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Margaret Rhodes (; 9 June 1925 – 25 November 2016) was a British aristocrat and a first cousin of Queen Elizabeth II and Princess Margaret, Countess of Snowdon. From 1991 to 2002, she served as
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to her aunt Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother.


Early life and education

Born Margaret Elphinstone in
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, London, Rhodes was the youngest daughter of the 16th Lord Elphinstone and his wife, Lady Mary Bowes-Lyon, an elder sister of Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother. Her uncle-in-law King George VI was her godfather. Less than a year older than her cousin
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, she was a frequent playmate of the future Queen. During the Second World War she lived at
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and Buckingham Palace, and took a secretarial course. On 20 November 1947, she was a bridesmaid to Princess Elizabeth at her
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to Philip Mountbatten, Duke of Edinburgh.


Career

During World War II, she worked as a secretary for
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. She was a
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– a mix of lady-in-waiting and companion – to her aunt, Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother, from 1991 until the latter's death in 2002. In the
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Rhodes was appointed
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(LVO). She lived in the Garden House, a
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residence in Windsor Great Park. In the run-up to the Queen's 80th birthday in April 2006, Rhodes gave an interview to the
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in which she stated her belief that the Queen would not abdicate. Her autobiography, ''The Final Curtsey'', was published in 2011. She was the castaway on
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's ''
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'' on 3 June 2012. Rhodes appeared in seven documentaries about her first cousin Queen Elizabeth II. On 27 November 2016, Buckingham Palace confirmed that Rhodes had died, aged 91, on 25 November following a short illness. The Queen and the Duke of Edinburgh attended her funeral in the
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, Windsor Great Park, on 12 December 2016, accompanied by the Duke of York, the
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and Countess of Wessex, the
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and
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, and Princess Alexandra, The Hon. Lady Ogilvy.


Personal life

On 31 July 1950, she married the writer Denys Gravenor Rhodes (1919–1981), with Princess Margaret as one of the bridesmaids. The couple had four children and one grandson: *Annabel Margaret Rhodes (born 21 February 1952); she married Christopher James Downing Strickland-Skailes in 1978. They have one son. She remarried (Geoffrey Vallack) Charles Cope in 1986. Annabel was a goddaughter of the Duke of Edinburgh and served as a bridesmaid at the wedding of Princess Margaret. **Andrew James Downing Strickland-Skailes (born 1980) *Victoria Ann Rhodes (born 27 September 1953), a goddaughter of Queen Elizabeth II; married Nicholas Deans in 1974; remarried John Pryor in 1999. *Simon John Gravenor Rhodes (born 22 February 1957), a godson of Princess Margaret; married Susan Simon in 1983. Susan was appointed as an extra lady-in-waiting to Queen Elizabeth II in July 2017.Appendix to the Court Circular, 13 July 2017 *Michael Andrew Gravenor Rhodes (born 8 June 1960)


References

{{DEFAULTSORT:Rhodes, Margaret 1925 births 2016 deaths People from Westminster Daughters of barons English autobiographers English people of Scottish descent English people of Dutch descent Lieutenants of the Royal Victorian Order De Peyster family Schuyler family Elphinstone family Women of the Bedchamber Moorhouse–Rhodes family