A kothi in the culture of the
Indian subcontinent
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, is a man or boy who takes on an "
effeminate
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" role in
same sex relationships, often with a desire to be the penetrated member in sexual intercourse.
The origins of the term Kothi are unclear. The original meaning was intended as a slur, similar to "fag" or "sissy."
Local equivalents include ''durani'' (
Kolkata
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), ''menaka'' (
Cochin
Kochi (), also known as Cochin ( ) ( the official name until 1996) is a major port city on the Malabar Coast of India bordering the Laccadive Sea, which is a part of the Arabian Sea. It is part of the district of Ernakulam in the state of K ...
), ''
meti'' (
Nepal
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सङ्घीय लोकतान्त्रिक गणतन्त्र नेपाल ), is a landlocked country in South Asia. It is mai ...
), and ''zenana'' (
Pakistan
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). The male partners who perform the penetrative acts are known as Panthi.
Kothis differ from
Hijras as they do not live in the kind of
intentional communities
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that hijras usually live in. They are similar to the
Hijra
Hijra, Hijrah, Hegira, Hejira, Hijrat or Hijri may refer to:
Islam
* Hijrah (often written as ''Hejira'' in older texts), the migration of Muhammad from Mecca to Medina in 622 CE
* Migration to Abyssinia or First Hegira, of Muhammad's followers ...
in that they may take a same-sex lover for a period of time, and they may perform sexual favors for men through prostitution.
Other sources state that the term Kothi is an all-encompassing term for males in India who do not conform to their social gender. So the term Kothi would include the identity of
Hijra
Hijra, Hijrah, Hegira, Hejira, Hijrat or Hijri may refer to:
Islam
* Hijrah (often written as ''Hejira'' in older texts), the migration of Muhammad from Mecca to Medina in 622 CE
* Migration to Abyssinia or First Hegira, of Muhammad's followers ...
, among others.
See also
*
Tamil sexual minorities
Tamil sexual minorities are Tamil people who do not conform to heterosexual gender norms. They may identify as LGBTQIA. It has been estimated that India has a population of 2.5 million homosexuals, though not all of them are Tamil, and not all Tami ...
References
{{Asia topic, LGBT culture in
Hijra (South Asia)
Transgender in Asia
Indian culture