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Michelle Tea (born Michelle Tomasik, 1971) is an American author, poet, and
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organizer whose autobiographical works explore
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culture,
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, and other topics. She is originally from
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and was identified with the
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literary and arts community for many years. She currently lives in
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. Her books, mostly
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s, are known for their exposition of the
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community.


Early life

Tea grew up in Chelsea, Massachusetts in a
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family. Her father was Polish and her mother was Irish and French Canadian. She felt different than other children, and she found early comfort in music. In high school, Tea identified with the
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and artists such as
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. She was also drawn to literary work, including '' The Outsiders'' by
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, the poetry of
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, and the beat movement. When she was 20 years old, Tea read ''Angry Women'' from
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, which included interviews with radical female performers, writers, and thinkers. The book was highly influential to her: "That really made me see that there is a lineage f female writers and a path, and I could really put myself on that," she explained in an interview. During her childhood, Tea's stepfather spied on her through a drilled hole in the wall of her bedroom. She struggled with this abuse, and she was in denial for many years. Tea began drinking alcohol as a teenager. When she was 19 years old, her stepfather admitted to the abuse, but Tea's mother chose to stay with him. It was at this time that Tea decided to move out of her home and relocate to the home of her girlfriend at the time in
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. During this period, Tea supported herself with two
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jobs as a hair salon receptionist and deli shop employee. Her girlfriend, a
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, was earning significantly more money than she did. She decided to go into sex work as well. In the early 1990s, Tea broke up with her girlfriend and moved to San Francisco.


Spoken word and Sister Spit

In San Francisco, Tea immersed herself in the literary and
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scene. It was "...very democratic. There were open mics every night. The poetry was self-taught – punk and hip-hop inspired street poetry. It was perfect for me. I felt I could be my whole self, which at that point was
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,
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,
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and
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.” In 1994, Michelle Tea and
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formed Sister Spit, a queer feminist collective. The group hosted weekly open mic nights in San Francisco, which attracted local and underground talent, as well as more established writers such as
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,
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, and Beth Lisick. In 1997, Sister Spit launched ''Ramblin’ Road Show'', a
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tour that performed in bars, galleries, bookstores, community centers, and other venues in the United States and Canada. The tour was briefly revitalized in 2007 with ''Sister Spit: The Next Generation'', which featured artists such as
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, Nicole J. Georges, Cristy Road, Eileen Myles, and Beth Lisick. In 1998, her first book, ''The Passionate Mistakes and Intricate Corruption of One Girl in America'', was published by Semiotexte/Smart Art Press. The book provided short stories in memoir form, exploring topics such as Tea's childhood in Massachusetts, her teenage interest in the goth subculture, and sex work.


Valencia

In 2000, the memoir ''Valencia'' was published. The book chronicled the life of Michelle, a young lesbian poet, in the
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of San Francisco. The plot primarily focused on the love life of the main character, as she dated multiple women over the course of a year. She explained in an interview, "The 'Michelle' in the book is definitely me, though if it makes a reader more comfortable to imagine it’s all a giant work of fiction, that’s fine too." The book launched Tea into local and literary fame, especially after winning the 2001
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for Lesbian Fiction.


Radar Productions

Tea is known for her work as an organizer and advocate for local artists and writers. In 2003, Tea founded Radar Productions, a
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that produces events to showcase the work of queer writers and artists. She served as the Creative Director for twelve years before stepping down in 2015, so that she could focus on other pursuits. Juliana Delgado Lopera, a creative writing instructor at
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, took her place. In 2015, Radar created Drag Queen Story Hour in San Francisco. The event, at which drag queens read books to kids, now happens in several cities around the United States and in Tokyo, Japan.


Recent work

Tea has toured with the Sex Workers' Art Show. She is also a contributor to '' The Believer'' magazine. In 2012, Tea partnered with
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to form the ''Sister Spit'' imprint. From 2012 to 2015, Tea wrote a column for
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, where she chronicled the difficulties she faced in trying to have a baby with her partner, Dashiell. Her articles documented the stress and difficulty that accompanied fertility treatments and
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, and additionally illuminated gaps that existed for queer couples in a system that was created with heterosexual couples in mind. In 2016, she created Amethyst Editions, an imprint of
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. Tea stepped outside her work as a writer to serve as the Executive Producer of ''Valencia: The Movie''. Based on her novel of the same name, the experimental film was spearheaded with filmmaker Hilary Goldberg. ''Valencia'' was filmed by 20 different lesbian, queer and trans directors, each assigned a different chapter of her novel. The twenty one different 'Michelle' characters "vary in age, gender, size, ethnicity, style and era". Her experiences trying to conceive and preparing for parenthood led her to start the website Mutha Magazine, an alternative mothering/parenting website that caters to those parents that do not identify with mainstream parenting media. Of the project she says "I think there are a lot of women who get pregnant and have babies but they're not part of this cultural traditional ideas of what it means to be a mom and they're not interested in the media that's already out there." In 2018, ''Against Memoir was'' published by
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.


Academics

In February 2008, Tea was the 23rd Zale
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at the H. Sophie Newcomb Memorial College Institute at
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. She did not go to college and, in interviews, has discussed the assumption that she has studied.


Critical acclaim

In February 2019, Michelle won the
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/ Diamondstein-Spielvogel Award for Art of the Essay for her book ''Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions, and Criticisms!'' (Feminist Press, May 2018). While touring together in the year 2000, Tea and writer
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s for their 2004
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, ''Pills, Thrills, Chills and Heartache''. Described by ''
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'' as a "celebrat
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the avant-garde," the book, which includes work by
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, and
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, reached #10 on the ''
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paperback
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list in its first week of release. Moreover, the book was a 2004
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finalist in the Anthologies/Fiction category. Her books have often been nominated in the competition, beginning with the 2001 Lesbian Fiction nomination and award for ''Valencia''. She was awarded the
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by the
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in 2008.


Personal life

Michelle Tea was in a relationship with Katastrophe, a transgender hip-hop artist, for many years. They shared an apartment in the North Beach district of San Francisco. In 2013, Tea married Dashiell Lippman at the Swedish American Hall in San Francisco. In 2015, her son was born. In 2020, it was reported that Tea and Lippmann had broken up. In June 2021, Tea became engaged to TJ Payne.


Published work

* ''The Passionate Mistakes and Intricate Corruption of One Girl in America'' (1998) * ''Valencia'' (2000) * ''The Chelsea Whistle'' (2002) * ''The Beautiful'' (2003) * ''Rent Girl'' (2004) * ''Rose of No Man's Land'' (2006) * ''Transforming Community'' (2007) * ''Coal to Diamonds: A Memoir'' (2013) (with
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) * ''Mermaid in Chelsea Creek'' (2013) * ''How to Grow Up: A Memoir'' (2015) * ''Girl at the Bottom of the Sea'' (2015) * ''Black Wave'' (2016) ;
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, UK * ''Modern Tarot: Connecting with Your Higher Self Through the Wisdom of the Cards'' (2017) * ''Against Memoir: Complaints, Confessions & Criticisms'' (2018) ;
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, UK * ''Knocking Myself Up: A Memoir of My (In)Fertility'' (2022) ;Anthologies * ''Pills, Thrills, Chills, and Heartache: Adventures in the First Person'' (ed. with