Lillian Stokes Bostwick Phipps (July 9, 1906 – November 27, 1987) was an American

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and owner of

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steeplechase Steeplechase may refer to: * Steeplechase (horse racing), a type of horse race in which participants are required to jump over obstacles * Steeplechase (athletics), an event in athletics that derives its name from the steeplechase in horse racing ...

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Early life

Lillian Stokes Bostwick was born in

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, the daughter of Mary Stokes and

Albert Carlton Bostwick Albert Carlton Bostwick (June 22, 1878 – November 10, 1911) was an American banker, sportsman, and automobile enthusiast. Early life Bostwick was born in New York City on June 22, 1878. He was the only son born to Jabez A. Bostwick and Helen C ...

(1876-1911), her wealthy grandfather, Jabez A. Bostwick (1830–1892), was one of John D. Rockefeller's founding partners in the

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. Lillian Bostwick was raised in a

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mansion in

and as a young woman was listed in the 1930 New York Social Blue Book. Her father was a horseman and

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player whose influence on her and brothers

George Herbert Bostwick George Herbert "Pete" Bostwick (August 14, 1909 – January 13, 1982) was an American court tennis player, a steeplechase jockey and horse trainer, and an eight-goal polo player. Biography He was born in Bisby Lake, New York to Marie L. Stokes a ...

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and Albert Jr. led to them becoming involved with the sport of

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. In 1942, her only sister,

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(1899-2001), became the first American woman to hold a

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pilot's license.

Career

In the 1930s, Lillian Bostwick and brothers Pete and Dunbar built and operated Bostwick Field in

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where they hosted international polo matches. While her husband successfully invested in Thoroughbred horses for

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, Lillian Bostwick Phipps purchased and raced a number of

racers. She owned Neji and

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, two very prominent horses that were voted American Steepchase Champions five times in all, and who were both inducted into the U.S. Racing Hall of Fame. Mrs. Phipps won the

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eight times with Oedipus (1951), Neji (1955, 1957, 1958), Mako (1965), Top Bid (1973), Straight and True (1976), and Le Ronceray (1987).

Personal life

In 1928, Lillian married Robert V. McKim of

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, at the

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. Before their divorce in September 1937, the couple had three daughters: * Mary Maude McKim * Lillian Lee McKim (1931–2013), the fashion designer better known as

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, who was married to Herbert Pulitzer, and later, Enrique Rousseau. * Florence Fitch McKim, who was married to

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(1933–2015). In November 1937, she wed

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champion and

breeder/owner

Ogden Phipps Ogden Phipps (November 26, 1908 – April 21, 2002) was an American stockbroker, court tennis champion and Hall of Fame member, thoroughbred horse racing executive and owner/breeder, and an art collector and philanthropist. In 2001, he was inducte ...

(1908-2002), a member of the prominent

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and nephew of Ogden L. Mills, the former

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, at St. Bartholomew's Church. Ogden and Lillian had two more children: *

Ogden Mills Phipps Ogden Mills "Dinny" Phipps (September 18, 1940 – April 6, 2016) was an American financier, Thoroughbred racehorse industry executive, and horse breeder. Widely known by the nickname "Dinny," he was chairman of the family's Bessemer Trust until ...

(1940-2016) *

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(1945-2007), who died as a result of injuries sustained in a fire in her Manhattan apartment. Phipps and her husband maintained residences in New York City, Saratoga Springs, NY, Florida and at

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where she died in 1987. Lillian was buried in the

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, in Woodlawn Cemetery,

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Philanthropy

A community benefactor, Lillian Bostwick Phipps served on the

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of the

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, the

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, and the

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of which she was also its Chairperson. Her interior design team of

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from the inception of their firm in 1960 had been involved with acquisitions and style in all of their fifteen homes and she has been credited with playing a significant role in launching the team.''Phipps Sale at Sotheby's'' by Wendy Moonan 11 October 2002,

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References

;Notes ;Sources * Case, Carole - ''The Right Blood: America's Aristocrats in Thoroughbred Racing'' (2000)

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New York Times, 1987 obituary for Lillian Bostwick Phipps
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