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s when attempting to initiate sexual or romantic courtship. Historically, flattery has been used as a standard form of discourse when addressing a

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commended flattery because it "raises downcast spirits, comforts the sad, rouses the apathetic, stirs up the stolid, cheers the sick, restrains the headstrong, brings lovers together and keeps them united." Regier, Willis Goth. ''In Praise of Flattery'' (Lincoln: University of Nebraska Press, 2007). "To flatter" is also used to refer to artwork or clothing that makes the subject or wearer appear more attractive, as in: * The king was pleased with the portrait, as it was very flattering of his girth. * I think I'll wear the green dress because it flatters my legs.

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