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Mary Stachowicz (; 1951 – November 13, 2002) was a
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woman and mother of four, who on November 13, 2002 was murdered by Nicholas Gutierrez in
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,
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.


Murder

On November 13, 2002, Stachowicz attended
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at the
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in the
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neighborhood of Avondale before beginning a favor as a
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translator at the Sikorski Funeral Home, where Gutierrez worked as a janitor. Nineteen-year-old Gutierrez tipped police off when he speculated he thought someone had killed her and stuffed her body in the building's crawlspace. He was working at the funeral parlor and had recently been laid off and was being evicted. Area 5 Cmdr. Lee Epplen of the
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stated that Stachowicz and Gutierrez got into an argument after the woman harangued him about his sexuality, calling him and his roommate derogatory names, police and prosecutors said. Gutierrez told police he became enraged after Stachowicz kept questioning him, said Cook County Assistant State's Atty. Nancy Galassini during a bond hearing. Gutierrez claimed that she proceeded to ask him "Why do you sleep with boys?", after which he became even more angry and Nancy Galassini said "The defendant punched and kicked and stabbed the victim until he was tired. He then placed a plastic garbage bag over her head and strangled her." He then continued to rape her. Gutierrez later concealed her body in a crawlspace under the floor. Prosecutors also accused Gutierrez of
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Stachowicz, a charge that was denied by his defense attorney. In a confession videotaped by the Chicago Police, Gutierrez said he panicked because Stachowicz's trying to get him to change his sexuality reminded him of his mother. "She had this sneer, which reminded me of my mother when she used to beat me...I saw nothing but red," Gutierrez was reported saying in the ''
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''. Later his
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, Crystal Marchigiani, said that it was Gutierrez who had been physically attacked by Stachowicz, and that, "She could not leave him alone." Gutierrez was sentenced to life in prison on July 2, 2007. His defense attorney asked the judge to account for his childhood history of physical abuse, but Stachowicz' son was 100% convinced that Gutierrez should receive the
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.


Aftermath

Stachowicz' murder is the focus of some attention by conservatives, who regard it an unrecognized
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. Groups such as
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have complained about the comparative lack of media attention given to the case which they believe meets the definition of a hate crime against
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and
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s. Conservative writer
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has written about her death, arguing that it should receive the same level of media attention as the death of
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. Catholic Bishop
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, an auxiliary bishop of Chicago who knew Stachowicz personally, called her a "
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for the faith". On the fifth anniversary of her death, Catholic journalist Phil Lawler called for the opening of a formal
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process.


See also

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List of homicides in Illinois This is a list of homicides in Illinois. This list includes notable homicides committed in the U.S. state of Illinois that have a Wikipedia article on the killing, the killer, or the victim. It is divided into five subject areas as follows: # Mu ...


References

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