''King Kong Theory'' is a book by filmmaker and novelist
Virginie Despentes
Virginie Despentes (; born 13 June 1969) is a French writer, novelist, and filmmaker. She is known for her work exploring gender, sexuality, and people who live in poverty or other marginalised conditions.
Work
Despentes' work is an inventory of ...
, first published in French in 2006 by Grasset. English-language editions have been published in 2010 by
The Feminist Press
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(translated by Stéphanie Benson) and in 2020 by
Fitzcarraldo Editions
Fitzcarraldo Editions is an independent book publisher based in London, specialising in literary fiction and long-form essays.
History
Founded in 2014 by Jacques Testard, it focuses on ambitious, imaginative, and innovative writing, both in ...
(translated by
Frank Wynne
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Born in County Sligo in the west of Ireland, he worked as a comics editor at Fleetway and later at comic magazine '' Deadline''. He worked for a time at AOL before becoming a ...
).
Title
The title is a reference to the 2005 film ''
King Kong
King Kong is a fictional giant monster resembling a gorilla, who has appeared in various media since 1933. He has been dubbed The Eighth Wonder of the World, a phrase commonly used within the franchise. His first appearance was in the novelizat ...
,'' directed by Peter Jackson. In the first essay of the book, Despentes describes herself as "more King Kong than Kate Moss," saying she is "too aggressive, too noisy, too fat, too rough, too hairy, always too masculine." Later, in a section titled "King Kong Girl," she expands on this reading:
Summary
The book is a blend of memoir, critical theory, and feminist manifesto. Despentes discusses a number of episodes in her life, including the reaction to the publication of her novel ''Baise-Moi'' and its subsequent
film adaptation, which she directed; her time as a sex worker in Lyon and Paris; and her experience and subsequent trauma being gang-raped at the age of 17 while hitch-hiking across France. The overarching focus of the book has been described as "the ways in which our experiences of gender, power, and control are bound up in the vast, multifaceted ideology of late capitalism and our lives are organized around satisfying, or disappointing, male desire."
Contents
The book is split into seven short sections or essays:
''A Gun For Every Girl'' (Prologue)
Describing her target audience, Despentes says "I am writing ''as'' an ugly one ''for'' the ugly ones: the old hags, the dykes, the frigid, the unfucked, the unfuckables, the neurotics, the psychos, for all those girls who don't get a look in the universal market of the consumable chick." She adds that she also has sympathy for men who fall into similar categories: "I prefer the guys who don't make the cut for the simple reason that I myself often don't make it."
''Your Ass Or Mine?''
Despentes considers the backlash to the
sexual revolution and its effect on the self-image of women. She cites early twentieth-century psychoanalyst
Joan Rivière and her 1929 paper ''Womanliness as a Masquerade'', in which Rivère discusses a nervous woman who compulsively attracts male attention as "a step toward propitiating the avenger in endeavoring to offer herself to him sexually." Despentes say this analysis helps explain "the flood of 'hooker-chic' in contemporary popular culture" (p.19). It is a "way of apologizing, of reassuring men" that all women want is to please them, she says. She notes again how this arrangement also hurts men. "What, in fact, is required of a real man?" she asks. "The repression of emotions and the silencing of sensitivity." (p.26)
''She's So Depraved, You Can't Rape Her''
Recounting being gang-raped in 1986 at the age of 17, Despentes explains how she has processed the experience since, and how society demeans and silences women who are the victim of sexual assaults. She notes that "post-rape, the acceptable response is to turn the violence inwards, onto yourself" (p.45) and describes rape as "civil war, a political organization through which one gender declares to the other, I have complete power over you" (p.47). She also discusses
rape fantasies, suggesting that these are the result of a "specific cultural system" that primes women to connect their oppressed position within society to their sexuality. (p.48-49).
''Sleeping With The Enemy''
Despentes discusses her time as a sex worker, in which she initially found clients through
Minitel
The Minitel was a videotex online service accessible through telephone lines, and was the world's most successful online service prior to the World Wide Web. It was invented in Cesson-Sévigné, near Rennes in Brittany, France.
The service w ...
, a French predecessor to the internet . She says one of the things she found most difficult about the job was the "loneliness, sadness
ndfragility" of her clients (p.61). She contrasts sex work with heterosexual relationships, noting that the former is demonized in order to "put across the idea that no woman may profit from her sexual services outside marriage (p.74) while the latter leads to more death through domestic violence. "Women who are fucked for free must continue to be told that they made the only possible choice, otherwise how can they be kept under control?" (p.80)
''Porno Witches''
Pornography "hits the blind corner of reason," says Despentes, directly addressing our "primitive fantasies" and so giving the material an "almost mystical dimension" (p.85). She discusses how censorship has shaped pornography over the years and addresses the arguments of those opposed to pornography, asking "who is in fact the victim?" (p.93), the actors and actresses or the hypnotized audience. She notes that pornography is a "male prerogative" that only values female desire as it occurs "via the male gaze"; turning female orgasms against women "by making us feel like failures if we don't climax" (p.96). "In the end," writes Despentes, "we are all enslaved, our sexualities confiscated, policed, normalized." (p.101).
''King Kong Girl''
Despentes expands on her metaphor of the "King Kong" girl and her desire to escape the confines of femininity. She notes how critical reactions to her novel ''
Baise-moi
''Baise-moi'' is a 2000 French crime thriller film written and directed by Virginie Despentes and Coralie Trinh Thi and starring Karen Lancaume and Raffaëla Anderson. It is based on the novel by Despentes, first published in 1993. The film rece ...
'' focused on her gender and perceived character instead of the content of her writing. "For a man, not loving women is an attitude," she notes. "For a woman, not loving men is pathological." (p.112) Towards the end of the essay she notes: "I have come to the conclusion that femininity is the same as bootlicking. The art of servility." (p.120)
''Bye, Girls'' (Epilogue)
Despentes considers whether or not she would want to be a man ("I am better than that. I don't give a damn about penises," p.132) and whether men even love women at all ("Men love other men," she declares. "They fuck each other via women," p.133). She outlines her own ideal feminist revolution, which liberates both men and women from the current "system of forced masquerade" (p.135), and concludes by describing feminism as "a collective adventure, for women, men, and everyone else" (p.137).
References
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2006 non-fiction books
Feminist literature
Éditions Grasset books
Books about sexuality
Books about French prostitution
Non-fiction books about pornography
Books about rape
French autobiographies