Paul Bernard du Feu (September 1935 – 1 January 2013) was a
Welsh
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builder, painter, author and model. He is best known for his marriages to the feminist
Germaine Greer
Germaine Greer (; born 29 January 1939) is an Australian writer and public intellectual, regarded as one of the major voices of the radical feminist movement in the latter half of the 20th century.
Specializing in English and women's literatu ...
and the poet
Maya Angelou
Maya Angelou ( ; born Marguerite Annie Johnson; April 4, 1928 – May 28, 2014) was an American memoirist, popular poet, and civil rights activist. She published seven autobiographies, three books of essays, several books of poetry, and ...
.
He published the memoir ''Let's Hear it for the Long-legged Women'' in 1973.
Life
Born in 1935 in
Wrexham
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, Wales, the son of a civil servant, du Feu grew up in London. His French surname came from ancestors who settled in the
Channel Islands
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.
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Clapham
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History
Early history
T ...
Old Xaverian Archive
He attended
King's College London
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, studying English literature, during which time he married Shirley Thompson, with whom he had two children.
After graduating he worked as a builder.
Marriage to Germaine Greer
In 1968 after being discharged from the hospital where he had been treated for alcohol poisoning, du Feu met
Germaine Greer
Germaine Greer (; born 29 January 1939) is an Australian writer and public intellectual, regarded as one of the major voices of the radical feminist movement in the latter half of the 20th century.
Specializing in English and women's literatu ...
, then an assistant lecturer at the
University of Warwick
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, outside a pub in
Portobello Road
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and after a brief courtship they married at Paddington Registry office.
Though their marriage officially lasted five years, their relationship lasted only three weeks. Greer later recalled that she had been unfaithful to du Feu seven times during their short relationship, and she had spent her wedding night in an armchair because her husband, drunk, would not let her in bed. Eventually, during a party near
Ladbroke Grove
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, "'
turned to me and sneered (drunk as usual): 'I could have any woman in this room.' 'Except me,' I said, and walked away forever.'"
After this, du Feu posed in British
Cosmopolitan
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, thought to be their first almost-naked male centerfold''.'' In 1973 he also published an erotic memoir, ''Let's Hear it for the Long-legged Women'', for which it is claimed he was paid more than Greer had been given as the advance for her 1970 work ''
The Female Eunuch
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.''
Marriage to Maya Angelou
du Feu met
Maya Angelou
Maya Angelou ( ; born Marguerite Annie Johnson; April 4, 1928 – May 28, 2014) was an American memoirist, popular poet, and civil rights activist. She published seven autobiographies, three books of essays, several books of poetry, and ...
in
Soho
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in 1971, at a literary event for her best-selling autobiography, ''
I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings
''I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings'' is a 1969 autobiography describing the young and early years of American writer and poet Maya Angelou. The first in a seven-volume series, it is a coming-of-age story that illustrates how strength of charact ...
''.
They married in 1974, and exchanged vows two further times, but divorced in 1983. They remained friends, and Angelou helped du Feu financially during his later years.
Later life
du Feu spent the rest of his life in
California
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, both in
Berkeley
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and later in
Oakland
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, where he worked in home renovation.
He died in January 2013.
References
1935 births
2013 deaths
People from Wrexham
Maya Angelou
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