italy. Also known as Lorenzo ...
to
Clarice Orsini
Clarice Orsini (1453–1488) was the daughter of Iacopo Orsini, and his wife and cousin Maddalena Orsini both from the Orsini family, a great Roman noble house and was the wife of Lorenzo de' Medici.
Life
Clarice and Lorenzo married 4 June ...
in 1469
*
Catherine of Aragon
Catherine of Aragon (also spelt as Katherine, ; 16 December 1485 – 7 January 1536) was Queen of England as the first wife of King Henry VIII from their marriage on 11 June 1509 until their annulment on 23 May 1533. She was previously ...
to
Prince Arthur Prince Arthur may refer to:
* Arthur I, Duke of Brittany (1187-1203), nephew and possible heir of Richard I of England
* Arthur, Prince of Wales (1486–1502), eldest son Henry VII of England
* Prince Arthur, Duke of Connaught and Strathearn (1850â ...
in 1501
*
Margaret Tudor
Margaret Tudor (28 November 1489 – 18 October 1541) was Queen of Scotland from 1503 until 1513 by marriage to King James IV. She then served as regent of Scotland during her son's minority, and successfully fought to extend her regency. Marg ...
to
James IV
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, in 1503
*
Mary Tudor, Queen of France
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to
Louis XII
Louis XII (27 June 14621 January 1515), was King of France from 1498 to 1515 and King of Naples from 1501 to 1504. The son of Charles, Duke of Orléans, and Maria of Cleves, he succeeded his 2nd cousin once removed and brother in law at the tim ...
, in 1514
*
Anne of Austria
Anne of Austria (french: Anne d'Autriche, italic=no, es, Ana MarÃa Mauricia, italic=no; 22 September 1601 – 20 January 1666) was an infanta of Spain who became Queen of France as the wife of King Louis XIII from their marriage in 1615 unti ...
to
Louis XIII
Louis XIII (; sometimes called the Just; 27 September 1601 – 14 May 1643) was King of France from 1610 until his death in 1643 and King of Navarre (as Louis II) from 1610 to 1620, when the crown of Navarre was merged with the French crown ...
on October 18, 1615
*
Charles I of England
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to
Henrietta Maria of France
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on May 1, 1625
*
Marie Antoinette
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to
Louis-Auguste
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on April 19, 1770
*
Napoleon I of France
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to Austrian Archduchess
Marie Louise Marie Louise or Marie-Louise may refer to:
People
*Marie Louise of Orléans (1662–1689), daughter of Philippe I, Duke of Orléans, queen consort of Charles II of Spain
*Marie Louise of Hesse-Kassel (1688–1765), daughter of Charles I, Landgrave ...
in 1810
Further, a
famous 17th-century painting by
Peter Paul Rubens
Sir Peter Paul Rubens (; ; 28 June 1577 – 30 May 1640) was a Flemish artist and diplomat from the Duchy of Brabant in the Southern Netherlands (modern-day Belgium). He is considered the most influential artist of the Flemish Baroque traditio ...
depicts the proxy marriage of
Marie de' Medici
Marie de' Medici (french: link=no, Marie de Médicis, it, link=no, Maria de' Medici; 26 April 1575 – 3 July 1642) was Queen of France and Navarre as the second wife of King Henry IV of France of the House of Bourbon, and Regent of the Kingdom ...
in 1600. By the end of the 19th century the practice had largely died out.
Many proxy marriages were carried out during the
First
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and
Second World War
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s, with soldiers at the front marrying women at home, often participating in the wedding via telephone. During the First World War, proxy marriage was permitted in Belgium, France, Germany, Norway, Czechoslovakia and Italy.
On 4 April 1915 proxy marriage was legalised in
France
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.
Proxy marriage was common in the US, UK, Soviet Union and Nazi Germany during the Second World War, where obtaining
leave
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* Permission (disambiguation)
** Permitted absence from work
*** Leave of absence, a period of time that one is to be away from one's primary job while maintaining the status of employee
*** Annual leave, allowance of time away ...
to return home and marry was difficult or impossible.
Kansas City, Kansas
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was known for its permissive proxy marriage laws; one lawyer in the city participated in 39 proxy weddings.
In
Italy
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between 1945 and 1976, 12,000 women were married by proxy to
Italian Australian
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men; they would then travel to Australia to meet their new husbands.
