A ''mama-san'' or ''mamasan'' is usually a woman in a position of authority, especially one in charge of a geisha house or bar or nightclub in East Asia.
In
Southeast Asia
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a mamasan is a woman who works in a supervisory role in certain establishments, typically those related to drinking places. Papa-san may refer to a man in a similar position.
The term is a combination of the English word "Mama" and the
Japanese suffix ''
-san
The Japanese language makes use of a system of honorific speech, called , which includes honorific suffixes and prefixes when referring to others in a conversation. Suffixes are often gender-specific at the end of names, while prefixes are att ...
'' which is a polite honorific attached to a person's name or title, coined by U.S. soldiers in Japan after
World War II
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. This probably has had some influence in its spread to other Southeast Asian countries.
It is considered extremely rude to refer to a woman in charge of a respectable restaurant or inn as ''mama-san''. The proper title for her is ''okami'' or ''okami-san''.
In
Thailand
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and the
Philippines
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, mamasan is commonly used to describe a woman who manages the
female workers in bars and brothels.
To at least some extent, these can be considered the local equivalents of a
madam
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, although the conventions of
bar fine
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prostitution in Asia are quite different from those of street or brothel prostitution in western countries.
Mamasan (sometimes abbreviated MMS) is also used in the United States to refer to the woman managing the staff of Asian
massage parlor
A massage parlor (American English) or massage parlour (Canadian/British English) is a place where massage services are provided for a fee. In the 19th century, the term began to be used in English as a euphemism for a brothel.
Context
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References
External links
Use of term in Vietnam war era
Sexual slang
Slang terms for women
Anti-Asian slurs
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