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Mary Lee "Molly" Fitzhugh Custis (April 22, 1788 – April 23, 1853) was an Episcopal lay leader in Alexandria County (now
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, Virginia, United States). She was the mother of Mary Anna Randolph Custis who was the wife of
Robert E. Lee Robert Edward Lee (January 19, 1807 – October 12, 1870) was a Confederate general during the American Civil War, towards the end of which he was appointed the overall commander of the Confederate States Army. He led the Army of Nor ...
. Early in the 1820s, Molly Custis helped form a coalition of women who hoped to eradicate slavery.


Early life

The daughter of
William Fitzhugh William Fitzhugh (August 24, 1741June 6, 1809) was an American planter, legislator and patriot during the American Revolutionary War who served as a delegate to the Continental Congress for Virginia in 1779, as well as many terms in the House o ...
(1741–1809) a member of the Continental Congress, and
Ann Bolling Randolph Fitzhugh William Fitzhugh (August 24, 1741June 6, 1809) was an American planter, legislator and patriot during the American Revolutionary War who served as a delegate to the Continental Congress for Virginia in 1779, as well as many terms in the House o ...
, Molly Custis was most likely born at
Chatham Manor Chatham Manor is a Georgian-style mansion home completed in 1771 by farmer and statesman William Fitzhugh, after about three years of construction, on the Rappahannock River in Stafford County, Virginia, opposite Fredericksburg. It was for m ...
, in Stafford County, Virginia.


Marriage and Family

On July 7, 1804, she married George Washington Parke Custis, an orator, playwright, writer, and the grandson of
Martha Custis Washington Martha Dandridge Custis Washington (June 21, 1731 — May 22, 1802) was the wife of George Washington, the first president of the United States. Although the title was not coined until after her death, Martha Washington served as the inaugural ...
through her first marriage to Daniel Parke Custis. Molly Custis thus became
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's step-granddaughter-in-law. Molly's father William Fitzhugh and George Washington were long-time friends, with Washington mentioning in his diaries the hospitality of Molly's mother
Ann Bolling Randolph Fitzhugh William Fitzhugh (August 24, 1741June 6, 1809) was an American planter, legislator and patriot during the American Revolutionary War who served as a delegate to the Continental Congress for Virginia in 1779, as well as many terms in the House o ...
; a visit to William Fitzhugh turned out to be the last time Washington left Mt. Vernon before his death. The Custises lived at
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, an plantation in Alexandria County, Virginia. Of their four daughters, only Mary Anna Randolph Custis, who later married
Robert E. Lee Robert Edward Lee (January 19, 1807 – October 12, 1870) was a Confederate general during the American Civil War, towards the end of which he was appointed the overall commander of the Confederate States Army. He led the Army of Nor ...
, survived childhood; Lee's father Henry had famously eulogized President Washington at the 1799 funeral. Molly's brother, William Henry Fitzhugh, supported his niece Anne Lee and her six children by allowing them to stay at his home in
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,
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where she died in 1829. In 1824, when
Robert E. Lee Robert Edward Lee (January 19, 1807 – October 12, 1870) was a Confederate general during the American Civil War, towards the end of which he was appointed the overall commander of the Confederate States Army. He led the Army of Nor ...
was 17, William Henry Fitzhugh wrote to the
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,
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, urging that Robert be given an appointment to the
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at West Point.


Religious influence

Molly Custis was a member of a family network in northern Virginia that helped revive the state's Episcopal Church in the first part of the nineteenth century. She particularly influenced her cousin, Bishop William Meade. Molly Custis promoted Sunday schools and supported the work of the
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. Molly followed the teachings of the
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, with its emotional surrender to a just but inscrutable God and rejection of transient worldly pleasures.


Death

She died at Arlington on April 23, 1853, a day after her 65th birthday and was buried on the estate. Her husband survived her by four years, at which point Arlington House and the grounds were inherited by their daughter Mary Anna Randolph Custis, Mrs.
Robert E. Lee Robert Edward Lee (January 19, 1807 – October 12, 1870) was a Confederate general during the American Civil War, towards the end of which he was appointed the overall commander of the Confederate States Army. He led the Army of Nor ...
.


References

*^ Death notice and tribute in ''Alexandria Gazette'', May 16, 27, 1853.


External links


Custis and Lee family biographies by the National Park Service
{{DEFAULTSORT:Custis, Mary Lee Fitzhugh 1788 births 1853 deaths People from Arlington County, Virginia People from Stafford County, Virginia Custis family of Virginia Washington family Fitzhugh family of Virginia Bolling family of Virginia 18th-century American Episcopalians 19th-century American Episcopalians 18th-century American women 19th-century American women Burials at Arlington National Cemetery