Today
, various Internet sites offer to arrange proxy and double-proxy marriages for a fee, although the service can generally be set up by any lawyer in a jurisdiction that offers proxy marriage.
Video conferencing
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allows couples to experience the ceremony together. A unique "space wedding" took place on August 10, 2003 when Ekaterina Dmitriev, an American citizen living in the U.S. state of
Texas
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where the ceremony was performed, married
Yuri Malenchenko
Yuri Ivanovich Malenchenko (russian: Юрий Иванович Маленченко; born December 22, 1961) is a retired Russian cosmonaut. Malenchenko became the first person to marry in space, on 10 August 2003, when he married Ekaterina Dmit ...
, a
cosmonaut
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, who was
orbit
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ing the Earth in the
International Space Station
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, by proxy.
Legality
Gambia
Proxy marriage is legal in
The Gambia
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under
sharia law
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.
United States
In the
United States
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, proxy marriages are provided for in law or by customary practice in
Texas
Texas (, ; Spanish language, Spanish: ''Texas'', ''Tejas'') is a state in the South Central United States, South Central region of the United States. At 268,596 square miles (695,662 km2), and with more than 29.1 million residents in 2 ...
,
Colorado
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,
Kansas
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, and
Montana
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. Of these, Montana is the only state that allows double-proxy marriage.
[Section 40-1-301]
. ''Montana Code Annotated 2015''. Montana Legislative Services. Accessed on May 19, 2016. Proxy marriages cannot be solemnized in any other U.S. states.
In 1924, a
federal court recognized the proxy marriage of a resident of Portugal, where proxy marriages were recognized at the time, and a resident of Pennsylvania, where
common-law marriage
Common-law marriage, also known as non-ceremonial marriage, marriage, informal marriage, or marriage by habit and repute, is a legal framework where a couple may be considered married without having formally registered their relation as a civil ...
s could be contracted at the time.
The Portuguese woman was allowed to immigrate to the United States on account of the marriage, whereas she would have been inadmissible otherwise due to being illiterate.
[
During the early 1900s, United States proxy marriages increased significantly when many Japanese ]picture bride
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s arrived at Angel Island, California
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. Since the early 20th century, it has been most commonly used in the United States for marriages where one partner is a member of the military on active duty. In California, proxy marriage is only available to deployed military personnel. In Montana, a double-proxy marriage is available if at least one partner is either on active military duty or is a Montana resident.[ In the United states if a proxy marriage has been performed in a state that legally allows it many states will recognize it fully or will recognize it as a common law marriage. An exception to this is the state of Iowa, where it is completely unrecognized.
]
Germany
Germany
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does not allow proxy marriages within its jurisdiction (§ 1311 BGB). It recognizes proxy marriages contracted elsewhere where this is possible, subject to the usual rules of private international law
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, unless the foreign law should be incompatible with German ordre public
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(art. 6 ''EGBGB''): this is not the case with the marriage by proxy ''per se'', but would be if, e. g., the proxy was held responsible for ''choosing'' the spouse without further asking rather than only contracting a marriage with a given spouse.
United Kingdom
Proxy marriage was argued for in the House of Commons by Jennie Adamson
Janet Laurel Adamson (née Johnston; 9 May 1882 – 25 April 1962) was a British Labour Party politician who served as a Member of Parliament (MP) from 1938 to 1946, and as a junior minister in Clement Attlee's post-war Labour government.
E ...
in 1943.
In 2014 it was reported that "proxy marriage misuse" was common in the UK, in which an EU citizen
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and non-EU citizen, both living in the UK, participated in a proxy marriage in an outside country. These were sham marriages which allowed one spouse to gain EU citizenship.
Citizens Advice Scotland warns that "It may be extremely difficult to prove that a marriage by proxy is a valid marriage, both legally and for claiming benefits."
Catholic Church
Catholic Canon Law permits marriage by proxy, but requires officiants to receive authorization from the local ordinary before proceeding.
References
External links
Operation ‘I Do’: Moody AFB Attorneys Help Couple Tie Knot
Ernest G. Lorenzen, "Marriage By Proxy and the Conflict of Laws" (1932)
Double Proxy Marriage in Montana (limited to Montana residents and active duty military personnel, all branches)
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