In 1896, the government of
Madras
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passed the Malabar Marriage Act in response to the recommendations of the
Malabar Marriage Commission of 1891. This allowed members of any caste practising ''
marumakkatayam'' (
matriliny) in
Malabar
Malabar may refer to the following:
People
* Malabars, people originating from the Malabar region of India
* Malbars or Malabars, people of Tamil origin in RĂ©union
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to register a ''
sambandham
Sambandham was an informal mode of marriage followed by Nairs, Samantha Kshatriyas, Kshatriyas, and Ambalavasis among their own communities as well as with the Nambudiris, in what is the present day state of Kerala, India. All of these were m ...
'' as a
marriage
Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a culturally and often legally recognized union between people called spouses. It establishes rights and obligations between them, as well as between them and their children, and between ...
.
It was permissive rather than restrictive law: whether or not a relationship was registered was entirely the decision of the people involved in that relationship.
Initiated by the work of
Sir C. Sankaran Nair, the measure was largely a failure, with Panikkar noting that in the 20 years following introduction of the Act only six such relationships were registered and that all of those involved family members of Nair himself.
Sambandham and marumakkatayam
''Sambandham'' was a form of relationship practiced by the
Nair
The Nair , also known as Nayar, are a group of Indian Hindu castes, described by anthropologist Kathleen Gough as "not a unitary group but a named category of castes". The Nair include several castes and many subdivisions, not all of whom histor ...
caste. Anthropologist
Christopher Fuller has said that, "The Nayars' marriage system has made them one of the most famous of all communities in anthropological circles".
Thomas Nossiter has commented that their system, which included the pre-pubertal ''
thalikettu kalyanam'' rite and permitted both
hypergamy
Hypergamy (colloquially referred to as "marrying up") is a term used in social science for the act or practice of a person marrying a spouse of higher caste or social status than themselves.
The antonym "hypogamy" refers to the inverse: marryin ...
and a form of
polyandry
Polyandry (; ) is a form of polygamy in which a woman takes two or more husbands at the same time. Polyandry is contrasted with polygyny, involving one male and two or more females. If a marriage involves a plural number of "husbands and wives" ...
, "was so loosely arranged as to raise doubts as to whether 'marriage' existed at all."
Men and women could both have several partners, and they could both break away from those partners and take other partners with a minimum of effort.
The ''sambandham'' relationship was not recognised by the British colonial government, who saw it as akin to
concubinage
Concubinage is an interpersonal and sexual relationship between a man and a woman in which the couple does not want, or cannot enter into a full marriage. Concubinage and marriage are often regarded as similar but mutually exclusive.
Concubin ...
. The civil courts refused jurisdiction, principally because the relationship could so easily be dissolved by either party to it and because there were no rights of property connected to it.
''Marumakkatayam'' was also a source of angst among the colonial administrators. Expressions of dissatisfaction with ''marumakkatayam'' became prominent in newspapers of the 1870s and 1880s, and were also voiced by the colonial administrator
William Logan in an official report of that period. Matters came to a head in 1890 when Nair introduced a bill seeking legitimisation of the customs in the Madras Legislative Council, causing the administration to establish the Malabar Marriage Commission in 1891. This was to investigate matrilineal customs and was also charged with recommending whether or not legal measures should be used to effect changes to the traditional practices for marriage, family organisation and inheritance.
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1896 in India
Kerala state legislation
Indian family law
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Marriage law in India